Unfortunately I cannot get along with my boyfriends parents, and we have a 7 month old child. We live together and every time they come to visit ( they live 5 minutes away so it's frequently)...we argue. I have tried to be polite, but they don't listen at all.
His mother is rude and has called my boyfreind fat numerous times...once around his extended family. I have pulled her aside more than once. I correct his father when he is holding our child, because he can't seem to understand ( he doesn't listen) how to hold her. He thinks that I pick on him and gets mad that I always correct him. Also, he is always coughing without covering his mouth. That's just rude and unsanitary!!!
I can't stand them and have told my boyfriend that they stress me out. last night we got into a shouting match because his mother is soooo RUDE! I try and not be around them, but they come and visit our daughter and I can't leave them alone with her! HELP!!!
2007-12-09 15:13:25 · 4 answers · asked by RyannRoxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He needs to be the one to set the boundaries and stick up for you, otherwise they'll view you as the interloper. If he can't do that, I'd reconsider the relationship.
2007-12-09 16:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by shrinkydinkheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you are not even trying to get along with them and that you want to control every aspect of their visits, including what they say to their son , down to how "grandpa" holds his granddaughter. You need to grow up and stop being controlling....things are never perfect, people are never perfect..including you. If your boyfriend has a problem with the things "his" parents say to him then HE should deal with it not YOU. If they are coming to visit it sounds as if they love their grandchild and their son and people need all the love they can get. Lighten up and they may come to love you too. Also here's a Wake up call for you....you are the one being rude...you don't treat people that way in your home, and if they bother you so much find something else to do while they're visiting.
2007-12-09 22:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by mom23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a baby with him, and although you arent married the grandparents will be in your life til death do you part.Better ask your b/f to be a man and marry you and stick up for you and the baby and himself.If he isnt going to do this, guess you made a baby with the wrong guy hon.
You should be worried about the baby's grand dad coughing on her, yet also think about what you are teaching her when it comes to shacking.
You are teaching her it is ok to make babies without a commitment from a guy and also to make them before you see what he is really like and how his family will treat you.
2007-12-09 16:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pull your boyfriends mother aside and CORRECT her?
And she did not snatch you bald? Just kidding but even though you consider them rude and crude, they are your boyfriends parents, your child's grandparents. A little more respect would probably smooth the way for you. Painful, but true.
2007-12-09 15:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋