Marriage & Divorce - 25 July 2006

everytime my husband drinks he gets really hateful, it's either his way or no way, he acts really immature and he calls me god awful names. i'm always having to take care of him when he gets too drunk. i'm scared to say anything to him or even take up for myself while he's drinking because he gets really defensive and really violent. the next day when he is sober he's always apologizing and saids that he will never drink again but he always ends up doing it again, what should i do?

2006-07-25 17:57:01 · 14 answers · asked by christina j 3

I have been married almost ten years, and my sex life has gone from GREAT! to Horrible, I used to have sex almost every day when I first met my wife, then it dropped down to once or twice a week, now I am lucky if I can have sex once a Month! Please don’t tell me I need to wine and Dine her, or be more responsive to her needs. I am a touchy feely kind of guy, I give back rubs and foot massages, hugs and I love yous are a every day thing. On Valentines Day I did the roses, the big dinner out, I did the chocolates, hell I got a hair cut and dressed up in my finest,,,, my reward for all this was no sex for three Months,, that’s three Months NO SEX! do you even know how crazy that makes a guy when he is sleeping with a woman!! I have tried almost everything. So my question is, is it normal to only have sex once a Month in a marriage? am I asking to much to have sex once a week?

2006-07-25 17:56:48 · 39 answers · asked by amara 2

traditional i mean by not wanting to try new things and kinky i mean like whips,spanking a womans but,using all kinds of different things and having other women in the bedroom to-- just curious--wondering whats wrong wit my husband sometimes---i mean im a kinky type person and sometimes he is not---is it me or him

2006-07-25 17:52:33 · 15 answers · asked by blueeyed sexy blonde 2

He want give me a divorce, my kids thinks it's ok!! They can't see why it bothers me they tell me im just jealous! Anyone have any suggestions?

2006-07-25 17:40:52 · 40 answers · asked by melissa w 2

I have been married for a couple of years... and now my husbands little brother is all grown up and I've gotten a huge crush on him! I find myself comparing my husband against him. Normally I would put the guy out of my mind, but this one I can't avoid at family functions! Has this happened to anyone else? Any advice?

2006-07-25 17:37:40 · 31 answers · asked by Sophie 1

What do u think about a woman who has been divorced twice. Would you think bad about her? Would it change your feelings about her?

2006-07-25 17:36:19 · 7 answers · asked by real_sweetheart_76 5

about a month ago my wife and i disscuss a issue about her and a man she was talking to at work . she said they were just friends but this past monday she told me they were more than just friends. we also have an eleven month old baby what should i do

2006-07-25 17:30:46 · 39 answers · asked by irish99 1

I'm writing a Fan Fiction and I'm stuck I can't think of a good song. Plz help

2006-07-25 17:29:58 · 9 answers · asked by h2 lover 4ever 93 2

Please tell me your experiences of marrying a citizen of the USA and your living arrangements. Were you able to get a job? Describe your challenges and all else.

2006-07-25 17:27:12 · 2 answers · asked by kellz8706 1

2006-07-25 17:22:19 · 17 answers · asked by Robert K 2

What can a person do to show their wife they are willing to do anything it takes to have that "one more chance" I am in seperate counseling to change and we are both in marriage counseling buthave notgone together yet..

2006-07-25 17:10:04 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-07-25 17:06:44 · 19 answers · asked by Kelli 5

My daughter's step girls have no electric at their Mom's house , nor any food. Her and her husband(the kids dad) want to get emergency custody of the girls, before he has to take them back to their Mom. ( in 2 days)

2006-07-25 17:00:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made this for my ex girlfriend a few months ago. I still love her more then ever and just want her to know. Im just wondering if you think it's a good idea to show it to her?
here's the link to watch it...
http://youtube.com/watch?v=DpPqolGtIYA

2006-07-25 16:59:37 · 6 answers · asked by Acknutz 2

when i accepted my bf, i dont know that he still have another one. i thought they were already separated. one time, the girl used his cellphone to text me. i was very angry. he told me that the girl went to their home without his knowledge. he texted the girl later (in my presence) and told her not to disturb US alone because it is me that he loves and not the other one. he now propose secret marriage to me. it is secret becuase my parents might object. im still studying for my doctorate degree. i know he do loves me but im afraid to accept his proposal thinking that he may be unfaithful to me in the future. what should i do?

2006-07-25 16:55:21 · 9 answers · asked by ladyheart 1

2006-07-25 16:48:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you and your
ex-husband or ex-wife
were friends, and both willing,
would you continue a
physical realationship with them?

2006-07-25 16:46:54 · 10 answers · asked by persnickety1022 7

My husband is constantly going on-line to gamble for money and he is also going to porn sites. I don't want him going to porn sites for fear that our children might come across the content that he's viewing and also it makes me feel like crap about myself. I don't want him gambling because he spends too much money. This is taking a serious toll on our marriage and I want to leave him because of it but we have kids so that's what is holding me back. I am always mad at him and never want to have sex with him because I'm mad at him all the time. I don't know what the right thing to do is. We've been together for 17 years. He keeps telling me that he would stop if I showed him more affection. I don't think that it has to do with me showing him affection. I just think that he has two very intense addictions that he can't stop. I feel like life is too short to be unhappy all of the time so maybe the right thing to do is just move on.

2006-07-25 16:45:43 · 24 answers · asked by Blue M 1

wish i could tell u his user id so u could c for urself,but i can't. very hurt

2006-07-25 16:29:52 · 18 answers · asked by Blanca P 1

i've been married 9 years and we 'do it' 3 or 4 times a week

i think we are normal?

are we normal?
how about you?

2006-07-25 16:28:50 · 47 answers · asked by Cap'n Donna 7

my 17 year old got pregnant, had a baby, moved out and now lives with her brother but her mother insists that I pay child support to her until the child reaches the age of 19. What does the law say in Colorado.

2006-07-25 16:23:14 · 11 answers · asked by Nova 1

Does anyone know if you can get a divorce in west virginia if the woman is pregnant???? I know u can't in some states...

2006-07-25 16:17:58 · 5 answers · asked by Kimberly W 2

It is a second marriage for both of us and he says it is best to be very clear about these things. It is to protect me as much as him. Since I dont have any assets to protect I am not sure how that can be. So? what do I do? Do I have any choice? It seems like while I am planning for our future, he is planning for our break-up.

2006-07-25 16:11:45 · 31 answers · asked by carol 2

what do you think about sex before marriage wrong or right? explain

2006-07-25 16:10:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-25 16:05:55 · 23 answers · asked by LETICIA P 2

Had mine pirced a mounth ago and my wife loves it ......

2006-07-25 16:04:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a woman you find attactive and sexy tries to seduce you? I mean seriously putting it out there.....would you get caught up in the moment and give in to the temptation?

2006-07-25 16:04:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wondering

2006-07-25 16:02:32 · 9 answers · asked by JR 1

Women are so much better at sex than men. DAMN, how i wish I was born a lesbian...ah, but such is life. It sucks and then we die, right? Sexually frustrated and in debt.

2006-07-25 15:52:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is it they expect of us after time?

2006-07-25 15:52:06 · 4 answers · asked by yeller 6