I married my wife about 5 years ago, before which time she was always supportive. Our son is almost 4, and was diagnosed with cancer about a year ago, for which we have spent the last year largely at the hospital, staying in 12 hour shifts. I wasnt working when she met me, I have worked several months since we've been together.
I have issues with ppl (anxiety/social anxiety/depression) and a really bad work history but I work hard, and I dedicate almost every waking minute to my family, but it seems its never enough.. My wife blames me for the messes in our home, simultaneously claiming A)it was cleaner before I moved in, B)I am responsible for all the mess, C) she doesnt need a housekeeper. My wife has injuries and chronic back pain. While the fact is, I do more cleaning at home than any member of our family.
I do everything she asks me, not always exactly in a timely fashion, but I do it. It never seems to be good enough. Nothing I do satisfies her. What can I do?
2007-03-23
01:04:45
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Caine
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