my husband told me that i have to move out. I have no job nor do i have a sorce of income. I have no family....
I have a child from a pre marrage. I was told to shut up and move out. and all would be fine, If i did not do as i was told he would team up with my ex to take my child.
2006-07-25 15:10:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
U have every right to stay in your house. If your husband is bullying you go to family court to get protections order. U dont have to leave your house. Dont worry about loosing your kid. He has no right to put u down. If u are in spore contact PAVE for help 6555 0390. They will even give you counselling and assist you in what to you have to do. No matter what, please do not loose faith or be scared - there is help and nothing is a dead situation. Take good care of yourself and your child
2006-07-25 15:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by bright_merry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are legally married, I don't think he he can legally evict you. If violence is not an issue, don't move, contact the police and thumb through the yellow pages and call away for advice and help. Stay there until you secure a place for you and your child and then move, I can't believe someone can be so in human, especially when a child is involved.
You really need to find help asap, and it's not going to be through yahoo answers.
It's naive to think that people would just say "get a job", it's not that easy on short notice, with child and homeless. Child care, transportation, and a place for you and your child to stay. There's no magic wand to make it happen that easily. Hopefully, your husband will come to his senses and let you accomplish this feat.
Sorry to hear of your situation.
I don't know both sides of the story, but try to talk calmly to your husband and come up with a plan of separation.
You are married and in tittled to some kind of financial support.
2006-07-25 22:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is messed up! The only advice I could give you is to contact a homeless shelter in the city or state that you live in and go there... Do you have any friends that you could live with in the meantime until you get on your feet? I feel really bad for you because that is not right and then for him to say that he would team up with your ex to take your child is just wrong!
Im really sorry to hear that.. what a loser.. I hope it all works out for you.. I will pray for you whomever you are... Good Luck!
2006-07-25 22:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by NIKFAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell your husband what you are going to do. Borrow money tomorrow and go directly to a lawyer. Make sure you have paperwork saying you borrowed the money so your husband can't try to take the money. Don't put it in the bank.Take your child with you wherever you go so your husband and ex-husband can't steal him/her. If you can't borrow money go to a place called Legal Aid. Look in the phone book or on the internet. Do it right away. Don't let the creep intimidate you!
2006-07-25 22:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by LL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go look 4 the revelant authorities 2 help u with yr situation. Child Welfare. Or try 2 record his threats on tape and ask 4 help.
2006-07-25 22:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't kick you out if you've been living there. Is the address on your driver's license? In the meantime, get a lawyer and file for divorce on grounds of emotional cruelty. PS They will never give your child to 2 guys even if one is the father, especially if they're not living together.
2006-07-25 22:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have women shelters all over the place where you can go until you get stuff figured out. Look in the phone book under crisis hotline. Or do you have any friends or family you can stay with until you can find a job and get your own place?
2006-07-25 22:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take responsibility for the poor choices you made. Go back to school, hit the streets and find a job. Unless, of course, you would feel more comfortable going back to being dependent on another man for your very survival? Hey, if not for yourself do it for your child.
2006-07-25 22:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask if I could stay a little while till u find a place but if you cant or dont have a friend then they do have a womans shelter .You can get welfare till u get a job .Call dept.of social services in your area.I wouldnt want my child taken away so better get packing quick sounds like.Good luck!
2006-07-25 22:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out and leave him alone, get a job and some income, there r plenty of agencies that will help u and your child. shut up and get to packing away from this person.
2006-07-25 22:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋