I feel that my husband is really lazy and boring. he does not help me support our child in anyway, he will go out with his mates but never takes me out, All he does is eat, poo, and sleep. he will wake up and always be busy doing something or another. I do love him but recently the hatred has become worse, I really cant talk to him because at the end I will get blamed for having the problem. he will help people but never his family. and most of the times I feel all he wants is sex and if he dont get it he wont even talk to me. he has always been like this, since he had a problem with his finances. he is so tight it didnt bother me before but now when he even talks to me I feel so angry. is that normal?
2006-07-25 02:11:12 · 5 answers · asked by sweetlikehoney_73 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IT IS A NORMAL FEELING WHEN YOU GET TREATED LIKE DIRT. IF YOU ARE FEELING THIS WAY THEN MORE THAN LIKELY.... IT WILL NOT GET ANY BETTER. MEN DO NOT CHANGE!! IT IS CALLED REVERSE SCYCOLOGY. AND IT SUCKS WHEN YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS ALWAYS GETTING THE BLAME. HONESTLY.... HE DOESN'T SOUND LIKE HE SHOULD EVEN HAVE THE FIRST SECOND OF YOUR DAY, LET ALONE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
2006-07-25 03:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by mommaofmany 1 · 9⤊ 2⤋
What you are going through is by all means not normal even though it does happen to couples sometimes. You can't live your life like that. You should try to either look at his positive behavior and make yourself stop hating him and start loving him again. Or if you can't do that then it's time to leave. Irritation and anger will not solve your problem.
Good luck
2006-07-25 02:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by hotdesersand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deja Vue. Sounds just like me. You're just frusterated. You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he doens't change, then maybe you need to take some drastic steps.
2006-07-25 02:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is taking advantage of you.Talk to him tell him how you feel if that dosent work get some couples counceling
2006-07-25 02:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a doormat.
accept it or leave him.
2006-07-25 02:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋