okay, my husband of four years decided to get drunk, screw another woman, and then tell me the next day. oh yeah, he was on his way to serve in iraq, after the fact that he had been home not only four hours from the time he was sleeping with a strange woman who he doesn't even know. what's up with that??? i want to know really is it just in the genes of men to either cheat or think about cheating? are there actually men out there who know what love is, can marry a woman, and actually not cheat on her or think about cheating on her? i'd like to know........
2006-07-25 15:35:34 · 18 answers · asked by Arianne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay hunny this is a tough one. but here are the facts. this is a HUGE point in his life (mega stress) but that still doesnt excuse him. i was in iraq the first time. all i wanted is my wife, i was affraid i might never see her again (die) and no not all men cheat. i have been faithful from the day of my engaugement. it is how we are raised hunny.men think about sex every 7 seconds (proved by science) and he was drunk (decission factor to fool around?) good luck to you it sounds like you need it hit me up for a chat welder0964@yahoo. BIG HUG
2006-07-25 16:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by welder0964 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it's in us. We are dogs. What it really boils down to is maturity. Some men got it, some don't. I've been around to watch a grown man cry at his own wedding because he's so overwhelmed about his love for his new bride. Somewhere along the line men (and women) stray. Why? Great question for the masses. My x did the very same thing. I was bold enough to say to myself, hey what the point, she did it once, she may do it again, she may not. The real question for myself was, will I be a better person down the road knowing that my wife was with another man. I divorced on a dime and hopefully that lesson stuck with her to this day. You love him I'm sure, ask yourself is this gonna keep the both of you fighting day in and day out? If that's gonna be the case, end it! Hey, good luck to ya!
2006-07-25 15:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they all cheat..My husband cheated on me and then told me to clear his chest and thinks that should be the end of it. I should never again bring it up too him. Though he can bring up that I have had sex before marriage?? I think he is out there now cheating on me. He has been gone alot lately and he doesnt work so he cant use that! Now that he is in Iraq you cant divorce right? Men are freaking dogs and need to be left outside...I think they will always be this way.
2006-07-26 00:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by tweedy778 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its in every mans genes to have sex with as many feemales as possible to propagate the species.
but then again, most men can control that urge for an extent of time, and some men can control it indefinitely.
there are a few men out there that know what love is and really want it, good men, but like people say, nice guys finish last, and these are the guys that are usually in hiding and don't really want to come out that much.
but if you want, it is your choice of what you are going to do, either leave him or stay with him
2006-07-25 16:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that men mature far later in life then women. Would most men cheat given the opportunity and guarantee they can get away with it? The answer is YES! Women who think they are "the one", and think they are comfy-cozy in a relationship, are in a serious deep denial.
2006-07-25 15:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as actually cheating, many men don't. Most will look. I think most men, if they love, will not cheat. Men are not more likely to cheat than women.
2006-07-25 15:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not all men cheat we have different value's, i am not married and still wouldn't cheat on my partner (if i had one) so after standing in a church with my new wife i would surely make sure she was to mine and i was to be hers and hers alone
it is not just males that are like this there are some ladies out there that are like this
2006-07-25 15:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is a piece of crap to put it mildly. No not all guys cheat and not all guys think about cheating. I mean most guys see a hot girl and think what it would be like to have it...but a real husband wouldn't do it. I wouldn't waste your time crying over him...use him for all he's got like he used you. He's junk material.
2006-07-25 15:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Doodaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all men cheat or think about cheating. Some men know what they 'have' is 'gold' and don't want to mess that up.
My hubby typed that in, bless his sweet heart! Love ya babe!
Good luck hon! Sorry he dogged you. I'm sure you didn't deserve it. No one does!
2006-07-25 15:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's men in general you should be concerned with. Your husband is the problem and I'm sure there are a lot of other things you can point to other than his gender.
2006-07-25 15:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋