Marriage & Divorce - 25 July 2006

We had a scare two monthes ago when she was late. We thought we didn't want a third for a while, but when we thought she was pregnant we kind of warmed to the idea. Now I've been thinking about it more and I really want another child.

2006-07-25 11:28:08 · 10 answers · asked by ovrwrkdlawyr 2

I dont love him (he cheated..) i cant forgive him.. i cant forget i hate him i resent him..we are so different.. hes not what i need or want... i have goals he doesnt.. we are as different as water n oil..

then why when he tells me he will leave it hurts me so bad...?

i think i m crazy.. help...

2006-07-25 11:23:26 · 14 answers · asked by ce!y 1

Hi, I have been married for 1.5 yrs and was happy until my mother in law and father in law came to stay with us. When I was spending two days away from my home I dont know what they did but my husband started behaving very differently. One day my husbands father talked very rudely to me and my husband and his mom also started shouting at me calling me names and saying that I was basically an egoist only interested in my own little life. I dont know how this happened. I angrily reacted back and my husband did not say a word. When we tried to work things out when his parents left, we started living together again but things have changed. We arent as friendly as we always were, his parents still keep influencing him and basically I dont think he has a mind of his own. He gets influenced by whoever tells him anything. I feel bad and used as I am his wife but he did not support me in front of his parents. What do I do? How will my husband know what a role of a husband is in a marriage?

2006-07-25 11:21:52 · 16 answers · asked by Jasmine B 1

I do not understand it myself.We have 4 children,so that is part of it.I am 40,been married 16 yrs,and the children are 7,11,12 and 15.He treats me terribly lately.Please do not suggest counseling.we are already in it--it is not helping at all!

2006-07-25 11:20:09 · 20 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7

I have been bicurious for several years but never acted on it. Now I want to try it. I'm afraid to say anything to hubby b/c he has been cheated on so many times and I'm scared it will cause problems if he finds out. What should I do?? Our sex life is not that good.We have been married almost a year now and only have sex maybe once or twice every week or so. PLZ HELP

2006-07-25 11:12:43 · 22 answers · asked by bilady_n_ga2000 1

2006-07-25 11:10:44 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

O.K. My husband is into bondage. Hog tying, ball gags, school girl out fits with heels. I used to enjoy it until I found out he was looking at this on the net constantly and masturbating to it. And on the net it's more than just "dress-up" bondage. It gets (to me) degrading and it really bothers me that that type of bondage turns him on. He gets angry/pouts if I don't feel like doing bondage but since I've learned these things about him it's a real turn off. What is this attraction to damsels in distress?

2006-07-25 11:01:35 · 12 answers · asked by mib247 2

2006-07-25 10:58:32 · 12 answers · asked by mamamayI 1

2006-07-25 10:57:07 · 15 answers · asked by nightsh253 1

Last year I had an affair. A long running affair. During which I got pregnant. My husband & I decided to stay together. After lots of problems with the pregancy, I aborted. I have been trying to work on my marraige. And I will think it's getting better, then he will flip out and let me know it's not. He hates me. He use to need me. Now he hates me. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to make it up to him. I love him so much. I messed up bad, but I feel so bad about it. I want it to be back to what it use to be. We wanted to get counselling, but we can't afford it. He has suggested me getting him a woman so it would be even, but now he says not even that would work. I will answer any further questions you have if it will help.

He hates me b/c of what I did & about the abortion. I don't know if we can live like this much longer. He says I ma driving him crazy being close to him and I can't go on w/o him. I feel like I am being selfish by staying or by going..

2006-07-25 10:46:26 · 14 answers · asked by Lindsay S 1

before marriage, specially

2006-07-25 10:45:57 · 41 answers · asked by bb.2007 2

2006-07-25 10:42:54 · 18 answers · asked by outdoorlover009 1

2006-07-25 10:34:53 · 25 answers · asked by Kat 1

We are both 23 and committed to each other. It's very frustrating for me b/c I have such a high drive. We talk and talk about it and she says she'll see a therapist once we both finish college. I'm just curious to hear female opinions on this. It's really hurting our relationship/intimacy. In the past year we have had sex 1 time and only about 3 other sexual acts. I've offered to do whatever takes but when I say this she starts to get hurt and say it's all her fault, not mine. Any advice or similar situations??

2006-07-25 10:33:06 · 8 answers · asked by rwallace13 2

He has never done this in the 10 yrs we've been together.
I've put on @ 150lbs since we got married, and I weighed almost
200lbs then, help what do I do??

2006-07-25 10:28:42 · 22 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1

2006-07-25 10:27:56 · 36 answers · asked by bink 1

2006-07-25 10:24:43 · 2 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1

I am in the mindset that marriage is a good way to end a relationship. I have not seen anyone in my close family be married for more then 5 years, this is where my jaded opinion stems from Im sure. I think that the whole wedding ordeal is all for show, as is the ring,dress,flowers. I have been with my life partner for 9 years and he did propose. Is there anyone else that shares the opinion that marriage is a great way to end a relationship?

2006-07-25 10:21:38 · 14 answers · asked by migurl48706 3

Husband said, I don't want you, I want a divorce then later on he'll say, you are my world and I love you. He always say this wanting to leave me and divorce me, do you think he does want to leave me. He goes to school, he works part-time so I'm the earner because I have full-time job. I quit my school(taking my BA) for him to go to school first and then when he's done, then it will be my turn. Sometimes I think that he's only staying with me until he finish up and thn when he's done in school, he will eventually will leave me. He told me that will never happen, but everytime we get into an argument, he always say, I want a divorce. I need advice, I will be left with nothing because he got to finish his school and I didn't.

2006-07-25 10:19:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and My girlfriend have 2 kids and we were going through some rough times. We'll she had asked me to leave for her to have some space and split up for a while. Well I begged to come home and she just refused like no big deal. Well I was with 2 women while we were seperated.I know that was wrong i should have just waited and gave her the space she needed but it just happend and they hung out and I had someone to talk to and not be depressed about. We finally got back together but I feel like crap.I want my family back to normal but My mind is not right, I keep thinking of if she finds out or what if these girls go psycho and try to look for me. I know Im not perfect far from it, but what should I do. Is this normal to feel this way? And what about the other women how should I handle them?

2006-07-25 10:15:44 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any ladies out there that love having heart felt poems written for them,poems that truly come from the heart.

2006-07-25 10:14:31 · 19 answers · asked by Cobra 5

Would it be lack of communication, lies, or what? When do you know it's time to throw in the towel regardless of how much you love somebody?

2006-07-25 10:13:56 · 22 answers · asked by Irene A 2

her defenses, get intimate on the couch and talk about the day. I love talking to my wife about her day when I get home. Do you have good discussions with you significant other like this?

2006-07-25 10:13:36 · 8 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-07-25 10:13:22 · 4 answers · asked by Migity696 3

2006-07-25 10:10:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for 13 years. He has a 24 year old daughter by his ex. they never married. He claim she gave him hell in their relationship. In present of me, when she is around he never talk's to her. One day, I creep and found out that they talk all the time, because she visit his mother all the time. His mother now is crazy about her. She pick his mom up they do things together. She's married with 4 kids. But mother-in-law told me she said she still feel so bad that she let her son go and that they could had made it, if they both had tryed. What! to me, he claims he don't like her, but when he's around his daughter and mother he talk so nice about her. Are they playing games with me. The daughter tells her mother everything about my husband and maybe about of marriage. Should i trust any of them. And his mother now babysit her kids and they call her grandma. Now my husband is crazy about her kids. Now all of our kids sleep over his mother house now. Help!!

2006-07-25 10:07:53 · 14 answers · asked by FOXXTAIL 2

I do it all the time

2006-07-25 10:03:41 · 26 answers · asked by wildladyreba 2

2006-07-25 10:02:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-25 09:58:26 · 15 answers · asked by Survivor 2

I'm in my late 20's and at the point where I am wanting to settle down. I met this guy less then a month ago, and we really hit it off and want the same things in life, and we have this real connection. The part that frightens me now is that I KNOW I am falling in love, and I am so paranoid about scaring him away. When I talk to him, my hear skips a bit, and I am nervous over the phone cuz I just want to see him so bad. When we are together, time flies and it is the best feeling in the world. How do I keep this feelings in check?

2006-07-25 09:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous