Family - September 2007

I had DNA test done to my 11 year old son and his dad, I told him before he could see his son when he wanted and then he would never show up after promising my son that he would come by and this has went on for 11 years. and now he is wanting custody, and lieing about not being able to see his son, he has never help and told me he would take him and run to Canada with him and then told me he rather go to jail than to pay child support. He is at times abusive and how I got pregnant by rape from him. He has bought his son clothes but never let him bring them home for him to wear then never showed back up for him to wear them. Can I ask him to give up his fatherly rights so my soon to be husband can adopt him. I mean he hasn't been there and probably never will be. And my son is not wanting his dad in his life and he has told me so because of the promises that has been broken and he really does want my STBH to adopt him, would they listen to my son on what he wants?

2007-09-18 15:11:39 · 2 answers · asked by christinadc2002 3

Since she adopted my son in "06" I havent heard any thing from here. Its been 10 months and 19 Days Whats the best way to tell her I need to Know hows he doing or whats He been up to what school is he going to. If she doesnt get in contact I will have to look for him my self.

2007-09-18 14:48:29 · 11 answers · asked by Marz 2

We'd like to make money, not for us but for our parents, we already get an allowance. I'm a young teen and have a preteen brother.

We've already had a paper route when we were younger and that didn't work out well. I've always wanted a babysitting job but can't get one due to the pact that there is already a girl on my street who does all the babysitting near us.

So any suggestions are welcome as long as we can do the close to home, like racking leaves was one of our ideas.

But if you have suggestions and a price to charge for it, ti would be really helpful if you could tell us them. Thanks in advance.

2007-09-18 14:42:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is offically the worst day of my life!i live with my mom and my 2 bros besides my uncle who lives away but visits sometimes. Now, i may not have the best mom in the world i was very close to my dad, but not my mombut lately she was forcing me to spend time with her, but i ignored her completely, which she got mad and almost sent me to live with my uncle and auntie in CA i live in ohio. But i'm 14 now and going through puepurty my mom being the feminst she is, always taught me to respect girlswhich i do. but now sometimes i have to.well you know take care of myself.dont make fun of me i cant help it and if you dont know what im talking about i mean masturbate. recently my mom discovered what i was doing online and she permabanned me from the internet so i used my little bros psp to get my fix but she permabanned me from that too! now i havent been talkin to her since what happend 2day. i heard her saying that she wished she wouldve aborted me and how she thinks im gona b a rapest

2007-09-18 14:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

parents slpit when 5
he has a job in philly now
him and i were close
now live with mom
and i want to die

2007-09-18 14:36:29 · 13 answers · asked by Payge F 1

I am dieing here. My dad has brought his son from russia over from his ex wifre. he lives with us and hes 21. Hes absoultely dreadful, demented, no common sense, etc. My mom hates him becuase he does the most idiotic things and never apoligizes. My dad also treats him diffferently and always argues with my mom about random things. It makes me want to break down and cry. My hands are shaky causing the bad writing. PLEASE, PLEASE help! I dont want my mom to divorce from my dad!

2007-09-18 14:33:01 · 8 answers · asked by Jenna Holder 1

I can't stop being so self concious all the time. I am pretty and know this because people tell me that but there are a lot of things I see about myself I don't like. I have a small head..im really short 5'1...I hate being skinny and can't fight it as ive tried everthing to gain weight. I obsess over my height and just when I feel alright about it ill se a tall girl and wish to be like her..I feel as tho im the bad kid in my family bc my bros are both ingineers and im in highschool doing gateway because i have to work and they took all advanced in highschool andim just in applied courses and suck at math..I could go on and on..i don't have a lot of friends and didnt at all have a good highschool experience..never went to semi/proms...no bf in highschool...I dress nice but am shy..how can I stop picking on myself..I put myself down alot..

2007-09-18 14:30:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

am moving in down stairs from my mother-in-law and she just started liking me because i had a baby i feel like i should say no to the deal and stay wheree i am but i need a three bed room because i just had twins. help should i go or stay?

2007-09-18 14:24:53 · 2 answers · asked by Holly F 1

My dad doesn't live with us (as of this summer so the school doesn't know), my mum doesn't have a cell, we don't have a home phone, and have no relatives living in America. Who do I put? My half sisters family (who live in Canada), my 14 year old brother (he's older by 8months)?????? My dad who doesn't give a **** about me and isn't allowed to come within 300 meters of me b/c of past physical abuse? My older siblings who live in England? Or my friends mum who lives 25 minutes away, but doesn't speak English well. I'm not really close to any other of my friends parents. What the hell do I do?

2007-09-18 14:17:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

After my father died my older sister took everything of value, My father was meticulous about wills, records and paying his bills, however she claims there was no will. And she claimed he owed money, if you knew my Dad you'd know this was such ********. But I didn't care about money or anything else, I lost my Dad. Anyways, after he died she wound up breaking up with her B/F/ and had no where to go, so I took her in. And not long after I did she got into a fight with her x and got arrested. Guess who bailed her out? About a month later she moved in with some guy and left my china cabinet behind. It had been given to me yrs ago by my father, but as I was renting I asked if she could keep it at her place til I was settled in my own home. Anyways, she left it with me which worked out good I thought, she then started claiming it was hers. And said if I didn't give it back I was DEAD to the family.And whatever she said to all of them, it worked. No one will talk to me now. How do u deal?

2007-09-18 14:05:25 · 3 answers · asked by roddick c 1

Was if because it was the worst, most embarassing, or what?
Mine was my worst. I snuck out of school when I was little and when my parents found me at home I found myself getting the longest hardest spanking on my bare butt of my life.

2007-09-18 13:36:38 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole n 2

I'm in Korea teaching english for almost 8 months now. I'm very homesick and depressed and want to go back home to visit my family. Will visiting my family just make me more homesick when I return to Korea? I have to return to Korea and then teach for another 4.5 months, so I'm afraid I will get homesick again or more homesick if I return to Korea, so don't know if I should go home for good or just visit ?

2007-09-18 13:21:49 · 1 answers · asked by felixnamts 2

I have a problem. I went to my sisters wedding not to long ago. When I got there I got nothing but bragging on how my sisters and her husband has all this money and how they can afford a lavish lifestyle. I think that if you have the money than invest in your future and dont buy stuff that you really dont need. Well Long story short, my sister ended up buying her husband a rolex and her husband in turn bought her a 50000 dollar car. And from now on my mom and my stepdad has been nothing but contempt to me and my wife in saying that my sister and her husband has more stuff then you and they just bought that car and that expensive watch. I dont like hearing about this all the time, and I dont need to be compared to my sister when I go out to buy another vehicle in a couple of days since my older one is quite a few years old. The only thing that I see from my parents and my sister is that they are materialistic instead of just being happy with what they have. Is there something more.

2007-09-18 13:02:05 · 6 answers · asked by James R 1

i'm applying to college right now. (i live with my uncle) and he is telling me that i cannot go to college, he won't let me. I wanna get out there and be independent. Do i have a right to be upset?


Oh and one more question. Could i get a full scholorship based on hardship? My dad died when i was a baby, mom got in a car accident currently in rehab for a head injury, lived wtih grandma she passed when i was in 8th grade and now i live withmy uncle. We kinda have low income.. i have a 3.2 GPA and 22 ACT. Is there anyway i could get a FULL ride to college based on this?

2007-09-18 12:22:59 · 32 answers · asked by This is me. 1

I put my mom in a nursing home due to her Alzheimers and feel guilty about it every day. She cried and cried and still does. Support groups help, was wondering how other people cope with this situation.

2007-09-18 12:09:47 · 6 answers · asked by Don Drapers woman 6

I can't stand living like this anymore!! My house is ALWAYS messy, my mom says she wants a clean house all the time, yet I'm the only one who takes the time to make it happen. There are days when I'll spend 10+ straight hours cleaning, and no one helps me (and 2 days later its the same way it was before!!). My 16 year old brother is so lazy and moans and complains about having to do any cleaning whatsoever, he leaves his trash everywhere and it's so frustrating.
My dad is like my brother to some extent, so he's no help. I'm only 15 and I don't have the authority to force them to clean. Yet I'm so sick of living in a pigstye I'll spend most of my time stuck in my room.
The worst part is I'm ashamed when people comeover, and I feel bad because I can never invite my friends over spontaneously, I have to have at least two days notice.
Its so tiring living like this, please, I need help! How can I convince my family to help clean, or at least MAINTAIN what I've done. This can't be normal.

2007-09-18 12:04:43 · 12 answers · asked by ~Jenny 3

I approve of her relationship, she dated her boyfriend for 1-1/2 years and moved in with him about 6 months ago and they are very happy together. They live about 100 miles from us. My husband on the other hand is ashamed (hasn't told that to her but has told me) and thinks it is an act of desperation -thats how he feels about couples in general who live together without being married. When we were going to visit her for her birthday last week, we had to go to a restaurant instead of having a barbeque at their house, as he was 'uncomfortable' being in her home. I told him to accept it and love her unconditionally but he behaves like a spoiled child about it. I think he is embarrassed that 'someone' may find out... How do I deal with him?

2007-09-18 11:41:37 · 7 answers · asked by Sophiesmama 6

any suggestions...... places gifts.......xxx thanksss

2007-09-18 11:27:32 · 12 answers · asked by Smilez 1

I have 3 brothers & 3 sisters. I'm the youngest & my mother always said I was an accident lol

2007-09-18 11:00:13 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6

she was at her older sisters birth of the child and has been with her ever since then. She bought the crib for the child for goodness sake! But, now her other younger sister has moved back to the city (whom is the godparent to older sister 1st baby). this would be the second child baptized by the same sister to the older sister children. So, should she be upset she was not asked , be dissaponted or say nothing?

2007-09-18 10:59:51 · 2 answers · asked by buddy 1

like i meant my real dad and brother and sister and my 2real step sisters.and im confused about everything that is goin out with them!!!and i feel like evrything is goin fast with them!!!and ive been stressed out because of everything!!and idk what to do!!!how do i learn how to except everything??that is goin on with my real dad??and how do i take things slowy??

2007-09-18 10:58:21 · 3 answers · asked by kea234 1

2007-09-18 10:47:02 · 3 answers · asked by wlknwtr 2

My mothers boyfriend at whom I'm staying at his home this week gave me a choice between being spanked or him telling my mom?Which should I choose,why,and what can I expect?I only took an AK87!?

2007-09-18 10:42:22 · 4 answers · asked by To Be Left Unsaid! 1

I'm almost 17
He is 17
he is away at school but his mom doesn't like his school and is considering bringing him back home. the only thing is that he doesn't like him family (long story.) and doesn't want to move back in with them...now if his parents and my parents agreed with him moving into my families house...would that be okay? because I'm thinking about like his legal guardian would still be his parents..would that cause conflict or anything?

if you need me to clear up something let me know.

but bottom line...would my boyfriend be able to move in?

2007-09-18 10:18:15 · 3 answers · asked by southernsweetie 3

My father passed away – 9/15/07, he lived in Arkansas, my parents are divorced, my paternal grandfather lives in Texas, and he had to identify him. We live in California. My grandfather stated that he won’t bring his ashes to CA until June 2008, during his vacation. We want his ashes, now; so that we can have closure and a memorial service for him, we know we don’t need the ashes for that but would like to have. No there was no will.

What are our rights? We are his heirs. There are 3 siblings and the oldest is 17.

2007-09-18 09:28:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am trying to find my mother's obituary she died in Nevada about 10 or 11 years ago. Does anyone know how I can find it for free?

2007-09-18 08:54:02 · 9 answers · asked by I don't have all the answers 1

2007-09-18 08:19:34 · 29 answers · asked by dave ry 1

My best friend recently lost her mom and now my mom is doing everything for her. I hate this feeling that I have, yet can't shake it. She has 3 kids & I have none. I just graduated from grad school & am starting a pretty lucrative job however, times are still rough from school debts. I hate it when mom gives her $ or does favors in her home to help. Mom hasn't given me any financial help since I started college or never comes and helps me with any of my housework. I want a baby real bad, but can not have one until my career takes off & I know we can afford it-she had 3 by the time she was 21 & dropped out of school so I know times are rough for her too, but I feel like I am being punished for being responsible. I hate it when my mom says "I'd like a grandchild" & my BF makes comments like "You can have these 3, or these are your grandkids" It drives me nuts, because I will have a child, just not at others expense. I don't want to say anything and sound petty. How can I get over it?

2007-09-18 08:10:59 · 7 answers · asked by emm 4

my mom found a packet of cigarrattes in my purse...i know i messed up there...we didnt talk about it that night cuz i dont know if she was completly sober...the next day she talked to me about it and told me i had to quit my job...then she told me i was gettin out of control...that i had to respect him BECAUSE he paid the rent...then i finally told her he used to touch me when i was younger and he would get drunk...and she didnt believe me...she told me i was making up stories to get out of trouble...and that he would never do that...that she cant take care of me any more and that she's gonna send me away to Mexico with my grandpa...i swear i didnt lie!..so how can my mom not believe her own daughter?..why would i lie to her?..how can i help her see shes wrong?..♥♥♥

2007-09-18 08:09:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were shunned by our entire families. Now they want our help. Should we help those who didn't help us?

2007-09-18 07:32:24 · 25 answers · asked by fanny gardener 3