Family - July 2007

My sister and I had sex after drinking all night after a wedding. We both agreed it was a mistake the next day and she hasn't talked to me since. Now it is all I think about and want to do it again? How can I convince her it is ok?

2007-07-18 03:26:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom was supposed to be watching my 2 boys & my 7 year old daughter' the boys are both early teens i get a call at work from my daughter ,she told me that my 31 year old brother just showed her his private so i told her i would be there right away so i went &picked them all up &took them to the police department to make a report ,the detective told me he would get back in touch with me in a few days after he questioned my brother, he never did call me or anything ,i had to call him back when i called him he said he turned it over to the district attorney so i called the d.a. &they said he the detective never turned in any report to them about my daughter so it has been an ongoing unresolved problem since this happened ,the detective did say that because my brother gets a disability check that the d.a. probably just dropped the case i don;t consider him disabled because he has 1 daughter that is almost 2 and another daughter due next month.

2007-07-18 03:25:23 · 13 answers · asked by JEANIE S 1

My ex partner and i split up when my daughter was only a few months old, he then (after about a year applied for access) he constantly let her down by not turning up for visits, it then got to the point that she would be hysterical when he turned up as she did'nt want to go with him, access was stopped so he reapplied to the court again for access to be re-instated.
when the case got to court he got up in the middle of the hearing and told the judge that he wished to withdraw his application, we have heard nothing from him since and that was over a year ago. Until today when i received a letter from his solicitor stating that he deeply regrets his actions and that he wants to take me back to court for access.
Does he have a leg to stand on?
My daughter doesnt even know him any more and doesnt want to see him, it would definately not be in her best interests for this man to reappear in her life.
Any advice please help.

2007-07-18 03:05:35 · 13 answers · asked by mindsgoneblank 1

2007-07-18 02:58:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-18 02:47:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father found out long after his mother had died that she had had another baby boy after him, who had died shortly after birth. My father used to believe that he knew everything about the family and we used to get into quite heated arguments. While my cousin only found out in adulthood that his mother had been married and divorced before.

2007-07-18 02:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by purplepeace59 5

Growing up, did anyone's parents act like their behavior was always amusing?

I realise my parents were pretty patronizing with an amused attitude, as though my actions were always something to look at with a "how amusing" attitude that one would give a three year old. I'm talking about teen years here too, and normal activities such as talking on the phone, hanging out with friends, even just going to the mall. My parents would smirk, or comment on simple activities like that.


Now that I'm fully grown, I wonder if this is where some of my social anxiey comes from, I constantly think people are going to laugh at me. And I also realise their behavior was somewhat odd... or at least odd to me. They didn't go out much, or have many friends, I remember.

I can't pinpoint it, but I can vaguely remember how amazed I was when I went to some friend's houses and their parents didn't comment on stuff they did.

Anyone grow up in a similar situation?

2007-07-18 01:15:57 · 3 answers · asked by mirrorinthesky 3

i'm an only child who's 17 years old with a divorced 53 year-old mother. i love my mother to death and i am the first generation of my family to be born in America. ever since i was a child, i thought about how lonely when my mother dies. lately, i can't get over the feeling of how lonely i'll be when my mother passes away. it's become really bad and i'm afraid to talk to my mother about it. i want to be with my family (as in cousins, grandparents, etc) but i can't since i live in america. my mom and i have a 34 year old difference. i'm so scared of losing her. i don't know what i'll do. anyone can give me advice on how to cope with this fear i have? thank you.

2007-07-17 20:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by abcjosiee 2

so my parents just bought a house. And the house we are in now is the only place i have ever lived, and i would love to continue living here. It 650 a month all bills paid. I have a little over a thousand in the bank, but i have no job and i'm rushing to find one. The problem is my parents are moving into their new home on the 28th, so i have to tell the landlord if i want to stay here or not. I know i can get a job making 800 a month. but i know i will only have 150 left for groceries and etc. But my parents new house is just a few blocks away and i could eat all their food up. i dont want a roommate i wanna prove i can do this on my own. so do yall think i can do it

2007-07-17 19:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by Rhett butler 1

I was wondering after you have a newborn baby... how long it takes after you get home to get enough rest to where you can go back to getting in touch with others like friends to let them know that you had your baby???? Thanks!

2007-07-17 18:32:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

plz i need to no if i tell them or just ler her tell them

2007-07-17 18:22:28 · 13 answers · asked by K0dY S 1

My husband's parents invited us out for dinner. We already had plans so we didn't go and told his brother we wouldn't be there. That day as we were having a cookout with neighbors, my sister-in-law had her child who is 6 years old repeatedly call our house and demand to know why we didn't come. He called like five times. My neighbor was helping me in the kitchen and heard the machine. I was so embarrased. I unplugged it. They then drove past our house and just looked at us but didn't stop. She then called my husband's cell phone and said she drove past to see what we were doing that was so important that we could not come. Is it any of her business? I am begginning to feel my privacy being invaded here. Am I wrong? I want my husband to speak to her but he says just ignore her. I want it to stop. She does this everytime we decide to do something on our own that doesn't include them. She needs to get a life. High school was 15 years ago last time I checked.

2007-07-17 17:54:26 · 5 answers · asked by um-kay 3

He moved in with a girl about 4 months ago. I told him now 2 times he can have his mail moved to his new address and he says he knows. I call him to tell him he has mail and he comes to get it, but he does not have it forewarded. Today I got a box from the UPS man for him.
What do you think my son is up to?

2007-07-17 17:40:42 · 16 answers · asked by happydawg 6

Our grandma's staying with us. She's been "spoiling" us (me and my siblings; her grandkids), taking over our chores, and whatnot. We argue with her that we can do it ourselves, but we never win an arguement when it comes to her! And now, of all the nerve! She's complaining to our aunts and our parents of being treated like a slave! Wtf do we do about her?!

2007-07-17 17:29:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 17 year old brother is hardly ever home, he is an addict, had a 25000 dollar honda accord coupe that is now not working due to drunk driving, been to jail, parents know, sneaks out, im worried for his health and parents don't trust me anymore cause they think i am going to make the same mistake im not but they wont listen some one Help?? ALL HELP WELCOME!

2007-07-17 17:27:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know what to get him....He is very athletic nd social......HELP!!!!

2007-07-17 16:59:53 · 6 answers · asked by datbelizeankid 1

...my BFF and I talk all of the time about her situtation. I tried to see it from all sides, but, now I know their mom is manipulating them. I have visited (a lot) and this past weekend when they were over to our place for a BBQ, they seemed to be happy, played with our kids, and with their dad, but, they were distant from my BFF. She is a sweetheart and has never said anything bad about their mom. Yesterday, my BFF called to say that the mom called and spoke to all of the kids, they all went into another room, and when they hung up, they kept quiet and started acting strange. Does anyone have any suggestions for me to help? I love them all, but, I am running out of ideas and I am starting to want to avoid them all...

2007-07-17 15:55:38 · 5 answers · asked by LaraLara 4

We are a family of five and I care for my Grandma most of the time so really (6) in a four bedroom home.My husbands Step cousin and wife want to move in with us because they are having financial difficulties,(but who isn't) he has got his three children for the summer and other than that every other weekened.I feel like this is not going to work out very well and I do not know what to do or say.He already lives like 5 hours from here.He also is always calling wanting money and we do not give it to him.My husband wants to help because he said well he is family and we are close,but he is his step dads nephew.My husband told him that he really did not think it was a good idea and he said well we will sleep on the floor.He rents the house he lives in now and has nothing but one car and he is a heavy equipment operator and has to pay $600 a month in child support.And I do not know what else to say to my husband with out being really ugly about this entire situation.What should I do???????

2007-07-17 15:55:34 · 6 answers · asked by tosha38401 3

sending the kids to bed without supper as punishment?my hubby seems to think so,i do not,the only 2 times he got away with this i brought food to their rooms...honest opinions please,was i wrong to go behind his back?

2007-07-17 15:44:08 · 20 answers · asked by sleepy 5

my dad was killed in a motorcycle accident. i have recently found it so hard to cope with. every where i go it reminds me of him.at friends house i suddenyl start crying and they think somethings wrong with me! what should i do?

2007-07-17 15:37:20 · 15 answers · asked by Annamarie 2

and if you dont, dont u hate it when u do and its awkward caz everyone is quiet. thats how it is in my house lol. but do you eat at the family table?? is it rarely like mines, or never or all the time??

2007-07-17 15:13:14 · 17 answers · asked by rvd343 2

i dont gamble and the only time i spend money is for our bills and foods? why is he doing this?HEELLLLPPP!! im very sick of it!

2007-07-17 15:10:16 · 15 answers · asked by shemi 1

Is it better to tell the child when he/she is still young, or is it better to wait till the child is older?

2007-07-17 15:09:21 · 15 answers · asked by Mia 2

2007-07-17 15:06:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family has some pretty unusual b-day traditions, what about you?

We don't celebrate the beginning of a new age, but a great year (like on our last day of being 13 thats when we celebrate...) And thats when we get presents. And on our actual birthday we help out at some organization.

So what do you do?

2007-07-17 14:37:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My step-sisters mom came over to bring her stuff back and then my sister ended up going with her.But her mom sat on the outside swing and MY MOM IS NOW BURNING THE SWING CUSHIONS!!!??? WHATS UP??

2007-07-17 14:28:56 · 16 answers · asked by *girl* w/ *no name* 2

i only know his first name, roughly his age and where he worked in 1984 and his nationality..... I don't have enough money to hire a pi and i tried ringing the people he worked for back then, but dueto privacy they were unable to help me.

2007-07-17 14:23:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you just lost someone for good, like they died, and they were really close to you, and you want to go to their funeral to pay your respects but you dont want their husband to see you crying. what would you do?

2007-07-17 14:15:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

no money (he makes all the money and wont let me touch it), no where to go, and family can not help and live too far away for me to go stay with them. I dont know what to do. Me and my three children are about to be homeless

2007-07-17 14:12:48 · 9 answers · asked by carlymh26 1

I've always had problems with my family, for as long as I can remeber. Then again, my family is kind of messed up. My sisters were always mentally abusive, putting me down when ever they could, even into my adult years. They are just mean people I guess. Most of my aunts, uncles, and cousins are either addicted to drugs, alcahol, or ofted, both. Some women in my family seem to think that pedophiles are ok, and dispite their childrens claims, and the police investigations, refuse to believe their children that her boyfriend, or husband, has molested her children (regardless of his past record). The only person I seem to care about in my family is my mother, who is a sweet, caring woman who just wants her children to get along. I dont think we can.

I moved away from my family, across country and do not have contact with any one but my mother, even though she keeps trying to get me to talk with my family. My question is,

Have I done the right thing for my self by leaving?

2007-07-17 13:55:32 · 18 answers · asked by Ayana 6