What can I do to help her through this but not feel her wrath?
2007-03-22 22:04:27 · 6 answers · asked by Small Lady 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my close frnd went thru the same phase where her mom took out the frustration of her dead mom on her...but its bound to happen, so all u can do is co-operate...do the household work, make meals once in a while...do not give her any chance to complaint, and even then there's no change in her attitude...so be it...u should know what ur mom is going thru...
do not back answer...listen to what she says calmly...and don't let it bother u...okay...it will soon get over...support ur mom in anyway possible even if u have to listen to her nagging for no reason...
2007-03-22 22:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by close_in_destroy_everything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first and foremost, you have to be understanding. your mom is going through a rough time and she is human to. of course it's sad. just think how you'd feel if you were in her place. do you really think you could handle it so well if you found out your mom was dying? (no offense intended..just a situational example).
perhaps the best thing to do is be patient. you could also try comforting her. sometimes, out of love, you have to learn to sacrifice. even though it hurts, it's best that you be patient and understanding especially when she takes out her frustration on you. just think, she doesn't really mean to hurt you personally. she just needs a way to let it out. after all, if she kept it all inside, it would most likely embitter her and hurt her even more. so, perhaps the best thing you can do is sympathize with her in her time of sadness.
2007-03-23 07:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by changing_sky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit your mom down and explain that you are in this together and you need to lean on each other not break each other. tell her that you wanna help her get through this but she is making it very difficult for you.
2007-03-23 05:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by mel_sophia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just help her out...she going threw a bad patch right now...help out around the house....don't wait for her to tell you to do something ....you know like washing the clothes, doing the dishes or do something that she has asked you to do but you have been putting it off...and remember its not you that she is mad at it just what she is going thru...if you see her just sitting there go over to her..give a hug and just be there for her....
2007-03-23 05:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand your mom. Be supportive of her.. Be nice to her. Help her doing household stuffs..Be there for her.. She needs you!!
2007-03-23 05:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to remind her that she will one day die too and if she keep taking her frustration out on u. u won't be grieving as much when she dies.
2007-03-23 05:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋