Marriage & Divorce - 25 July 2006

2006-07-25 15:44:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-25 15:35:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, my husband of four years decided to get drunk, screw another woman, and then tell me the next day. oh yeah, he was on his way to serve in iraq, after the fact that he had been home not only four hours from the time he was sleeping with a strange woman who he doesn't even know. what's up with that??? i want to know really is it just in the genes of men to either cheat or think about cheating? are there actually men out there who know what love is, can marry a woman, and actually not cheat on her or think about cheating on her? i'd like to know........

2006-07-25 15:35:34 · 18 answers · asked by Arianne 2

When a man wants anal sex with you and looks at gay porn and likes dildos in the anus does this mean he is gay! To me he could just have a guy do all this.He doenst come across gay but does talk badly about woman.I havent done the anal sex but he is getting pushy and I dont like it!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-25 15:32:17 · 12 answers · asked by jessy 3

2006-07-25 15:31:12 · 6 answers · asked by God Fire 4

I have been with my ex husband for 15 years. He has cheated and lied. I love him very much and I know that he loves me. We fight alot and then we make up. We have children together. DO you think we coulf work this out. We got married in our teens and divorced shortly after but stayed wit each other.

2006-07-25 15:30:02 · 7 answers · asked by angelspooh3 2

and yes he's MY HUBBY!!!!!HATERS FALL THA HELL OFF!!!

2006-07-25 15:15:05 · 10 answers · asked by Bow Wow's WiFeY 1

lazy but a man isn't considered lazy and inadeqate for not wanting to provide for his wife? It is a man's job to provide for his wife, no matter what anyone says. It might not be the 1950's, but then again what was wrong with the 1950's? Families stayed together, crime was low, morals were better, etc. A non working wife is not lazy, it is the husband that insists on his wife working because he can't make a living, that is lazy.

2006-07-25 15:14:18 · 20 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

my husband told me that i have to move out. I have no job nor do i have a sorce of income. I have no family....
I have a child from a pre marrage. I was told to shut up and move out. and all would be fine, If i did not do as i was told he would team up with my ex to take my child.

2006-07-25 15:10:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I are so in love with each other and we want to get married now. We want to have a great wedding for our families to see, but we want to get married now. We cant afford it now but want to get married now. We want to go to the Justice of the Peace and just get married. Good idea?

2006-07-25 15:08:09 · 5 answers · asked by lizzy*lou 2

My boyfriend & I got married three years ago to help him obtain residency. We moved in together and ended up falling in love. We began to refer to eachother as husband and wife (more him than I) But in Dec. 2004 I graduated college and followed my dream of moving to Miami. I went without him because in the back of my mind I would meet a white cuban (myhubby is black) that my family would approve of although in my heart I did love him. Because of the distance we began to argue. One night I met someone else and since I felt lonely, I began to date him and sleep with him. My husband scented this andconfronted me. I confessed but regreted it. That same night he slept with a random woman (a low class 28yr old with two other children from two different men) and she got pregnant. Ashamed, he told me right away. He begged for forgiveness and I moved back to the west coast to find out he began to reject me because he fears the drama that this woman will cause us and hs threatend him

2006-07-25 14:51:08 · 10 answers · asked by qbanichi25 1

Just wondering if anybody out there, hopefully a family law lawyer can tell me at what age a child can legally decide which parent they want to reside with the majority of the time?? I am headed for a legal battle and trying to cover myself. Thanks a ton!!!

2006-07-25 14:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by tapluverr 1

How can I get my husband to agree. I just finished school and now he wants me to work. I don't want get pregnant anytime soon either. He makes more than enough to support us.

2006-07-25 14:39:38 · 52 answers · asked by LETICIA P 2

2006-07-25 14:34:59 · 22 answers · asked by savage_angel_05 2

Mine once said to me:
"You would be happy with A house. Where as I want a NICE house. With NICE cars. & NICE things. "

This is coming on the suggestion that we go house hunting. It was over shortly after that.

2006-07-25 14:29:26 · 28 answers · asked by Winter_Decay 3

I have wanted to leave for almost three years now, but with two beautiful small daughters I dont know how I can afford it. Cannot live on child support alone. I am scared, have never lived on my own before. My husband in our 15 years of marriage has never allowed me to work, because of lack of experience, I am having such a hard time finding anyone to just hire me and give me a chance. Is there any where on the internet I can find help with trying to find affordable housing, I tryed public aid, the waiting list is 4 years, I just cannot do this another 4 years. I think half the reason he treats me this way is cause he figures I can never afford to leave him anyway. I am so unhappy and starting to get depressed...how do women start over, find jobs? I do not know where to begin. I could probably make it if I did not have children, but I cannot ever give them up. How do I give them a good life? Any input would be so helpful. Thankyou

2006-07-25 14:28:59 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i ask my husband about his forigen account, he tells me non of my business what he has, or what he got from his fahter.
when i try to talk to him about that, he shut me off. He make me feels like he does not trust me. We have been married for over 3 years going on four. when i buy someting in here he tell me we need to save money for emergency. When he save money he send most of the money back home. i am really frustrated, not sure what should i say at this time or do. My husband want to know everything about me. He tells me how come i don't want anything from my family ex my father has store in back home. he want to know if i am going to get part of that. when i tell him, i don't want it, it is for my brother. It does not matter what i say my husband talk about divorce. My mom does not believe in Divorce and he takes advantage of that.

2006-07-25 14:22:56 · 25 answers · asked by Deeha A 1

2006-07-25 14:19:23 · 3 answers · asked by kay 1

lets say your wife is searching for past friends from school. one of those friends contacts her. turns out hes an ex of hers in high school and he has never gotten over her. and now writes her and tries to talk to her. tells her how fun it would be to make kids. and he wont tell HIS wife about talking to my wife. Now keep in mind. i trust my wife. but now this guy writes stupid stuff like "You left your panties at my house" he knows full well id read it. he's trying to cause problims between me and my wife. NOW...heres the problim. i told my wife i want contact with this idiot to stop. but she says "He's just an old boyfriend. and all she wants is a friendship. (I beleive her. she wont lie about it) but she doesnt SEE what this idiot is reall up too. she thinks its just dumb of me to get pissed off. she thinks now that i dont trust her. ive told this guy off. and he still prosists. what would you do?

2006-07-25 14:07:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-25 14:06:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-25 14:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by curtis p 2

Its been 10 days since we have

2006-07-25 14:01:17 · 21 answers · asked by Krystina P 2

I met a guy who was married for over 20 years but left his wife because she ran up the credit cards and stuff. I can understand him not being happy about it but isn't marriage supposed to be forever? He married for better or worse and by what he told me, she was pretty upset when he left her. He ended up giving her eveything anyway and ended up with all the bills to pay so I don't know what he got out of getting divorced. He doesn't seem to have anything to this day despite his income as I presume he is still paying off huge debts (he has only been divorce a couple years). I think he would have been better off staying with her because he still has to pay the bills but lost everything. He deserves it for leaving her, but I don't see what he thinks he got out of it and breaking his marriage vowels. I don't know If I even want to consider continuing to see a guy like this. I had a bad marriage but didn't leave my husband.

2006-07-25 13:59:29 · 14 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

2006-07-25 13:58:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a Chinese man and I am borned and live in Canada all my life. My gf is a Caucasion and we have known each other for 2 years.

However, when I tried to propose to her, she is hesistant. It seems there is opposition from her family and friends. There also seems to be negative feelings about her being married to a Chinese.

In fact, ever since she introduced me to her family, it seems it is more difficult to get her to go out with me. It seems her family disapprove of our relationship and her being married to a Chinese. She also seems to be more embarrassed now when she is with me.

So the question is, is there anything negative you feel you have on Chinese men? What kind of impression do you have on them? Do you think they are okay or do you despise them?

2006-07-25 13:57:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I only go out once every couple of months for a "Girls Nite" and I always come home at a decent time.

2006-07-25 13:55:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out this last March that my husband has been cheating on me. I have letters and pictures and I had a divorce ready to serve him with when he got here. He has been working in Iraq since Jan. 2005. When he came home this July he decided he wanted to reconcile. We have two small children and I love him with all of my heart and soul. He was my first everything and I gave myself to him. We are high school sweethearts so you can imagine how devastated I am. But I have some issues with all of this still. I feel like he is still not being honest with me. I have no proof that the relationship with her is over. And I mean relationship, he took her to Italy at Christmas instead of coming back to the states to spend with me and the children. And I hate him for what he has done and I hate her even more. Supposedly this same thing happened to her and yet she did it to me. I am a Christian and I know these feelings are normal and acceptable but they feel so wrong. Help!

2006-07-25 13:50:00 · 12 answers · asked by vvvlambert 2

2006-07-25 13:42:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girl friend recently gave birth to our child but i dont think this child is mine ,i am white so my girl freind but the baby is black
i dont know how to say to her that i dont believe that is my baby
i dont wanna to jump to conclusions but i dont know what to do

2006-07-25 13:42:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Three months before our wedding my husband lost his job. I didn't marry him for his money, but two years and two kids later he still doesn't have a job. I've been working the whole time even when I was pregnant, putting in 60+ hrs per wk. I currently pay ALL the bills and buy all the baby items and our food and clothes. I try to talk to him about it but it turns into an argument. I feel like I'm a single mother. As soon as I come home from work he takes the car(that I pay for)and go runs the streets. I want him to take care of me for a change. After my last child I had to go back to work after three weeks. I still had my stiches. Most husbands wouldn't let their wives do that, but not mines. He just takes and takes. I don't have a life I don't have any friends. All my money goes towards household expenses so I never get new clothesor go get my hair done. He claims he wants to fget a job but I think helikes it this way. When he is at home all he wants to do is have sex. What can I do?

2006-07-25 13:36:33 · 17 answers · asked by cyw 1