Family - July 2007

2007-07-17 01:52:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel that all people should be DNA tested, if only to prove our mothers were telling the truth as to who our fathers are. If it became law I'd bet there would be a lot of shitty knickers around. What da ya tink folks?

2007-07-17 00:36:28 · 16 answers · asked by cockeye 2

I found that many foreign moms kiss their sons on chicks as well as on lip then, why not in India?

2007-07-16 21:04:38 · 24 answers · asked by sweet boy 1

All of my grandparents are gone, most of all my loved ones, except for my parents, my aunts and uncles, and brothers and sisters. The thing is, I dont think that most of them like me. I know my mom and dad love me, they just never want to play out side with me? I dont see my brothers and sister much, because they dont live here, but when I do see them, it seems like they dont want anything to do with me? The only aunt and uncle who actualy care about me, live away, the rest never call for anything, not even special occasions, and when I do see them, its in the store, and all they say is "Oh look how big shes getting." I have an adopted grandmother that goes to my church, and other then my parents, well I love her a lot, and shes done more than most of my family (other than my parents) have ever done for me, and shes only known me for about 2 years, and I love her sooo much, but am I doing something wrong? I've invited them to church, and they get mad, would that be the proublem??

2007-07-16 20:57:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay see theres thius school that goes year round called lifeskills and i went threw hell to buy i new birth certificate and i got my id and social card...but now the school says i still need my mom to go down and sign the papers to enroll me ive been bugging my mom before i even got the birth certificate to help me and she wouldnt so i got it on my own after it took forever and hell...now she wont even go down there to sign a paper ??? i have no clue what her problem is shes allways like this i really really really want to get back in school so i can get a good job..but she wont help me..i asked the school if i could bring the papers to her then take them back to them signed but they said no because they need to see thats its my reall mom signing the papers i fight all night begging her to go down there with me but she just wont help....i beg her till sshe gets mad and threatens to kick me out of her house which shes done before and i just go to my room and leave it at that..

2007-07-16 20:19:17 · 2 answers · asked by acebabii428 2

I need suggestions on how to get my brother out of a horrible relationship. He is living with his gf who has been on so many antidepressant drugs (lexapro right now). She is on and off them. She takes pain drugs and everything else she can get a prescription for, drinks lots. She's not really crazy enough to need those drugs. She just sits on the couch during the day. She can function just fine but will not take care of her 4 kids (16,12,8,4). He has taken it upon himself to take care of them all (gf is 35 he is 30). She is always threatening to kill herself if he were "to leave", and has hit him before. When we talk to him about it he kinda breaks down maybe a tear or two. We want her out of his life because she is toxic.. she has ruined any self esteem that he did have and ruined any self-confidence that he had. Its just bad all around... How can we get him out forever.... They have been together for almost 4 yrs now. HELP US!

2007-07-16 20:15:34 · 2 answers · asked by Gretchykee 1

i live with my mother and grandfather, but i find them both nuts along with the rest of the world, and i want to go live with a life long family friend who will give me the guidense i need, and i do not want to live with my father, if i do move out my grandpa and mother will aliended me if i live with the family friend, but wont aliended me if i go live with my father what should i do?

2007-07-16 19:22:14 · 4 answers · asked by A.P. 1

i recently found out that my dad is having an affair with a china woman less than half his age. no one in my family knows this and i dont intend to let my mum or sister know. im feeling disgusted and what i really want to do is to get back at that woman and make her stop seducing my dad. please help me think of some ways i can get back at her. no worries, im not thinking of murder or arson or stuff like that just looking for harmless fun that'll be sufficient to make her stop. thanks

2007-07-16 17:48:06 · 15 answers · asked by downcast 1

ive always been the one in the family that everyone comes to for help or to just vent at about something else. ive pretty much been the glue holding my family together. now my brother is pulling himself away. my step dad is totally clueless about everything and so he gave up. my mom is stresseed to the max. and my older sister just moved out cuz shes bulimic nd doesn't want to be around the family. shes in therapy trying to get better. shes living with her bf but is still living off my family. and im in therapy because everyone still comes tome and im just an emotional teenage girl and i cant handle all of it. ive been a cutter for a year and so im also in therapy for that because my step dad and i fight constantly and yell and scream at eachother. ive always been one to fix things and i always have the need to fix things so they are better and peaceful and no one hurts anymore and my family is falling apart and i dont know how to fix it. HELP!

2007-07-16 17:38:31 · 10 answers · asked by GiR 1

im 15 and my best friend i known is moving to a different school. we went to central school for three years together. now she is going back to east school. we used to go there. were both 15. help! i miss her! she moved one month ago. i just received a letter in the mail by her. the note was so said. im even crying now. it said:

"there been some changes in my life that i want you to know about. i quit central and im going back to east where we had good times together. im going back yet i cant really go back. you can only move foward. thats what i hope to do and for you. as we both struggle to understand. yours always, kelsea."

what does she mean by she cant really go back? help! its sad!

2007-07-16 17:15:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in tears right now becuase of a fight my mom and I are having.

I'm pregnant and temporarily living with her.

These ex friends of mine were knocking on my window the other night and I went outside to ask them to leave because I was tired and we decided a while back we didn't want to associate with each other anymore. One of the 6 that were there threatened to kick my ***, I went in my house and called the police.

My mom told me to handle it myself, and she didn't even try to console me.

The police warned them if they didn't leave me alone charges would be filed.

Well today I tried venting about it to my mom, and she actually started blaming me for what happened and so I talked over her so she'd listen. I was hurt and scared and she said, "Well I looked at the window and you looked like you were chatting with friends."

I said, "I was in shock! They told me they wanted to beat me up!"

And she said, "Well with your personality who doesn't?"

Any advice?

2007-07-16 15:34:55 · 8 answers · asked by Mikki Lynn Breisch 2

I LOST MY BABY BROTHER ALMOST 2 MONTHS AGO....AND IT HURTS SO BAD, ALL THE MEMORIES ARE STILL HERE AND I JUST NEED TO UNDERSTAND WHY DO THE GOOD DIE?!?!?
http://i10.tinypic.com/4ulei68.jpgR.I.P THIS IS MY BABY BROTHER JORGE LUIS PORTILLO.HE PASSED AWAY IN A HORRIBLE ACCIDENT THIS YEAR .BIRTH DAY:JUNE,3,1989-MAY,18,2007
Heres a Picture of what he looks like!
He whant to eldorado, and palo verde h.s.
he was in soccer, footbal and band for 4 uears!
everyone luhvs him!
......i miss him so much....i just wish ....ahhh

2007-07-16 14:21:06 · 10 answers · asked by jasmine_ely 2

I live in utah, and most of them are mormons, why do they assume that just because i am married now i have to get knocked up all of a sudden? Is it just Utah or does everyone have this problem when they get married? What should I say to them to make them stop asking?

2007-07-16 14:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by Daria 1

I am looking for a song to put on a dvd tribute I'm making...my mother was given 1 year to live with systemic lupus and fought it for 13 years before her body could no longer handle it. I am her 16 year old son, but this dvd will go out to friends and family.

2007-07-16 13:59:40 · 9 answers · asked by Nick V 2

2007-07-16 13:42:13 · 4 answers · asked by Frootbat31 6

When my mom died 2 years ago in a car accident, I feel like i am alone in this world. Since I have no other family -father, sibblings, and other relatives to turn to, I get very lonely-especially during the sad times.

I remained in school after her death and will be entering my senior year in college in fall. I also working to go to graduate school-because I want to make my mom proud.

Whenever I feel sad, I usually tried to tackle them and keep on moving. But at certain times it just feels so hard. I miss my mom so much, and i feel so lonely. I am feeling like I am starting loosing my strenght or exhausting the strengths I have. please give me some advises, I dont know what to do?

Please give advise..

2007-07-16 13:37:10 · 24 answers · asked by PeachyDay 1

My nephew is 15.... his girl is 15... Today he came up to me and flashed me a pic of her naked.... Is looking at it, child pornography???? I mean she is hot but I am 27.... I can't ignore that she was hot, but she is 15....

2007-07-16 13:31:16 · 22 answers · asked by tammy p 5

2007-07-16 13:05:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 12:44:10 · 8 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3

I know that to most I am considered young, but I was raised that you respect adults and your elders. Now I really do not see that anymore. If I disrespected an adult, I don't care how wrong I thought I was, my parents would have left my butt sore. My parents always told me that if an adult disrespects you, that you respect them still, and tell us, then we will handle the adult. That is not your responsibility to correct your elders. Nowadays, it is totally different. What do you think about the respecting your elders thing?

2007-07-16 12:30:27 · 19 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6

Even if they make the child promise never to tell the other kids, I can't help but to think this can't be a good idea. At least when you're young, you're immature enough to actually "enjoy" such a thing, but as you get older, it seems like it would have to make things sort of "strange". I once heard a parent do this - and she meant it - and I can't help but feel that overall, it would work out to be a negative thin in the long term. It's not that I think parents should never actually -have- a "favorite" - I doubt that can be avoided - but feeling it and stating it are two different things. It seems like stating it is just not "fair", for some reason. FWIW, I've never been told I'm the favorite or heard my sister being told that, but I -have- heard other parents say it. I just have to wonder.

2007-07-16 11:35:28 · 16 answers · asked by uncleclover 5

I got a job about a month ago.. I hate it, i get paid underminimum wage..and i get long horrible hours... there is nothing i can do about it and i never wanted this job in the first place. My parents made me get it. Its stressing me out becuase i work all weekend and never get to see my friends or Boyfriend... My mom tells me to do thinds during the week which doesnt work cus everyone i know works weekdays and has weekends off...

I told my mom i was going to give my two weeks notice at the end of the month and she said thats just dandy your going to end up like a loser, just like your boyfriend.. working fulltime no degrees and being comlete poor moron....
My mom just doesnt get it, for one thing my job is stressing me out like crazy and is making me go mental... And then she says my boyfriend is a loser, he has his highschool diploma and just becuase his family isnt rich doesnt mean hes never gunna get a degree.. he has to pay rent and food all by himself.. hes saving up slowly

2007-07-16 10:44:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I just posted a question here and it is about my family inviting me to go to Aruba for a week. I decided no because my mom would have to work overtime to have to pay the 1200 dollars required to go. So I went and told her to say no for me and now she keeps arguing with me because she wants me to go? And she also told me my brother may go... which adds up to 2400 dollars that she has to pay! She is adament on me going but I don't want to make her pay all that What do I do now?

Thanks 4 answering =)

2007-07-16 10:24:52 · 13 answers · asked by Sunshine 4

Will be going to court 2marrow and little nervous, I feel that I could just vent more. This is my 1st divorce and feels that my wife is going crazy. I still wish we could be together for my daughter’s sake. I do not want the divorce but it is what it is. We have 1 child together and she has accused me of abducting her from daycare. She has said things about me that are not true. How can this be? When my child was abducted there was no order. While in my wife care she had a third degree burn, how it happened I don’t know. I have stopped giving her money due to my little income. She was the bread winner in my household. She makes 65K I made 25K. She is trying to kick me out of the house which we acquired during marriage; however I signed a quick claim. (Did not know what I really signed back then, though it was because my credit was to bad, so we decided not to put me on the deed. WHAT A MISTAKE. If we divorcees can I argue that I help keep the pay for the mortgage? I obtained counsel last week but her lawyer was on vacation so her lawyer does not know that I have counsel. Will anything happen? We will go into court and ask for a continues. How long will the continues be? I’m nervous. Also I want to see my child, which the mediator recommends that I take a parenting class and only get 10 hours a week supervised. My lawyer will be attacking the mediator recommendations. With the last 10 years never been in trouble with the law why this?

2007-07-16 10:23:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never gone fishing before but it sounds like fun! I really need to know though because my reputation is on the line!

2007-07-16 10:20:32 · 8 answers · asked by KeeWee 2

mine is my nana (grandmother) wondering if she i looking down on me for heaven.

2007-07-16 09:55:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad has three kids but one he give up me and my brother are very close i love my brother he is 13 and i don't went him growing up with out his dad like i did my dad left me when i was 1 i seen him when i was 3 my brother tells me he hates my dad so much i say no you don't but i hate him too what should i do

2007-07-16 09:43:36 · 20 answers · asked by Kilo 😈 1

He has been incarcerated for 7 years and his now out. We have two teenage girls. They don't mind seeing him, but I want to do what I feel is safe. Should I allow them to see him (supervised) or not at all? He also has to register as a sex offender.

2007-07-16 09:16:56 · 11 answers · asked by godskid1970 2

My brother is engaged to this really nice girl but I was surprised when I found out that her cousin is someone I have known since fourth grade. We don't like each other. But know we are going to become in-laws because my brother is marrying his cousin which will make us cousins by marriage. He and my sister-in-law are like brother and sister, What do I do. His cousin is going to be my sister-in-law and he is going to become my cousin by marriage. What do I do.

2007-07-16 09:16:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Heres the "scoop" I am 20 and pregnant. My mom and mother in law are throwing the babyshower- my mom and stepmom never got along and never will, my mom will not invite my stepmom to the shower and she is throwing a fit and blaming it on me. She told everyone on my dad's side not to show because she's not invited, and now none of them are coming- not even my own Grandma! and to make things worse my dad won't even talk to me about it- he just says that I need to stick up to my mom- I've tried it doesn't work. Well yesterday my dad called my 2 sisters over for dinner with my grandma and nobody ever called me, I had to find out from my mom that my sisters went there! I feel like they don't even want me apart of the family anymore- what should I do? I thinks it's ridicilous and that she should just get over it! I have already told her that it's not me and that its my mom.

2007-07-16 08:57:22 · 23 answers · asked by jennifer h 2