What can a person do to show their wife they are willing to do anything it takes to have that "one more chance" I am in seperate counseling to change and we are both in marriage counseling buthave notgone together yet..
2006-07-25 17:10:04 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, I did not cheat. I was going thru her emails becasue I did not trust her. My Bad! And when I confronted her she got mad. She was at work and I said I was goingto go away with our 2 yr old butdid not kno where we were going. Just for a da or two to clear mythoughts.
2006-07-25 17:23:21 · update #1
i think it's wonderful that you are both willing to go on with a marriage and move forward. you two are in for a longgggg haul, but it will all be worth it. by the way, don't ever use kids as vengeance against each other. you'll freak them out into adulthood. make them you first consideration, then works things out slowly. that child will grow very secure having both parents stick together. good example! God bless and good luck...BTW been there done that in almost the same situation.
2006-07-25 17:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by irie b 2 · 5⤊ 3⤋
I would talk to your counsellor about what is appropriate at this stage in the process. You don't want to do things outside of counselling that impedes the process. You are apparently in a fragile situation and it is hard to tell how things will be perceived by someone who is going through so much stuff right now. Also you didn't say what went wrong in the first place.
2006-07-25 17:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are trying to get "one more chance" then something tells me you cheated. And if you did, its going to take years of showing her love to get back the trust you had before. Don't expect her to get over it in a couple months. And before she even gives you that chance you have something to think about. Do you HONESTLY think you can be faithful for the rest of your life? What makes you think you are capable of that now if you weren't capable of it before? All I'm saying is think of someone other than yourself - if you aren't positive that you can be faithful, then don't let her give you another chance. Do you really want to put her through this again? Be careful when you make your decision.
2006-07-25 17:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be very honest and straight with her, and show her you trust her. Plan some nice evenings together so you can rekindle the old "dating" thing , again. Show her she is with a different man than she was when she first dated you!!
2006-07-25 17:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to come over that u want to talk tell her u want a nother chance and u are seeing a counseler and then ask her to dinner and wine and dine her and then ask her what she would like u to do to change if she loves u and u love her she will come back u just have to take a chance and tell her how u feel
2006-07-25 17:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by mexican 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume you cheated on her. she can forgive you easily but never forget. just try to understand how much you hurt her and listen to her even when she yells. she must love you to be doing the joint counseling. just re-assure her of your love and be patient. check in often call if you are running late. if you think she has a suspicion then do something to change it. she will be checking up on you just be where you are supposed to be and tell her you love her
2006-07-25 17:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by welder0964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not able to prevent to make arguments whilst your in courting. Your a man proper? Every Guy has a sin. They are not able to quit flirting with different women. and, whilst your already do some thing that she are not able to receive. attempt to apologize to her. then make transfer. do not stop, when you particularly love her . Stop flirting with different lady, make her warranty that you do not do this once more.. persuade her that you simply already difference. speak to her actually :]]
2016-08-28 17:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by gombos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to answer w/o knowing what happened in the first place. That would help get more answers
2006-07-25 17:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do all of the things that she wanted u to do when u were together..but it may b too little too late GL ♥
2006-07-25 17:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by His 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋