parents slpit when 5
he has a job in philly now
him and i were close
now live with mom
and i want to die
2007-09-18 14:36:29 · 13 answers · asked by Payge F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ok people i go to school in pittsburgh and i have to stay for basketball i am one of the three best and we are in the hardest division i cant let them down
and my mom has got me in court
2007-09-19 15:26:21 · update #1
Face it, people move. but that doesn't mean you have to die, or even end your relationship with your father. He has a car, right? You can still visit him. Just because he lives farther away doesn't mean he doesn't love you or you have to get all dramatic.
But, then, you're young. This is a hard lesson, but believe me, it's one of many.
2007-09-18 14:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by vtothef 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not want to die, you have not yet begun to live so hold on. You feel very badly now but you must realize that this is not the end and you will see him again. If you were close there is no reason you cannot still be close. You have a computer, tell him to get you a web cam and then you and he can see each other and visit over the web. when you get older you can go visit him and when you are grown you can go live in his city if you choose. There will be many partings for you in life, there will be endings and beginnings, things will stay the same way forever and then suddenly they will change and never go back to what they were, and they they will change again and again and again. You must learn to live with and through each of these transitions because that is what life is made of. some of these things are hard and some are even harder but all of them make up life. You ccn accpet andfind the best in all situations or you can look on the dark side, cry and moan and maybe even delude yourself to thinking that dying is a solution. All that does it to end your life and to make certain that things NEVER get better. You are strong You got guts You can do this so hold on and grow strong. It will be OK
2007-09-18 14:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetie so this is not the end of the world even though it feels like it is...... so maybe your dad needs some space and your mom too sometimes that helps people to understand eachother and that may end in a better relationship, maybe not like it was before but like a good frienship.
you have the chance to learn from their mistakes and try not to do them in your life, remember that everything happens for a reason even if right now you cant see a good one there is a chance that one can be waiting for u ok .......Dont you ever stop looking and supporting both of your parents because right now the two of them need you more than ever ....
2007-09-18 14:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do move we all have to live with that even though it is very hard to do but we have to learn somehow. Maybe try to bring this to court and show judges that your father can take care of you? Or just send emails, vist him, call him, postcards etc. Just try your best hun thats all you can do. I mean god made this happen for a reason right? ( you might not be to happy with that reason ) but try to look on the bright side of things.
Lily
2007-09-18 14:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lily Sawyer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey stop!!! don't do it! I was away from my dad for 2 years and I survived. Of course, I missed him like hell but as long as I called him everyday and you know, tell him about my day. I felt better. Make sure you called your dad every day and tell him you love him. Every day!! Leave a message always!! I'm sure your dad loves you more than anything.Living with your mom can be a pain in the ***, but it's not worth your life!
2007-09-18 14:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by hotchica90210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family is important, but you should'nt want to die b/c of this. Ask your dad if you can move in w/ him. Maybe you would feel better about life if this happens.
Also i think you should talk to someone about how you feel. A guidance counselor in school might be a good option for help in this case. They will keep it confidential.
2007-09-18 14:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by DRIVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a life to live so stay put. Life may be full of problems but there a lot of solutions to it. At least you still have your mom to cling to. There are children out there who are orphans and have become successful persons.
2007-09-18 14:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by Reycen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. the two yet another family individuals member will ought to take custody of you or you will grow to be a ward of the state and enter foster care. i does no longer point out your boyfriend to any government as your age distinction makes him a chid molester and he might nicely be difficulty to arrest and reformatory.
2016-10-19 01:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate to that my mom had 12 kids then my dad went to prison for 7 years it was on my 8th birthday that same day, but before that my dad would always cheat on her and tell her but she stayed married to him for 17years and while he was in prison divorced him...
2007-09-18 16:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by mandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change is rough at any age. Why can't you go to Philly with him?
2007-09-18 14:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋