my mom and dad say that we have to get married to our own culture.
uhh....so not fair.
cuz, there may be a chance where i like nobody in my culture.
so....i don't know what to do
like....not right now, but when i grow up
i'm only 14 right now.
lol
too young
but, i have to think about it
2007-03-22 16:18:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Some cultures make it tough on their own to date outside. And you're right, it's unfair.
For right now, don't worry about it. You're only 14 and probably aren't doing anything besides group dating. When the time comes (and it might be after you move out), you can date who you please. However, there may be familial repurcussions.
2007-03-22 16:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person you marry is your decision. Your parents should love you no matter what and trust you to make the right decision whenever that happens. Right now they can say that cause your young and at home but when you get older you can marry whomever it is that you love. whether he's part of your culture or not they'll have to accept it.
2007-03-22 16:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love has no color, youre right you are to young to be worried about this but just know that the heart sees nothing but what it desires! I am bi racial and I would never change it, I have the best of many different cultures and i love it!
2007-03-22 16:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by sexycat_1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant control who u fall in love with. Love is blind to culture. Neither u nor ur parents can predict or dictate who u will fall in love with.
2007-03-22 16:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by S A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me, thats not fair. you cant help who you fall in love with. you honestly cant! Plus, when i got engaged to someone my parents didnt like, i told them "youre not marring him, i am! why does it matter? i'm madly inlove and i'm gonna marry him no matter what." So, my point is, when you get older, you cant help who you fall in love with and neither can your parents.
2007-03-22 16:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your parents on that because who you love is who you love!
2007-03-22 16:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by hotstuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poke your parents eyes out, they will then be blind and will not know any the wiser whether your fiance be white or black.
2007-03-22 16:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by cutie pie (2) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋