All of my grandparents are gone, most of all my loved ones, except for my parents, my aunts and uncles, and brothers and sisters. The thing is, I dont think that most of them like me. I know my mom and dad love me, they just never want to play out side with me? I dont see my brothers and sister much, because they dont live here, but when I do see them, it seems like they dont want anything to do with me? The only aunt and uncle who actualy care about me, live away, the rest never call for anything, not even special occasions, and when I do see them, its in the store, and all they say is "Oh look how big shes getting." I have an adopted grandmother that goes to my church, and other then my parents, well I love her a lot, and shes done more than most of my family (other than my parents) have ever done for me, and shes only known me for about 2 years, and I love her sooo much, but am I doing something wrong? I've invited them to church, and they get mad, would that be the proublem??
2007-07-16 20:57:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dear, families are different and individuals are far more diverse. I guess that your confusion is overwhelming and I neither blame you nor ridicule you for it. The feeling of loneliness is natural due to the ways your siblings treat you.
Let things slide, you have managed all this time without them, take one day at a time, " It is a mistake to try to look too far ahead. The chain of destiny can only be grasped one link at a time." Sir Winston Churchill
I wish you love in life and wish you find the room in your heart to forgive those who had –for no reason what so ever- offended you and shown you anger… Good Luck
2007-07-16 21:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by KaysoCles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erika--you are seeing the world thru your young eyes--I know it would be nice to have the contact--but in an adult world, adults are busy and time just goes by quickly--hardly any time for themselves--no less you. just concentrate on home school and your future--those are the things that count--You aren't doing anything wrong so stop worrying and move on. You have your whole life to take care of --so get to it.
2007-07-17 04:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never that sweety. There's nothing wrong with you...stop torturing yourself about it. You have to love yourself first...it's your gain and their lost. As long as you know and feel that your parents love you unconditionally, that's all that matters.
2007-07-17 04:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dwayne A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to pray about your problems, and not list them here on answers! we all have family problems, you're not the only one in this boat!!! So, pray!
2007-07-17 04:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by babysteppin2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋