If you don't feel comfortable being around your family you just moved in with and there is tention between everybody and you feel like they are talking behind your back. And you want to leave but have no where else to go. And your only 17 with no money.
2007-03-23 01:59:06 · 5 answers · asked by lilkat205 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tread softly and quietly, stay out of sight and mind as much as humanly possible. Find at least a part time job to help contribute....give it a little time ..... most of all be very respectful, their house , their rules, appreciate them for taking you in.
2007-03-23 02:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by EGOman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I would get out of the house everyday. You said no money if you don't have a job I'd start door knock in or going to an employment agency or filling in applications at the local supermarket etc. Then start saving and saving. Dont worry everybody talks behind each others backs and it is hard even if you do get along with relatives. If you have to go back to school to get a better education do it your only seventeen.
Spend more time out walking with friends etc . Obviously you cant leave with no money so concentrate on what you have to do to make that money
2007-03-23 09:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by addy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which family members are you living with? You just moved in with some new family..maybe it is because they don't know you and vice versa..the only suggestion I can think of is to make yourself a part of this family..pitch in and help out with things..and offer your help to others. Allow yourself to be a a part of this family..Not APART from this family..and if it gets that bad, remember you will be a legal adult in another year...good luck
2007-03-23 09:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, in this age u still have to learn to focus on ur study and live. get a great grade and after that u can focus on ur career and move out from ur family. dont worry about others, ok. i wish u the best and take care.
2007-03-23 11:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the very fact that they have taken you in should say to you that they care. Any living/working arrangement takes time to get to a certain level of comfortness.Stay in school, get a little job, SAVE your moola and if you feel like they are talking smack about you...prove them wrong by being awesome!!!!God bless.
2007-03-23 09:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by little lu-lu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋