Family - March 2007

2007-03-22 22:25:36 · 20 answers · asked by suvek a 1

What can I do to help her through this but not feel her wrath?

2007-03-22 22:04:27 · 6 answers · asked by Small Lady 4

i'm bi polar diagnosed after crash and burn but still a good guy,ex gf had kid and I lost contact last seen 2000 claimed new bf wanted to be the daddy but she called to say "she 's walking her first word...do you know annette rivera she has a son11 ? and a daughter 6?she of hispanic descent 36yr?use to live in plainfeild n.j. moved to jersey city then to washington state with her bro...just trying to find my baby girl..cbp duson69@aol.com

2007-03-22 21:46:27 · 3 answers · asked by charles b38 1

Okay heres the story

My husband was married to his ex for 11 years, she had a 1 1/2 year old daughterwhen they met, whom shes had 3 guys tested and all 3 have come back negative as the father. Shes now 15. They have a biological son whose 12. and a 7 year old girl who no one knows who the father is. He was in the army the whole marriage and was stationed in Germany when she got pregnant with the 6 yr old. she tried to lie and say it was his but he was over there. He forgave her and they stayed togeather for a while. they divorced and now hes married to me. He pays child support for his son but also takes care of the girls to. They all call him dad. They all come down to our house. Theyve even lived with us. We'll I now have a 4 week old daughter with him and he called to tell them when she was born and his ex told them he had his perfect family and she wont let them come down anymore. She tells them he dosent love them. I feel like Its my fault cause I wanted my own baby?

2007-03-22 21:19:20 · 4 answers · asked by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5

im having a lot of trouble with my family, well just my brothers acually im seeing a guy who is 18 and i am 22 they wont stop picking on us its not about the age difference they just miss my ex who treated me badly ive had just about enough im at that point where i want to kill myself i cant stand them anymore, but i have a 3 year old daughter and i dont want to leave her with no one ive been trying to get a house so i dont have to put up with anyone anymore how can i stop them? its hard to get a house in this area at the moment help me!

2007-03-22 21:12:27 · 8 answers · asked by kelz 1

I'm 18 years old, and i hate the living Cr*ap out of my mum and step father. My mum was abusive (physically/mentally - booted me out as a child onto street etc) to me all my life and my stepfather is a smart assed D**k ****er. They say the worst things and i'm just expected to take it. All i can say is that if i wasn't so young and doing my degree i would move out. Unfortunatly cos of full time uni, it's impossible for me financially to support myself because i can do max 15 hours of work a week. So i'm stuck here living with people i hate and would rather see sprawled out dead on the side walk.

Are there any people who had a dislike for their parents or still do and can't leave? If so, what are some things you do to make it more bearable until the day when you can jsut leave and feel free and wonderful that you never have to see your parents again.

Before you call me unreasonable, i want to assure you that we have tried to fix our relationship but we are much too incompatible.

2007-03-22 20:42:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 19 & shes alwayz torturing me swearing at me & blames evry wrong thing on me,,,,im lyk crying 24/7 i dont know what 2 do........for some reason i cant even leave the house i have 2 stay there cause of rest of my family, i even told my dad about this he says just ignore her....i cant ignore it she alwayz says nasty stuff 2 me n therefore if i back chat her she gets worser.
plz help me !!!

2007-03-22 20:40:29 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom died about 3 months ago of breast cancer. i don't know how to deal with it. i don't know what to do i'm getting mixed feelings

2007-03-22 20:09:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was abused when I was 9 & raped everyone knows BUT my dad. He is NOT in the best of health. We are very close but this is the only thing that I've NEVER told him. The reason I'm thinking of this now is my niece was raped 2 yrs ago & she has been talking to me abt it BUT my dad told me not to get involved! I know what she is going through & want to help but at the same time feel like I'm letting my dad down because I promised him I would stay out of it! I don't know what to do! He never knew or met the a$$hole!! He is the oldest living male in his family!! He knows that it happened to my sister but the "family secret is my secret." 5 yrs ago he had a stroke & heart attack & we alost lost him & I remember that I never told him what happened & I felt bad for keeping the secret since we are so close. I don't know what to do I'm afraid that if I do it will kill him (I'm the baby of the family) but on the other hand I feel like I'm lying to him since everyone else knows but him!!

2007-03-22 19:25:13 · 9 answers · asked by Missy 3

being the oldest of 5 children (17 years old ), and the older brother of a child with ADD and another with downs syndrome, I often find myself at war with my parents. I feel as though I'm the family's scapegoat, and the one to take the blame for everything, also as of late, my rebellious sister has been causing trouble around the house, and again, I feel like I'm on the receiving end of this. Am I wrong to feel this way, and how can I solve this problem (I've tried telling my parents, but they always shrug me off as being manipulative and melodramatic)? And how can i get my dad to be a better father and spend more time with me?

2007-03-22 19:00:14 · 6 answers · asked by notTHATguy 2

i am a newlywed.. and i share a good rapport with my in-laws, especially my mum-in-law, and i hope to keep it this way.
however, i have this pesky, annoying cousin who is trying to make things sour. she is sugary sweet whenever she meets me, and then she goes and says s..hit about me to my mother in law. what should i do... i hate confrontations... but how do i get rid of this problem of mine.

2007-03-22 18:59:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sis has been divorced 10 yrs now & raises 2 daughters 16&15 yrs. she never, by my observation, treated her older daughter as well as she does the younger one. & now it has started to take its toll.... the older daughter has since joined a gang (dad's pretty much outta the pic) & has experimented w/drugs, the way my sis did (and my niece knows about it). now my sis says very hurtful things in front of and to my niece& vice versa.there is no respect between them and not much kindness. i try to intervene when i can but there's not much i can do (i have my own fam.) my sis doesn't work half the time(for med reasons, she says) and both of my nieces get frustrated that there is not enough $ to buy things teen-girls want. just yesterday, they got into a physical fight and my sis kind of bragged that she "busted her lip" (my1 niece's). they say they don't need therapy and i worry that something much worse will happen if they don't get the help i think they seriously need. what can fam. do?

2007-03-22 18:59:22 · 3 answers · asked by JUST ME 3

I would like to find some sites that will let you search for someone for free using their ss#. I have found several that say they are free yet want you to pay to get the info.
Thanks!

2007-03-22 18:49:44 · 5 answers · asked by cyndi9802 1

Give me an answer which will make my day and i am really facing such people around me, its an urge of mine to get an answer which will boast me to be the best.
God save me.

2007-03-22 18:48:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter wants to have a Krypto the Superdog Bday Theme. She loves superdog, she is turning 4 on her birthday. And I have no idea where to go and get party supplies that has Krypto on it.
Thanks

2007-03-22 18:42:41 · 3 answers · asked by rhonags 2

so i was wondering what my father and what my father in law would be to each other! for example my brother is my partners brother in law! just wondering

2007-03-22 18:24:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I feel so sad all the time for no reason... And at home ( I live with my great grandma) My great grandma is criticizing me all the time and saying I'm not normal and I'm weird and Strange. Also, she criticizes my friends on how they talk, look, eat, and other stuff. Which makes it worse. My great grandma has rarely EVER said anything nice to me. I don't want to live with her but if I don't I'll have to leave my friends, school, and more. I'm so sad all the time. what should I do?

2007-03-22 18:09:51 · 10 answers · asked by Me ^^ 1

well, me and my sister [who is 11] are bored -- and we need some suggestions on what we can do?!?! =]

2007-03-22 18:09:39 · 8 answers · asked by Morgan M 1

Problem with mom.

I'm already 30+, am a graduate. I've got to know this guy whom I'm interested in, met him 2 yrs ago. Mom knows this guy as well. Recenly, I've been chatting with him at night daily... we're not a couple (even though i'm not sure whether we are).

Mom found out that I'm chatting with this guy, and she got angry and forbit me from even CHATTING. What's wrong with talking to someone? I've always been a good gal at home. She says he's a 'low-class' person and we're not supposed to have anything to do with these people. I mean, c'mon... we're all humans, we're all adults. I think she sense that I like him. She has been very unreasonable these days. I'm even thinking of moving out for some freedom.

Is she too much? What can I do?

2007-03-22 18:01:44 · 11 answers · asked by AL75 3

my brother in law (husbands younger brother) has become one hell of a weird human. he igets funny one day and then he is rude and mean . We all live under one house and it gets irritating . he is married since last 5 months .

i must share that in the past both of us have had great friendship ... sadly some chemistry and feelings .

i have left him alone/sil but bil will scr*w my peace every now and then ... staying together makes it worse .
What to do ?

2007-03-22 17:55:15 · 3 answers · asked by barley 2

2007-03-22 17:43:47 · 18 answers · asked by Hanif P 1

2007-03-22 16:56:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She won't let me live my life without constantly questioning my eyery move or idea. I am more than half-way done with my degree and she still wants me to change my major to journalism! She listens in on my phone conversations and then asks me questions about them. She complains that we never chip in to do housework, but the problem is that we cannot because she will not let us. We do everything wrong.

2007-03-22 16:50:49 · 8 answers · asked by cutie pie (2) 2

Hello, I am not trying to scam the government or anything, but i have a few questions.

First off I live in a family of 6 (including me) and well my step-father makes about 1800 a month totally to about 22k a year in gross and about 18-mid 19k actual take home. My mom just had another baby boy and is on WIC and we do get a some foodstamps, about 140 or so. Well i have a son aswell but he lives down the street with his mother, we are together but I am only 20 now and we are both in college. I really want her to move in with me into my room which i built big enough for the 3 of us in my mothers back yard, for the time being. She currently gets WIC aswell but I was wondering if she moves in will she stop recieveing WIC (formula,baby food,milk) since my mother is on WIC too? Also not that it matters so much but will my mother recieve less food stamps since we would need to report our (me and my gf) paystubs (which total to about 850 total a month)?

2007-03-22 16:41:58 · 7 answers · asked by emo_rox12 1

What is the best way to refer to my future mother in law? Her husband, my fiances father, passed away a few years ago and she was remarried for a short period of time. She did not change her name when she was remarried. So do I call her Mrs. ___, Ms. ___, or by her first name. thanks!!

2007-03-22 16:39:55 · 20 answers · asked by nosillanalehp 1

only to have my mum make me feel horrible about myself? I just moved back home in January, and it seems like everything is now my fault. I just feel depressed and like I have low self-esteem, because she is always questioning my decisions. I'm more than half-way done with my degree and she is still trying to get me to change my major to journalism. I called an old friend today and afterwards she asked me about things she overheard on the conversation. Always questioning my moves, making me feel very badly about myself.

2007-03-22 16:39:26 · 4 answers · asked by cutie pie (2) 2

see. my dad and my mom got devorced when i was just two. now im fourteen. and living a few states away from my hometown. my dad was an alchohalic and he never really was one of those guys who cared. but when my parents got devorced they agreed on him paying for child support. he never paid one penny for it. and its been twelve years. and if i did sue that money would actually be put to good use. its just i feel like i should really be convincing my mom that we should sue to get the money, but i dont really know if i can or if its too late or what. its just one of those weird family things. and im not worried about the money. its just he was never there for me these twelve years and he should at least pay for something. like the money that he couldve chipped in when my mom and i were really in need. any suggestions? ♥

2007-03-22 16:38:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you agree that they should have the right to do this or do you believe that it's unfair to people who go to jail when they spank their own child.

2007-03-22 16:36:38 · 22 answers · asked by Native 2

my mom and dad say that we have to get married to our own culture.
uhh....so not fair.
cuz, there may be a chance where i like nobody in my culture.
so....i don't know what to do
like....not right now, but when i grow up
i'm only 14 right now.
lol
too young
but, i have to think about it

2007-03-22 16:18:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I changed to my new imported car, she followed to purchase one but is a local car. Now it's approaching 3 years but she had never drove it by herself to work. She also copied my clothing until to the stuff like undergarment. This really a bit disturbing and I have also moved to my new place to get a peace of mind. Nevertheless, when sometimes I went to my in law's place with office wear, the next day she will go and buy the same blouse without asking me where to get it. As from the past 3 years when I was staying with my in law, she had memorized the brands and boutiques that I used to buy/go. Apart from that, she is also jealous with my career and likes to talk to another sister in law pretending to ignore my presence when I attended the family dinner on every Sunday. Hence, can't really figure out why people choose to behave in this manner?

2007-03-22 16:17:44 · 9 answers · asked by ML 1