2006-07-25 01:32:22 · 15 answers · asked by Harry A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Guys can look all their heart desires, they can even fantasize about them...but having sexual relations with another woman after marriage is a no no...and I don't recommend it...not only will you get busted, but you will lose both girls and have a hard time finding another once everyone finds out you have cheated.
2006-07-25 01:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were to suddenly stop looking you would have to blind!!! How would you watch TV or go to the movies?? Of course you can look just don't drool or if you do don't get caught doing it!!! I have been married 6 years and I can tell you it has become a joke in our marriage about him getting caught looking. I promise if you are out with your wife and there is another woman that she thinks may look sexy or a bit under dressed so to speak she will see her at least 10 seconds before you do. I usually give him a slap on the arm not to be mad just to be funny like ha ha BUSTED!! He laughs and says what I was looking at that store or whatever may be in that general direction. There have been plenty times I thought he was looking and done the slap and he really turns to look because he did miss the eye candy!!! Do not think for one second that she is not looking at other men, you just have to accept that there will always be beautiful people that will catch your attention whether it is on a billboard or at the grocery store or on a magazine cover. If she gets mad for it then she is a hypocrite it is human nature to look. Just don't chase it down like you used to and you should be fine!!
2006-07-25 08:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by terijvelez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't stop them from looking, but they surely should NOT stare, or practically break their neck in a head turn watching some girl walk by. They should respect you enough to NOT check out some woman right in front of your face...........what will happen if they YOU will begin to feel INSECURE because if he's doing that with you THERE what's he going to do when your not there. That doesn't mean he will go off and cheat on you, but given the circumstances does his tongue litteraly hang out if your not with him like a dog in heat, that is the invisionment i'd if it were to happen to me.
Just tell him if your going to look, at least do it so I don't see it, or don't do it at all when your with me.
There is a way they can look and it's no different than when we might see a pretty girl or a cute guy we look for a second out pure instincts, but most women don't stare down a man when she's with her man.
2006-07-25 08:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by sgtroboswife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because that's not in our nature.
Looking is also perfectly natural, and nobody knows that better than women as well, unless they pretend to be perfect hypocrites.
The best thing to say also is,
"Look there are two choices, really: I could the man looking at women, or I could be the man who pretends not to look and then cheats behind your back. Which would you prefer?"
Even the happiest married couple still 'looks'. It's not a bad thing, and it still makes your marriage interesting.
2006-07-25 08:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely unrealistic to avoid looking at other girls after marriage. Women are always looking at men too. I will seriously doubt that any men or women that would not look at the opposite sex with or without lust. The issue is whether we act upon our animal instincts and go for it.
2006-07-25 08:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Billie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha!!:)
how do u think, life goes on, looking has nothing to do with any of the sins that are in your head, u might as well put your horse shutters and look straight to your wife...anyway if u dont do that without the shutters, sooner or later u will with or without them- so look, and know what is there, and still feel free to love your only ONE...!!
2006-07-25 08:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's put it this way. You should never take a second look. So make sure you get a good one the first time.
2006-07-25 10:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by whostolemyprofile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and yes. They will "always" look. Although they should "never" do it in front of their wives. That is very disrespectful! Meaning-they will glance at other women while you are there, but they should NOT ogle or undress them (so to speak) in front of you. If they do, they do not respect you as their wife. Period....
2006-07-25 08:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as bad as your wife would not want you to do this, she cant stop you. but at least give her the respect of not doing it when she is with you,so only have eyes for her and doing so will cause one less argument between you two.
2006-07-25 09:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by Crissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. How is a woman going to stop her husband from looking. It is human nature to look. Just don't touch!!
2006-07-25 08:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by Skypilot49 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋