I'm in tears right now becuase of a fight my mom and I are having.
I'm pregnant and temporarily living with her.
These ex friends of mine were knocking on my window the other night and I went outside to ask them to leave because I was tired and we decided a while back we didn't want to associate with each other anymore. One of the 6 that were there threatened to kick my ***, I went in my house and called the police.
My mom told me to handle it myself, and she didn't even try to console me.
The police warned them if they didn't leave me alone charges would be filed.
Well today I tried venting about it to my mom, and she actually started blaming me for what happened and so I talked over her so she'd listen. I was hurt and scared and she said, "Well I looked at the window and you looked like you were chatting with friends."
I said, "I was in shock! They told me they wanted to beat me up!"
And she said, "Well with your personality who doesn't?"
Any advice?
2007-07-16 15:34:55 · 8 answers · asked by Mikki Lynn Breisch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How old are you? Is it possible that your mom is upset over your being pregnant? I dont know all the details of your situation but my 15 year old came home pregnant after a couple of really rough years. But let me tell you this. Once the initial shock is over ( its was over for me quickly, maybe not so quickly for your mom) I realized that babies are ALWAYS a blessing. I have gotten more joy out of that little grandson of mine. He's now 7. My daughter and I now have a great relationship after many years of anger and resentment. If you are a teenager, those years are very hard, especially for mothers and daughters. Hold on. It will get better!!!
2007-07-16 15:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Angie O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your mom sounds like a horrible person. I'm not going to tell you to move out, b/c your money is probably tight. I would just leaves these matters between you and your friends.
I honestly don't know what to say. She sounds like a really cruel person. I sympathize with you.
2007-07-16 22:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write in a letter to her what happened and how you feel to avoid you getting into another arguement and then sit down and try and resolve it. If this doesn't work it could be best you try and find a place of your own.
2007-07-16 22:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pregnant and very emotional. The best thing to do is let it go. You have to take care of yourself and your baby. Stress is not good for you and neither is fighting!
2007-07-16 22:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really young? It sounds like your mom may be taking the news about your baby really badly
2007-07-16 22:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys need to work things out, you don't need that extra stress while pregnant. is there anywhere else you can go?
2007-07-16 22:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by dianiagay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, listen to your mom. She knows more than you do.
2007-07-16 22:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems you have dug a hole
2007-07-16 22:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋