if your woman had stretch marks, loose skin, and a sagging chest would you still be attracted to her and still enjoy having sex with her?or would you find it repulsive and not even look at her?
2006-07-25 12:43:34 · 15 answers · asked by angelsweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Boy, we really have become a shallow society haven't we. Whatever happened to better or worse. Everybody in this world thinks that you have to have a perfect body. Well, let me tell you, nobody has a perfect body. Everybody has some kind of flaw. When you love someone, you take them for who they are. Losing your bodily shape comes with getting older. You know, when we get married, we ask our wives to give birth to our kids. That in itself puts their body through hell. And then we get all shallow and start complaining about how their body looks. Cmon, grow up. I'd like to see one guy, any guy, go through that and still have a decent body. After my ex gave birth to our kids, I loved her body more than before. I seen what her body was capable of producing and it was wonderful. I didn't care if she had stretch marks, loose skin, or a sagging chest. She was still the most beautiful woman in the world. I knew how she got all of that, and she was willing to go through that for me. And I love her for that. You know, guys arent perfect either. As we get older, we lose our hair, get beer bellies, lose our teeth, etc... So we're not the prettiest in the bunch. Women take us with all of our flaws, so why can't men give the same courtesy. Oh, that's right, because a lot of men are too shallow. Well, heaven forbid, your wife or girlfriend doesn't look like the centerfold in your porn magazine. It's called life and it never changes. Love your wife or girlfriend for everything they are, not for what you want them to be. And as for the shallow ones out there, I hope you meet someone that treats you the same way. Women are Beautiful, period.
2006-07-25 13:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
More important, if this woman you are talking, looks at you and sees you bald, missing several teeth, can only get it up sometimes, has a belly that has grown quite a bit from when you were younger, and occasionally passes gas, should she find you repulsive and not even look at you.
Fool....its called life. If that person has been with you, there for you, every minute of your life, all of those physical features you are concerned with will mean nothing. (ok maybe they'll mean a little) but that's what true love, is about. Get it!
I am sure ...you don't.
2006-07-25 19:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i had been with the lady for a while before and this happened while being with her (from having children and such) then yes i would still enjoy having her around and having sex with her, i do understand that having children and time can have an effect on a woman's body and anyway it would of been her personality that i would of fallen in love with at the beginning nothing else
but on the other hand if she had become like this from just being lazy then i wouldn't find her attractive anymore because her personality would have changed as well
2006-07-25 20:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, for me, it wouldn't really bother me. I mean why would other guys sit there looking at her stomach. But, I am sorry to say, other guys possibly may not. So, if your guy doesn't, find a different more sensitive guy who would still love you even if you may not be the most beautiful girl in the universe.
2006-07-25 19:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the world fool! We marry young and grow old with the ones we love, and guess what we still bang them with all their flaws and likewise with us.
There is a reason they say love is more than looks.
Buy yourself a porno mag, they air brush all the flaws away. You don't deserve to get laid.
2006-07-25 19:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a female with this problem??? Let put it this way, if a guy you were with said they were not attracted to you because you had these things, then is that someone you really want to be with??? I think not.
2006-07-25 20:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its tough.
However, do you like her strictly for her body?
Does she represent absolutely nothing otherwise?
So when you have sex, tell yourself "this is not what they show on ET, but this woman has other aspects I don't want to give up."
2006-07-25 20:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Uncle Thesis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.
What does she say about your flabby ***? Pot belly? Gray hair? Stretch marks? Completely shallow personality? General stupidity?
2006-07-25 19:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With the lights out women all look the same.
2006-07-25 19:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to be real...i'd be turned off. for good. sounds shallow but i mean...i dont want skin flapping in different directions when we do our thing
2006-07-25 19:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by metronome 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋