He has never done this in the 10 yrs we've been together.
I've put on @ 150lbs since we got married, and I weighed almost
200lbs then, help what do I do??
2006-07-25 10:28:42 · 22 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when your married to someone its not all about who goes down on who its about how you both feel about one another if he love you and you love him thats all that should matter ...yes i know sex plays a part in every relationship yes that is true but at the same time if he's showing you some effection and makeing love to you .prittie much doing everything a husband is suppose to do then why complaine about him going down on you because it could be worse ..dont let something like that distroy what you ...if your trying new things with him and he's not into it then just enjoy what little you do get until he's ready to go the distance
2006-07-25 15:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by mrquietstorm2u 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Drop 210lbs and you might have a chance. i know many guys love to go down but not if smelly or not attractive to look at. sorry, but that is just true. do you want to give head to a 6 ft 300lbs man or a 6ft 190lbs with a six pack. when you fantasize, which do you think of ?
2006-07-25 10:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Shybruh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl loose some weight. Not anything to do with sex at this point more of theres a good chance you wont live very long the health issues you are facing at that weight is unreal. After you loose the weight tell him "I will if you will" ??????
2006-07-25 10:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and try talking to him. If you can try and come to some kind of compromise.
(give and take) If he still says no then stop doing the one thing that he truly enjoys. Good luck to you.
2006-07-25 11:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by spiderman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of any women who hadda convince any man of such. However if you're really morman, that may be something to consider. Show him something taken from the good book, that makes it the right thing to do for one's wife. :)
2006-07-25 10:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon, for the sake of your marriage, and for your own health, I suggest you start on a good diet, and workout. You are just way too fat, to attract any man.
2006-07-25 10:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't have married a man that doesn't preform oral sex to start with.... However he is suppose to love you my husband would love me skinny or love me fat and as long as it's clean your's should be dining at the y if thats what you want... tell him to piss or get off the pot... Good Luck
2006-07-25 10:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter how much you weigh, he should go down on you. 10 yrs? my gosh thats very odd of him, i would be wondering who hes doing that too
2006-07-25 10:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO A SEX STORE AND BUY SOME TOYS OR MOVIES. MAKE HIM WANT TO EXPERIMENT. BUT YA KNOW, SOMETIMES THATS JUST NOT THE GUYS THING. SOME OF THEM DONT ENJOY DOING IT.
2006-07-25 10:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by ☼♥Manda♥☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. OR make it a bet, if I lose 50 pounds he'll go down on you.
2006-07-25 10:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋