My husband travels alot, I saw he searched for escorts on his laptop, said only for entertainment? Help?

Question

Not live entertainment

Answer 1

Honey, I'm so sorry. That's so wrong, and yet it's so frighteningly common.

Listen, I'm a guy, and let me tell you, there is never a situation where that's okay.

Simply put, it's a trust issue. If he didn't tell you up front, then he's hiding something. And in a marriage, he should not be hiding the fact that he searching online for other women.

Think about this: what would your mother say. What would you say to your best friend in this situation?

Confront him, but... I wish I could say otherwise, but take whatever he says with skepticism. He lied to you once (I wish I could sugar that for you, but I can't), hun. And guys, sadly, don't often stop at looking.

Again, so sorry...

Answer 2

Of course it's for entertainment! Do you really think he's gonna tell you that it's for live entertainment. What else would it be for? And why would he want escorts well shows he's proud of his self esteem! You either need to be going with him or when he leaves the next time make sure it's the final time and let his "escorts" take care of his traveling needs like they have been!

Answer 3

i would be very cautious. First of all you were looking on his labtop and he might take that as snooping if you confront him which will make him think that you don't trust him. Second what kind of profession is your husband into that requires him to travel a lot? Maybe finding escorts were part of his job requirement for that time ...you never know but hold onto your womans intuition after all that never fails. Your husband though shouldn't be searching for woman escorts especially if it were for him your all the woman he needs especially when he took those vows. Stay cautious and alert but not obvious.

Answer 4

I am an expert on this topic. I have friends that have seen escorts and friends that have not seen escorts. Both sets of guys HAVE searched escorts on the internet. You cannot bust him solely with this evidence. One guy (that I know for a fact) didn't do anything got in trouble with his old lady for a link that his buddy (who is a whoremonger) sent to like 15 people... What is he supposed to do..not check it out?

Answer 5

did he entertain them or the other way round. He could be telling the truth, were the escorts in the cities he travelled to?

Answer 6

I think you need to discuss this with him and make it clear that it is not acceptable or tolerable. After all, if he needs an escort, he is already married to one. Why is he NOT taking you with him to where ever it is he goes that it would be needed????I also think you knew what you needed to know before you asked. Now you nust need to do something about it, what ever that is. Only you can answer that. Good luck sweetie!

Answer 7

Check the credit card statement. If it doesn't appear on the statement, then don't say anything else. That way, if he really is into something he won't realize you are paying attention, and he'll slip up again. I'm so sorry and I hope it works out for you.

Answer 8

to me thats sick and wrong..he travels....escorts go out for dinner and keep the man company and then have sex...find your local phone book and see the ads for escorts..its not pretty its basically a glorified hooker,..why doenst he take u along sometimes if he needs company? why does he need a female companion when heś not with you? if he wasnt cheating he wud bring a male friend or find company of men not escorts.....its like legal prostitution and i believe they get paid for what they do..tell him its gross and u need him to stop doing it, or try to go with him one time.

Answer 9

That's some entertainment...

I would be suspicious. But I don't know what you can do about it at the moment.

Answer 10

Entertainment yah right.