I've always had problems with my family, for as long as I can remeber. Then again, my family is kind of messed up. My sisters were always mentally abusive, putting me down when ever they could, even into my adult years. They are just mean people I guess. Most of my aunts, uncles, and cousins are either addicted to drugs, alcahol, or ofted, both. Some women in my family seem to think that pedophiles are ok, and dispite their childrens claims, and the police investigations, refuse to believe their children that her boyfriend, or husband, has molested her children (regardless of his past record). The only person I seem to care about in my family is my mother, who is a sweet, caring woman who just wants her children to get along. I dont think we can.
I moved away from my family, across country and do not have contact with any one but my mother, even though she keeps trying to get me to talk with my family. My question is,
Have I done the right thing for my self by leaving?
2007-07-17
13:55:32
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18 answers
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Ayana
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I do keep in contact with my mother, I call her almost ever day. She is the only person I DO keep in contact with. I had tried talking with my sisters about their behavior, but they did not seem to see it. I love my mother very much, but the rest of my family are just... I can not even think of a word that fits them.
2007-07-17
14:02:53 ·
update #1
Some one mentioned my father... heh... I stopped talking to him years ago. He is addicted to many drugs, and was over all neglectfull through my entire life.
I am in a much more positive place now, I live with my fiance, near his family who I adore and cheris. I am much happier than I ever was with my family. It feels good to know that so many people think it was a wise decision.
2007-07-17
14:06:35 ·
update #2
I am comfortable with the fact that I left. I am glad that I left, and I have a wonderful new family (my fiance's family), who love me. His parrents are like the parrents I always wished I had. Helpful, comforting, loving.
I guess I asked because I was talking on the phone with my mother and she started crying. I hated it, but I was firm. I was not going back. I will pay for her to come visit me, and I will visit her on occation. But I will not see my family.
Thank you every one who answered. I really, and honestly appreciate it.
2007-07-17
14:15:51 ·
update #3