2006-07-25 16:05:55 · 23 answers · asked by LETICIA P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
awe well don't worry if it was wrong sweetie , because what goes around comes back around and you will get yours.
2006-07-25 16:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were just as much wrong in that as he was. I would say you need to do some soul searching and try to figure out why you picked someone who was already taken. I would also suggest that you make a commitment to never do that again so you can create a new history...learn from your mistake. Are you having a hard time trusting that he won't do the same thing to you? That's very common in situations such as this..he may find it difficult to trust you as well. That's the consequence of your actions...hope you have both committed to never doing that again.
2006-07-25 23:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't take something that isn't ready to go. If he was really in love then he would not have left his wife for anyone. Now if you kidnapped him then that is another story but I have to assume that is not what you are saying. you need to be wary that if he was that easily distracted by you that he left a woman he gave his vows to then what is keeping him with you until you get older then is he going to move onto another younger woman? I am not saying he is going to do that but it is definitely something to think about. Now if you really didn't want him and you where only going after him because you wanted to take him from her out of vengeance then that would be wrong but if not we all want to be happy right!?
Good luck just keep your eyes open.
2006-07-25 23:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you question your own decision is screaming at you that you made a poor choice. How would you like for that to happen to you? Have you heard of the golden rule "Do unto others as you would like them do unto you"? I seriously doubt that your husband would not dump you for a younger, more beautiful wife. If he did it once, what makes you think that he would not do it again?
2006-07-25 23:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I will say to your "new" husband's wife:
When a woman steals your husband, there is no better revenge than to let her keep him.
You knew fully well when you started the affair what can happen. You should have nipped it in the bud. Now it is too late. Is this remorse or what? Of course, it is wrong.
2006-07-25 23:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very wrong i was the wife that got left once and you couldn't find a man of your own so u stole someone elses
2006-07-25 23:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by terrysgirl0206 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!!! you are wrong. im not in the position to condemn you. you probably loved the guy that much that you were able to do any means to have him...but everything has its own consequences. bear in mind that BORROWED HAPPINESS is short lived. and the law of karma is still existing.
i just dont know how could you start again knowing that you started bad and that you are not in a solid foundation.anyways, you have your instinct and conscience... let it decide for you. Godbless
2006-07-25 23:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by ladyheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't steal something that is freely available. Only prob is someday he will be too old for you. happened to me. Now he is 80 and I am a very young 57. good luck
2006-07-25 23:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Madkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now...someone else will be asking the same question in a few years, as you are...about your husband.....then again was he unhappy????????? You never know where the heart will lead you....Is the dick worth it!?
2006-07-25 23:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by ria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you will get the job of nurse! Im sure she got the purse!
2006-07-25 23:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋