how can you tell if your husband is gay?or just cheatting on you?

Question

please help

Answer 1

Maybe he's Gay and Cheating on you!!!!

Answer 2

First thing is: don't live a suspicious life with your husband because the more you suspect him, the more it bothers you. If he is gay or cheatting on you, it will happen at once and you will know. That will be the date you can confront him. Also, spend more time with him, and you will be able to tell within a short season, say within weeks, if he has gay interests or seeing s/one else. There is no way he can hide it too long. It will just come up (unexpected phone call, in a conversation wit you, etc). I hope he is not. Thanks.

Answer 3

Well I guess if you are asking if your husband is gay then you have questions about his sexuality. That in its self is telling. If you find gay porn on your pc he might be gay. I am not sure why you think he may be gay? or cheating? My ex husband is gay. I figured out he was gay. I found gay porn on the pc. He had several gay friends. He had a best "friend" that he did everything with. They even slept over each other house. After I left him he came out. He is gay. He goes to gay bars, gay parade ect... He denies that he had gay sex while we were married... but I am sure he did.

Answer 4

if u have any reason to suspect that he is cheating, he probably is. Go to the Maury show, Lie detector test lol and the lie detector determined........"you cheated with over 5o women!!"" I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but you should go that way you wont have to pay for the lie detector test, but on the other hand you will appear on national television and risk being embarrassed so u decide. Good luck

Answer 5

Read the book "On the Down Low" by J. L. King.

It is a book about married men who are secretly gay. The author wrote the book after he was outed. This should give you some clues as to what to look for.

Answer 6

Well, ask him is always a good start. But if you're asking Yahoo Answers, then there probably is a problem. Usually you can tell by his body language, the guilty look in his eyes, the sudden change in the way he acts towards you, etc. But just ask him.

Answer 7

just pray and ask God. He will reveille it to you. I don't know the complete story, so I can't explain in details. Don't go on assumptions. Everything that may seem like it is happening is not always happening if that make any sense to you. Do not go looking for things as well. The truth will come. Leave it in God hands. It will get better.

Answer 8

Well if he were gay he would know the brand of your shoes and would really not be into you at all. If he were cheating on you he would not know or care about shoes and would also not be into you. If you are this insecure about him then you need to ask him wtf. If you are too afraid to ask him that then follow him. Catch him off guard. Monitor his phone calls. Watch everything.

Answer 9

Boy in either case you are in a sad situation.
Dump him. Leave him. Say goodbye. Get out of there.
Make a better husband choice next time.

Answer 10

Well maybe cause he has asss and penis breath thats a good indicator or if your huge and fat then hes cheating on u maybe with the family cat

Answer 11

if you need to pose this question my dear woman friend chances are he is guilty of both but to answer your questions is quite easy here how you should be able to tell while out what which sex he watches then watch how he watch the sex that turns his head alright and you will know this way for sure!