I only go out once every couple of months for a "Girls Nite" and I always come home at a decent time.
2006-07-25 13:55:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not go out with single friends, and I have told him to go have a good time with his friends if he wants to but he does not have many friends.
2006-07-25 15:40:55 · update #1
he has trust issues that you guys need to work out. It will probably take awhile but sit him down and talk to him about it
2006-07-25 13:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Chris D 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Because a lot of wives do mess around on their night out. Sorry, and I know that isn't PC, but it's sadly true.
My best friend used to live in the ghetto part of our small midwestern city. He would lie in his room, and see the dudes hanging around at the corner in the summer.
And women would pull up and talk to the dudes for a while, then often one of them would get in the car and ride off, and in an hour or two, they would come back, and she would drive off.
Once in a while, he would recognize a woman from work. I mean a married woman from work, who would the next day tell her fellow workers how she went out bowling the night before.
My view is, I guess he understands this, you are being judged by the actions of other women, which isn't fair, but is a human reaction. On the other hand, there isn't much he can do about it, and if I could talk to him, I'd tell him he just has to trust in you, and hope all is well, because fussing won't help.
2006-07-25 21:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by retiredslashescaped1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much does he go out? do you go out with single friends? these are things that i need to know to make a fair judgment. but if he goes out a lot maybe you should wonder what he's doing. they say you accuse what you are guilty of ya know. if you are going out with singles then it worries them that they will talk you into having toooo good of a time. that's what i find to be true.
2006-07-25 21:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men know that women are very sexual, and he does not like it when you have sex with other guys behind his back. women love it when men notice them, thats why women wear their pants skin tight, or show cleavage when they can, they put on make up, all to look good for men who notice them. this is only so that they can have sex with guys. if you go out wearing a baggy sweat suit, and no make up, dont comb your hair, he would be ok.
2006-07-25 21:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its becasue he likes u up his butt 24/7 and maybe he thinks that yer going to cheat on him or miss out on something..
2006-07-25 21:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of trust. Lack of Budget. Or doesn't like being left alone.
2006-07-25 21:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by oldmoose2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is unreasonable. Jealous. Annoying.
2006-07-25 20:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks you have another motive are you going out to have fun or are you going out to look for guys..
2006-07-25 20:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by cassiday g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get married your supposed to get that out of your system.isnt that what bachelor parties are for
2006-07-25 21:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by breeze28tn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he is insecure and thinks you will find another guy
2006-07-25 20:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by danaspears2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋