my brother in law (husbands younger brother) has become one hell of a weird human. he igets funny one day and then he is rude and mean . We all live under one house and it gets irritating . he is married since last 5 months .
i must share that in the past both of us have had great friendship ... sadly some chemistry and feelings .
i have left him alone/sil but bil will scr*w my peace every now and then ... staying together makes it worse .
What to do ?
2007-03-22 17:55:15 · 3 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Finding my own place is impossible. ...
2007-03-22 18:03:05 · update #1
behaviours are driven by thoughts & assumptions. Try getting the help of a trusted family member to sound out why that person is behaving that way. Maybe there was a misunderstanding and he's trying to get back at you. If so, try a heart to heart talk and make peace. If that person is a regular jerk, and you can't move out, then try find ways to minimize contact. Even in a same room, you can avoid contact by doing something only a person can do... like read a book/magazine, or put on a head phone. Otherwise, retreat to the sanity of your room. If things gets worst, then take him to task. Chances are, you're not the only one being annoyed and you can leverage on collective power. Good luck
2007-03-22 18:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Unassuming J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out u have your own family to think about.
2007-03-23 07:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you a place of your own
2007-03-23 01:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by nicolejane68 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋