Family - December 2007

FOR EXAMPLE I TOLD MY MOM THAT I WAS TIRED OF BEING A MOM WHEN SHE IS AT WORK MY DAD JUST SITS AND PLAYS VIDEO GAMES I HAVE 3 LITTLE SISTERS AGES 10 AND TWINS THAT ARE 6 I HAVE TO MAKE DINNER GET BATHS GOING AND MAKE SURE EVERYONE GETS TO BED ON TIME OR I GET IN TROUBLE I DIDN'T HAVE THESE KIDS MY PARENTS DID I DON'T KNOW WHY I HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF THEM HE IS NOT ON DRUGS OR ALCOHOL HE'S JUST LAZY WHAT CAN I DO TO CONVINCE MY MOM TO LISTEN TO ME SHE ALWAYS JUST MAKES EXCUSES I TOLD MY FRIEND'S MOM AND SHE TALKED TO MY MOM FOR ME BUT SHE JUST MADE EXCUSES TO HER TOO HELP ME I FEEL LIKE I AM GOING TO BLOW UP INSIDE

2007-12-10 19:45:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's always calling me fat and saying stuff like 'Why would I bother with a horrible person like you?' When we walk on the streets she would walk with my sister only and leave me behind. She gets angry with me really easily and twists everything I say into something negative directed against her. Maybe I'm really a horrible person but then why is it that my classmates and even my teachers like me? Some of them have even told me I was pretty? Whatever it is I am sick and tired of it so I was thinking, if she hates me so much, should I just make everyone's lives easier and go away?

2007-12-10 19:19:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay my dad brought me an ipod nano and both him and my mother got upset if i let anyone use it.... i can understand that whatever but i put my ipod on the table at my moms house and she hid it! and on top of that she doesnt remember where she hid it ![she really doesnt she isnt tricking me here] so she wont even look for it a 200$ ipod that she lost and she says its my fault i shouldnt have had it out but i put it there for areason so if i go somewhere i can just grab it she said that anyone couldve just taken it execpt nobody ever comes in our house! if my dad finds out he will be pissed i tryed lookin for it myself but i dunno where to look...so who is whong? and what should i do?

2007-12-10 19:17:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our rule thus far has been that only one piece swimsuits are allowed, but she has been bugging us about it a lot lately...any thoughts?

2007-12-10 18:40:09 · 18 answers · asked by ksucats06 1

For example, lets say on his 16th Birthday he claimed to gay, would this bother you and WHY?

2007-12-10 18:27:14 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my mom argue all the time, starting when i was in 6th grade. Sometimes are relationship is great, and then again it can be extremly bad. We have went to counsleing, but that didnt work, noting does. The last argument we had was really bad, she told me she hated me, and i told her i hated her back, and now we dont even speak, its only been a couple days but it is still very akward. This is suffering with my school work because im always in my room, listening to music just trying to avoid her (am i just making excuses)???. I feel like i have no one, family is supposed to be the ones who will always be there, but i dont really have that. Im thinking about staying with my cousin for while, just untill things cool of??. Should i stay home and try to work stuff out, or just get away for a while?????

2007-12-10 18:04:07 · 15 answers · asked by SHESA10 1

My good friend is in a custody battle,she's 17 and the guy is 23.Me and her live right beside each other and she is a great mom and loves her baby dearly the baby is almost 2 months old,The guy left her when she was pregnant.Well yesterday she ran over here and got me she was so scared he was in the road by there house causing trouble saying someone threw a rock at his car,well my firends dad was gone but drove quickly and got home to protect his daughter,when her ad got here he got into it with babys dad and punched him,just protecting himself,well the guy went and pressed charges.How can this happen whe he was in front of there house causing trouble?It took the police forever to show up and now this 23 yo peace of crap isnt going to get in any trouble??I dont get it
Well the girls brother is in trouble to foor terroristic threathining and i was there he did not say thoes things they put on his court papers,can your do anything about people making false statements and lies??

2007-12-10 17:12:05 · 3 answers · asked by CJewell 5

My brother and his girlfriend are both freshmen in high school, and they've been dating for maybe four months at the most. The problem is, they seem to be moving awfully fast. To put it in perspective, they said "I love you" after a few days, started stripping after a few weeks, and have now progressed to fingering and oral sex.
I know all this because my boyfriend informed me that there were rumors going around about them, so I checked it out. His instant messenger auto-logs-in, so I looked at their conversations, which offered a vivid picture of their activities and their plans for future activities.
I'm sick of it, and I don't know if I'm justified in my concern (after all, if my mother knew this was going on, he would probably never be allowed to see her again) or if I'm overstepping my boundaries.
His girlfriend is coming over tomorrow, and it makes me sick to think of what they said they will do.
I want to let someone know, because this doesn't feel right.
What should I do?

2007-12-10 17:04:27 · 6 answers · asked by Sepharium 3

your son or daughter went off to college in another state?

I cried for 3 days when we left our son. lol I can't believe it's now been 3 yrs.....it seems like just yesterday.

2007-12-10 15:53:07 · 3 answers · asked by sugarbee 7

when my sister went to delhi for work, my cousin called asking my mom when i can visit india, she said during my holidays..since i have holidays coming up, she is sending me to my dad's..was that wrong of her to do that.when i talked to him, he told me he was looking forward to seeing me as well...is it possible that he is expecting me in india

2007-12-10 15:26:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

they are total jerks to me and everybody else! ive been with my fiance for almost 5 years and they never accepted me from the beginning. they talk about me, but not to me. we can be in the same room and not speak a word to me. one even tried to fight me. i told him that if they dont respect me then they dont respect you and theyre not allowed to come in our home.

2007-12-10 15:19:49 · 13 answers · asked by Krissy 1

I am the eldest child in my family two sisters and one a baby Einstein. Now i have been very close with my sisters and my parents but with my brother i have a full 12yr gap and hence he lives in his own world and we essentially do not connect much. He also spent time away from home which adds to the problem for all the three siblings to actually know what kind of a person our brother is really. The problem starts with the fact that he has always seen me and the elder sister as just his bro and sis not real people and i have trouble getting this point across to him. And he has blown the issue to such large proportions that he refuses to speak with my new wife and my sister's finace.....I try to go easy on him just because he is 14 but he has to understand that one day all of us leave to have their own families......how do i get it across to him in way that he can totally get the point?.......his extreme introvertedness has also given to him being extremely violent when around me....help

2007-12-10 14:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok it has been over a year since I have spoke to my mother it is alot of history she does not enjoy being a grandmother , she has four daughters and does not like any of our husbands we have always had our disagreements the final straw was when I rented a house from her I had not been there a month, when her husband worked on the hot water heater and did not fill it with water the house burned I lost everything my family was not home thank god two days after the fire she asked me if I was going to get it cleaned up I was floored and told her that is what is done through her insurance she felt it was mine to handle not only did I lose everything she took the ins money and remodeled her kitchen what should I do am I wrong to not have a relationship with her or is she just poison to me

2007-12-10 14:37:58 · 8 answers · asked by paula c 2

If a mother and her children are all U.S. Citizens can she legally force them to live in another country?
Can they turn themselves into social services?

2007-12-10 14:20:14 · 3 answers · asked by missbernice123 1

Since i have been alive, i'm now 16, my dad has been a verbally abusive alcholic. I drives me to tears when he gets into my face when he drinks and i don't know what to do. I love him sober until he drinks. God i'm just gaving a horrible life right now. Please give me some advice

2007-12-10 14:17:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hearing people (including my own parents) using the words "kids" to refer to my sister and I (20 and 23) and my other friends is really starting to annoy me. It makes me think they think we're goats. We're not. The appropriate word to use is children which establishes our humanity. Why call your children something they're not?

2007-12-10 14:14:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is 9 years old and it is his first idea to send a letter to Santa. He believes that Santa will answer him. Please, anyone help me to get Santa`s address !!! Thanks a lot.

2007-12-10 14:07:34 · 37 answers · asked by Andrey V 1

Hello I am 12 years my name is Fred and I have two older sister who are much closer in age Sarah and Alyson. http://img512.imageshack.us/my.php?image=saasasasdv0.jpg
http://img212.imageshack.us/my.php?image=11cz8.jpg I really look up to them there both 15 and 16 but when ever I ask to hang out with them they say am so annoying when all I want to hang out with them. I asked this question before and did not get any answers that can help me but one person asked if they have boyfriends yes they do and they spend all there time with them. They also don't hang around me with there boyfriends saying your to little and they laugh but am 12 years am tried of being to little I just want to hang out with them so can someone help me?

2007-12-10 13:14:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 12:32:57 · 3 answers · asked by Grace 1

She is a Jr. and not doing well in school at all. [5's] We have always talked to our children about the importance of their education. I consider our family pretty close, and very open to what ever comes our way. Most of our family and her friends thinks she's just a BRAT!!!! We do discipline her, but then she rebels even more. A few nights ago she called me a f------ b----
because we would not allow her to drive, and it was over the weekend, which mad her very mad. We reminded her about our agreement, and we were not changing anything. She has a very pissy additude about everything unless she gets what she wants all the time. My husband, and I are considering a girls home or boot camp. Which she tells us all the time to do her a favor, and get rid of her all the time. She thinks she has it terrible here, but yet no one else see's what she does, but a BRAT!! that don't appreciate anything. To let you know we have 4 children, and only 2 left at home. {Girls that are complete oppisite}

2007-12-10 12:02:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

they think i have totally changed but i didnt
all i changed is my age i am now 13
and they constently make me cry and somethins i dont even now why
they tell me that the love me but i douht it
and a cuple month ago
i cried like crazy becuse of something they did
i couldnt stop they couldnt calm me down
i mean i just let it out i tryied to stop but i couldnt i mean the tears came out but i had a diffrent feeling
and now i think my dad lost my dog on purpoes
and i loved that dog with all my life
how can i ever find him
i miss him already and he just now got lost
im crying right now
PLZ PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-10 11:56:46 · 3 answers · asked by lalala_mimi 2

i have this great aunt who is very warped and she has her grandson very warped< she has trained him to look at me as if i"m dirt to him> she once orderded him to kill me and stood and laughed her *** off while he tried> she once tried to kill her ex husband> shes *uckin nuts> i"m terrified of her and her kids and grandkids> her husband< my great uncle is a very nice guy> ask his side of the family they"ll tell u shes nuts> actually she is the mother of an actress you may have seen on tv< ever hear of alien nation the show< this actress which i will not name< but i will tell you her characters name< cATHY FRANKEL. ANY WAY THEY ARE WARPED, AND I'M SCARED OF THEM AND WHAT THEY MAY DO TO ME. the color of my great aunts eyes are like glowing white and black as night. What do i do?

2007-12-10 10:20:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should i do? he is really annoing and bias about everything! how can i stop fighting wiwth him.

2007-12-10 10:15:32 · 2 answers · asked by share the love!!! 2

ok soooooooooo, my parents are divorced, im 15, and i live with my mom and stepdad....... well when i was 13 i told my dad i wanted to live with him but, he asked why i wanted to(like what were some of the reasons), and he really hasnt said anything to me about it lately, does that mean that he doesnt want me to live with him..... and if he does want me to live with him, then what reasons could i give him, i mean i just think i would be happier with him.....

2007-12-10 09:58:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a problem, and i need help. i've told my parents, and school consuler, but they wont do anything. they refuse to listen to me, and accept the fact that i need help. what do i do? no on will listen to me. its not a serious problem, but im constantly stressed and over worked.

2007-12-10 09:56:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, maybe this is a dumb question but im just curious...
Say you have have kids but one day you decide that raising kids is too much for and you cant handle it anymore... Is your only option abandonment? FOR THE RECORD, I do not have kids and do not plan on doing anything like this EVER. I am just curious what an unfit mother's options are rather than beating them and having CPS come take the kids away.
Any answers are appreciated.

2007-12-10 09:52:51 · 8 answers · asked by bellesnail 4

I live with my mum and to sisters and brother and I work as a landscape gardener And they are all on part time jobs and I work full time and when I come home because I dont always make the tea they call me lasy. My sisters say we can do your job all you do is rake a bit of soil. I do all the house work and cleaning and my brother says try working nights then you will no what hard work his. im on 160 a fortnight and I have to give my mum 100 board a week and my sisters 20 and my brother 20 so I never have any money. they say if I ever wone a lot of money they would want some so I would get nothing . and if they dont get there money they would fall out with me and they say if I dnot like it then I can lump it. is it all rong?

2007-12-10 09:18:57 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

My fiance has a 4 1/2 yr old daughter with another woman. We are torn apart on what to do!! We know for a fact that her mother smokes pot, drinks and has several men in and out of her life. She doesnt have a stable job. She is now without child care and just found out that she is getting evicted from her apartment with nowhere else to go. She is never home when it is time to drop off his daughter on weekends. It's almost as if she doesnt "want" her!! We dont have a lot of money, but we have a stable home and jobs. We have 3 children together and feel she would be much better off living with us! I know that the courts cater to mothers with children and try to leave the child with the mother, but do you think we would have a chance??

2007-12-10 07:53:00 · 10 answers · asked by Heather C 2

We had a party and my brother's wife was sitting in the lounge with all the men after dinner, drinking sherry. I told her she should go and help the other women in the kitchen clear up because she was acting like a loose woman. She went very red and told me not to tell her what to do in her house. Well I got very angry as me and my brothers were brought up to be the men of the house, and so I told her to leave now or I would force her. Then her husband slapped her. I think she deserved it. She started crying and I haven't seen her for 3 weeks now. Should I apologise?

2007-12-10 07:52:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My poor father is 87 yrs.old and is totally disabled. Recently I spotted my 14 yr.old daughter giving my dad a piggyback ride to his bedroom. He is rather light at only 140 lbs. My daughter says she can barely feel his weight on her back and had been carrying him for a while like that without telling me or her dad.

2007-12-10 07:43:58 · 5 answers · asked by ponyman 1