Okay heres the story
My husband was married to his ex for 11 years, she had a 1 1/2 year old daughterwhen they met, whom shes had 3 guys tested and all 3 have come back negative as the father. Shes now 15. They have a biological son whose 12. and a 7 year old girl who no one knows who the father is. He was in the army the whole marriage and was stationed in Germany when she got pregnant with the 6 yr old. she tried to lie and say it was his but he was over there. He forgave her and they stayed togeather for a while. they divorced and now hes married to me. He pays child support for his son but also takes care of the girls to. They all call him dad. They all come down to our house. Theyve even lived with us. We'll I now have a 4 week old daughter with him and he called to tell them when she was born and his ex told them he had his perfect family and she wont let them come down anymore. She tells them he dosent love them. I feel like Its my fault cause I wanted my own baby?
2007-03-22 21:19:20 · 4 answers · asked by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I know its not my fault and I wouldnt give anything for my daughter but hes sad and i know he loves our daughter. He just trys to call them over and over again and him and his ex start fighting and Im so tired of them fighting all the time.
2007-03-22 21:32:25 · update #1
That lady should give you an award for puting up with all the crap that you do. That whole complicated history! Shes jealous of you! The kids know that your hubby love them. Just give that hag time to calm her jets and then everything will be back to normal.
2007-03-23 00:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, Girl, how can you believe it would be your fault? You have every right to have your own child! The kids' mom is just jealous because you have a baby. Give her some time & maybe she'll get over it. If he's paying child support for his son he should get to see him, and hopefully the girls will get to go along & see him too.
Don't be upset over this, enjoy your baby!
She's only 4 weeks old & they grow SO fast, you don't want to spend this time upset & worried about this.
2007-03-23 04:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well how can u blame urself for a havin a kid!!! it's certainly not ur fault and a kid outta love is never a mistake...it might be that ex is insecure for the love that ur hubby devoted on her kids will be shared with urs now....she must be insecure for the money ur hubby is providing to the kids..... u dont need to ruin urself for the insecurities of other.....shez just being nasty outta jealousy!!
2007-03-23 04:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by mona s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband should go to court and demand rights to see his other children....kids are smarter then we know and i'm sure the kids don't believe everything their mom tells them...go to court and best wishes!!! oh and congratulations on your new baby she's adorable!
2007-03-23 07:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋