Family - December 2007

So far I've given my older sis $400 to help her through a rough patch. I'm only 21 and working as an Intern, and even if I don't have it, I'll use my credit cards to help her if I have to. Tonight while I was watching movies over my bro's house, she calls and asks for $10. 2 days ago, I brought her 5 bucks for lunch. I told her I didn't have it, asks my bro and he says he doesn't either. She hangs up & calls right back saying it's hard to believe he nor I have any money. I only have $260 to my name, and explain to her that I need that for my utilities & credit card. My bro has just enough for their groceries and my nephews diapers. She took us all the way back to childhood saying after all she's been through and everything she's done for us. This pisses me off b/c I've NEVER asked her to pay me back or asked her for money in over a decade!! She cursed me to tears, said she sees how we are now and that from now on she's dead to us.

2007-12-09 23:16:24 · 22 answers · asked by charmed 4

a girl, 14, orphan, living with her sister (same mother different fathers, all dead ) is being abused. the family doesn't want to get involved because the elder sister has attitude problems, but now this 14 year old girl is being beaten and i do not know what to do, i'm afraid if i talk to her sister her sister would abuse her even more, they both had a diffuclt life so i understand how this has also affected the 35 something old sister, but i need to find a way to stop this abuse, do i tell her uncles and family ?
when her parents died we offered to adopt her but her sister and rest of the family refused, now it's too late for her to come and live with us, her uncles woudn't take her because of the problems the elder sister creates, i'm stuck, anyway out ? help. knowing that here were we live we don't get help from organizations or groups like in the west

2007-12-09 22:47:34 · 5 answers · asked by Sahar 4

You see my 15 year old sister's boyfriend always meets at some bar with my 18 year old sister.
I love both sisters.But I confronted my 18 year old sister what she's doing is wrong.And she's hurting her sister.
She says she doesn't give a ****.Because she's really into my 15 year old sister's boyfriend.
I bashed up the guy to stay away from both my sisters.
But he doesn't get the message.
And so I don't know how to break the news to my younger sister.Because my older sister ain't cracking nothing and so is her ******** of a boyfriend.
They haven't broke up.
And my younger sister is pretty much into the asswipe as well.

2007-12-09 21:53:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 21:40:35 · 14 answers · asked by bri 7

ok right ma older brother died over 10 years a go and now we think its a good time to scater his ashes. think it would be good to plan a tree on the garden with his ashes thn he is still near by ????

2007-12-09 19:25:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My great aunt is like 68 and wears mini skirts, knee high boots and halter tops. nasty how do i tell this beyotch that shes old n nasty. EEEWWWW!!!!

2007-12-09 19:17:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Parrents divorced when I was 5...im 13 now....and I dont really have anybody to talk to....but.. i know she wants to be happy with a guy, but whenevr she brings a new guy into our life....she dosent ask of my opinon of him....and how do i talk to her about it?

2007-12-09 19:09:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am divorced. Have been for 7 years. I have 2 children. My son is 11 and my daughter is 2. They both have the same father. I wanted another child but I didn't want a relationship with someone for the wrong reasons. Also, major family issues in my life would keep me from being fair to a man so I skipped the heartache and voila, my beautiful daughter.
My ex-husband wants nothing to do with our daughter. To be fair, he ignores our son too, but he actually pretends that our daughter doesn't exist. His girlfriend, now his wife, hates our daughter because they had been in a relationship for years when she was born. My daughter knows who he is and it kills me that I had to watch her cry when my son recently was telling me about the day he spent with his dad ( 1st time in 4 years ) and she overheard him talking about daddy. What would you do to keep your baby from pain like this? I don't even make him pay child support on her. I knew he was a lousy dad. I didn't know how bad he could be.

2007-12-09 19:00:47 · 9 answers · asked by Amy J 3

MY AUNT was abusive sometimes. BUT my UNCLE walked out on her and gave her no MONEYS 4 support.
AS my cousins got older she apologised. SHE explained the world was on her shoulders. THEy was no support money wise from my UNCLE.
AND my cousins gave her a hard time. THEY fought all the time and never did what she told them. MY aunt did all the work.
ONE day i went over there she was in tears.
NOW all my cousins have turned against my aunt even tho she apologised.
AND you should see my cousins. They are worse then my aunt ever was. THEy do drugs.
THEy are PLAYERS. THEy lie 4 moneys. THEy never ssay sorry. AND they think their poop dont stink.
I told my AUNT you did what you needed to do. AT least you apologised.
DONT you think my cousins will get it all back 4 attacking my aunt? THEY are far from perfict. WHAT do U think? THEY never remember her

2007-12-09 18:56:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

are high school won state and we rushed the field and i got hit bye an oposing palyer and think i broke my leg.

2007-12-09 18:42:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do I do if I have a lesbian cousin. See I just found out today that she was a lesbian on a profile of facebook. She keeps saying how she misses that girl and woke up in the morning and kissed her. No one knows about this except for my family. Her family does not even know. Should we tell her family or just leave it. It we tell her family and then her family and her will get mad. I f we don't tell them they will also be mad at us. When they discover that their sibling is lesbian they will get mad at us for not telling them.

2007-12-09 18:30:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

the question is pretty much self explanatory. How do I go about this??? She had all the details that really scare me about this and now that I betraid her trust, she will hate me. WHAT WOULD YOUD????

I notised that a screen door was off the window a few nights a few months ago but I didnt think that it was anything. I guess now that she was going out the window???OR this perpadrator was coming in...SO I guess he is over 16 and his name is Bones.

I thougt she was a virgin

she is at her dads tonight

2007-12-09 18:02:13 · 35 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

My sister's the most dsciplined, organized person I know. she schedules and prepares everything. she's in control of everything.
I live in a world of chaos and uncertainty. I can't do anything on time.
the worst part is: she can't seem to choose her own thing. she keeps following me in EVERYTHING. every time i finally figure out how things work, she comes along and sponges the info from me and starts from my level.
i love her and i'm happy for her, but at the same time i feel like life's been beating me down on every level for a decade while she's never had any real hardship to discourage her.
i can't stand her arrogant, judgemental attitude anymore.

2007-12-09 17:31:57 · 8 answers · asked by Happy-Miserable-Female 3

hi I am 14 years old and my step mom is kind of mean to me. If I get a bad grade on my homework or if I look at her funny she will hit me or not let me eat. Sometimes she will lock me in my room and not let me eat or go to the bathroom. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong? Am I to old for this to really be child abuse? I don't know what to do.

2007-12-09 16:45:51 · 11 answers · asked by Heather 1

Okay so I have been practicing twice a week for my gymnastics performances and my first one is in a few days. Now my mom says she isn't going to try to come cause she is spending time with one of her friends and she really wants to talk to her. She just spent two hours talking to her on the phone. Would this make you mad? My friends just say I am over reacting but I don't think I am. I mean she is skipping out on my first show!

2007-12-09 16:39:57 · 16 answers · asked by animal luver 5

Hello am 12 years (male) and I have two older sister http://img512.imageshack.us/my.php?image=saasasasdv0.jpg http://img212.imageshack.us/my.php?image=11cz8.jpg and there always picking on me or something tricking me into doing thing than laughing after it's over. When I tell my mom and dad they don't do anything and say don't listen to your sisters. I don't recall the last time they got in trouble for playing a joke on me. One time they made me wait outside because they said mom and dad were coming home with something big for me they closed the door and started watch TV. I was out there for sometime I am a tried 12 year old and mad what I should do please help?

2007-12-09 16:35:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my family had been waiting for 3 years for our visa's to come over to the usa. whenever the visa process took a step forward it got knocked three steps back. i told my self that we would never get to go so when we got our visas in july i was gutted because i didn't want to move across the world.
so we have been living here since 8th september and since that day my life has been a misery i'm always arguing with my mum. to be honest i hate it here but when ever i bring it up my mum just does not listen.my mums friend said that i could stay there when i get back to england.
how can i get her to understand?

2007-12-09 16:00:02 · 3 answers · asked by british_gurl14 1

Im visiting 3 little girls in a hospital in NY they are 80% burned , there mom passed away in the home when it burned they do not know this.There dad is staying withe them in the hospital they have no where to live they have no money And the soul provider is there dad and he is with them with no Income I want to visit them I know I should take money and things for them but what could I do or say to really comfort them!!!! It would be great help thax

2007-12-09 15:48:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father was never involved at all. My parents were teenagers and went separate ways. He treated her bad, was hooked on drugs, and he robbed her parent's house. Im 20 now and recently found him and he wants a relationship. We have been getting to know eachother for 7 months now. He is also dying from primary pulmonary hypertension and basically his body is shutting down on him. He is in the hospital right now and is hoping to be out soon. The problem is that this will be my first and possibly last christmas with him, but my mom has me feeling so guilty about talking to him i can't even explain it to her. I have a close family and Christmas is special to us. But should i spend this time with my birthfather instead of the family who HAS been there for me the past 20 years?? Please someone help me...I need mature, adult advice...

2007-12-09 15:44:32 · 18 answers · asked by briana113 1

2007-12-09 15:37:37 · 13 answers · asked by gorgeous gm 4

It's not unheared of where I live for a 16-17 year old to date a guy who's 23-24. a good friend of mine is 20 and his girfriend is 16. The parents don't mind that. But it's different when you are 23. My friend is 16. I can't tell you how much we relate. We've spent hours talking about nothing lol. And hours talking about everything. We've known each other for 3 years and it's cool. I've almost convinced myself to talk to her and her mom (spepretly and mom first) about asking her out. But I can't quiet get myself to do it. The only thing that makes me hesitate is the age gap. If her mom told me no I'd back off and never bring it up again. Her mom's a friend I went to college with. She's mature for her age, if a bit of a rebel. For those of you who don't think Im crazy, can you give me good ideas? Maybe some stories of your own if you have been in a similer situation? I dout her mom would call the cops. just don't know how to ask her permission...any ideas? (lenghty if possable)?

2007-12-09 15:15:08 · 11 answers · asked by fullmetal479 1

Unfortunately I cannot get along with my boyfriends parents, and we have a 7 month old child. We live together and every time they come to visit ( they live 5 minutes away so it's frequently)...we argue. I have tried to be polite, but they don't listen at all.
His mother is rude and has called my boyfreind fat numerous times...once around his extended family. I have pulled her aside more than once. I correct his father when he is holding our child, because he can't seem to understand ( he doesn't listen) how to hold her. He thinks that I pick on him and gets mad that I always correct him. Also, he is always coughing without covering his mouth. That's just rude and unsanitary!!!
I can't stand them and have told my boyfriend that they stress me out. last night we got into a shouting match because his mother is soooo RUDE! I try and not be around them, but they come and visit our daughter and I can't leave them alone with her! HELP!!!

2007-12-09 15:13:25 · 4 answers · asked by RyannRoxx 1

my 6 year old will not lisen to a word I say how can I get here to act her age and to do what I say

2007-12-09 14:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by alyssa_1_3 1

2007-12-09 14:34:38 · 11 answers · asked by alexander t 1

MY GUARDIAN ANGEL

I think of you all day and night.
I pray for you with all my might.
And although thoughts of you still make me tear,
Deep inside I know your spirits still here.

The place you sat is cold and empty,
but the words you said will always stay with me.
Your inspirational voice is now so silent,
but the words you said are now more vibrant.

These cuts will take some time to heal,
but the scars will never truly disappear.
I'll never truly be able to express how i feel,
but I know God hears my prayers loud and clear.

I know you'll always protect me as my guardian angel.
Especially now when my hearts so fragile.
I know you'll always guide me in the right direction,
Especially now, when I'm far from perfection.

Your memories follow me everywhere i go.
Your image stays with me forever and more.
Thoughts of you have made my heart soar,
But as much as it hurts, I'll never let go!

2007-12-09 13:56:25 · 7 answers · asked by stephanie 1

I've been house sitting for my mom and stepdad for the past 5 days while they were on vacation. I also have three kids that I had to pack up and take over there. I made sure the cats and dogs were fed (one of the dogs gets an insulin shot twice a day). Anyway, she left me $50 to house sit. She also wanted me to clean for her. I spent all day today making the house spotless before she gets home. She'll probably try to give me more money for cleaning but I don't know if I should take it. I really need it but she did stock up on food for us. I did not have to buy groceries for five days. I feel like, she's my mom so I should just to it without expecting anything in return, right? I'm just having a dumb moral issue, should I take it if she tries to give it to me or not. Be honest.

2007-12-09 13:37:00 · 15 answers · asked by Leigh 3

she bought it for my birthday....(december 4th this year)
and if we have a disagreement, she always uses the: 'i bought her, and i can take her back' line.
every since we got the dog, she has been harsh to her...she calls her dirty, she tells me to put her down...and just mean things.
she gets mad at me because i treat the dog like the baby that she is.(3 months old)
she told me that she was going to give the dog away because i have a bad mouth and she said that she would throw her out on the highway. i told her that she wouldn't do that..and that if she put the dog out, i would go with the dog. she said no, i can't because she bought her, therefore, it's her dog.
so, lately, i have been kinda ignoring the dog. i feel bad because she's used to me playing with her, but my mom made it clear that she did not buy here because she wanted me to have her. now, she's saying that she's giving her away because i don't do anything for her. idk what to do now. any suggestions?

2007-12-09 13:15:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family is quite complex, I've got my Father, mother, my mother died 6 years ago, my father remarried, now I've still got my father step mother, half sister and step brother.....

Why are families so complicated these days ? What ever happened to the traditional family ? Father, Mother, Sister, Brother etc ?

What is your family like ?

2007-12-09 13:04:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really want my parents to think im responsible to get me a pet. How would you do that?

2007-12-09 12:55:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

or mourn, or both?

2007-12-09 12:37:42 · 13 answers · asked by Guinness 5