Family - March 2007

what do I do. I dont want to wear a tampone (idk how to speel it) so what do I do. are there in pills I can take.

2007-03-22 09:53:52 · 16 answers · asked by <3Iluvuanderous<3 3

My mother and I don't get along at all. She's very physically/mentally abusive of me and an alcoholic. I moved out of her house when I was 17, and have been living by myself for years. I don't know my father.
I have a 8 year old half brother who is my whole life who I see once a week. She does not abuse him. Only me for some reason.
But every time I go to my mother's house to see him (which is once a week) she starts something with me.
I would take my little brother to live with me but I'm not in the right financial situation for that.
I try asking her to drop him off at my apartment on Sunday's but then I have to worry about her picking him up when she's drunk (I don't have a car).
At this point it would be best for me to completely cut her out of my life but how can I do that without losing touch with my little brother?
Any suggestions?

2007-03-22 09:52:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who I knew for years. We used to be close, but she started flirting. I started to like her and confessed I did. She led me on but claims she did not mean to. Once I liked her a lot, she let me down. I was not angry about this - merely confused, but then, she blamed me for misinterpreting her actions which were clearly flirty to everyone around. I have started to keep our conversations short, and she called to ask if I am mad at her. How can I seamlessly eliminate her from my group of friends?

2007-03-22 09:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2

My neice is 8 years old. She is having a horrible time at school. She says that she has no friends and every day is so bad for her. She doesnt even want to go to school anymore. She will come home crying. I dont know what to do. I have spoken to the girls mother that mainly picks on my neice and let me tell you..i know where her daughter gets it from. My niece doesnt want to tell on this girl anymore because she gets teased for being a tattel tail. My neice wants to be popular so bad! I have told her to stand up to the kids and not to let anyone put her down. She said that they have even called her a b*tch. I am totally lost i just want to run away with her. And of course she has freckles and everyone makes fun of her for that as well. My neice also hates her dad. He hasnt been around very much. But i have her on the weekends that he is suppose to have her because she hates going over there because all he does is ignore her and spend time with her brother.
Any Suggestions????

2007-03-22 09:44:35 · 11 answers · asked by j 4

Okay, well my boyfriends dad had a birthday today, we are going to his house today and I have no idea what should we get for him? Please some advice...

2007-03-22 09:38:39 · 6 answers · asked by my angel is 2 1/2 now:) 1

we always go to our Dads at least every other weekend and Dad always picks us up on Fridays, then brigs us home Sunday evenings, but mums said coz dad cant get you back early I've told him not to pick you up. thats not fair is it ? mum wont let us ring dad and i think she being very silly as Dad will be very sad and we still want to go to his.

What can we do ? What can dad do ? shall we go live with Dad but I dont know if we can ? I think our mums being tight dont you. What should we do, weve being going to dads for ages and its fun. thankyou.

2007-03-22 09:38:23 · 23 answers · asked by dudeanddudetta 1

2007-03-22 09:27:35 · 9 answers · asked by qbsneek2004 1

mine tries to run my life.any answers?

2007-03-22 09:13:44 · 11 answers · asked by RENA 2

he said that I spoke badly about his great grandma on his dads side and that is totally off the wall.I think the world of her and I dont know why he said this because it caused a big big fight with my daughter and soninlaw.my soninalw told my daughter he was going to take full custody and my grandson is hearing all this and so he starts freaking out.he has morte money and if he trys to do this he could win because we all know that this is how the system works.I seem to get caught up in so much bullshit in this marriage .Im feed up with it.My grandson is 11 and I dont know what he has against me.I played football with him yesterday after school,went to the store for a candy bar,walked him down to his friends house and made him his favorite meal.what gives? I cant go to his dad because he will only be having a one way conversation.he hates me because i am her mother

2007-03-22 09:11:09 · 1 answers · asked by dlbonhomme 1

My family is telling me what to do instead me doing something that I love.

2007-03-22 09:04:23 · 36 answers · asked by Ashanti W 2

Well Im 6 months pregnanat and due in June. My husband just got a huge career oppertunity. We are both in the military. He got offered a chance to be a Generals personal security detachment (body guard). He really wants to do it. The thing is he has to have an answer in a few days. Then he would go to Iraq for a year in June, when im due. I have a few options. I can either let him go and stay in, let him go and get out, get out and stay w his parents, get out and live by myself or I could just tell him i dont want him to go and he would stay. I have no idea what to do. What would you do? We could use the money for the baby and a down payment on a house. He will likely make over $60,000 over there. I have went through one deployment with him and dont know if I can do another one. Help?!?!?!?

2007-03-22 08:59:51 · 8 answers · asked by Worried wife 3

2007-03-22 08:58:22 · 3 answers · asked by Syed's boy here 1

it's mom in our house?

2007-03-22 08:58:12 · 5 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3

Do they talk enough with you, about serious themes,teenage problems?

2007-03-22 08:57:01 · 4 answers · asked by Grom 3

i have great talent of dance and i am a movie actress now she is all behind me she has a talent of art & craft but she does not uses it all now what can i do......... i am afraid that she will cross my lvl and be better than me!

2007-03-22 08:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother in law recently visited us , she stayed for about 2 months........both of us took care of her in every way........
Today my husband recd. a mail from my father in law , which had all the words of appreciation for my husband (appreciating him for the way he took care of my mom in law & so on .................) , no where was my name mentioned in the whole mail............
becoz of that i'm feeling terribly sad & depressed , am i exaggerating ?

2007-03-22 08:43:21 · 23 answers · asked by anshwika 1

that her brother &father are not good. she trie to makeus fight. till night 2 o'clock she&he send sms.,do misscall,and call each other . health wise my huby is not good,she is taking miadvantage of that. she stay in office till 12o'clock &he goes & drop her by auto.which cost 100RS. sghe sends sms like she feels insecure after making me insecure 'hu tamne khup khup pyar karu chhu ,I+++... if she wants to come by auto she sends sms early morning 4o'clock .she came in my office before 2 yrs. before that my husband was good. now he is mentally tourchering me. that girll do not leave my office boys also. even if Idonot like she comes home .she comes out with us.till now she was only person eaarning in her family now her bro is in edu.institute &sister is working. her sis is supporting her. she knows beacause of her my hubby beats me,but she is not ready to go.evry night she sennnnnnnnnds lots of sms as above ,Iam with u forever. what should i do.ihave one 10year old daughter.

2007-03-22 08:42:56 · 7 answers · asked by shren 1

be honest

2007-03-22 08:40:31 · 31 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3

my sister just moved back in the house 3 weeks ago and my mom only made her clean the kitchen twice and her boyfriend and her eat more than me, my step dad, and my mom...... i am realy sick of cleaning up after the four of them..... i brought it up to my moms attention that angela hasnt been cleaning the kitchen and she told me to shut up and just clean the kitchen and im getting realy tired of cleaning up after all of them...... what do i do....

2007-03-22 08:38:26 · 10 answers · asked by sexy 2

Ok, My mom and dad have been divorced for a few years and I live with my mom, but she keeps lying to me and my dad takes care of me for the most part. But My mom was for me when my dad would do some bad things. Now my dad has filed for custody of me, so who should I live with?

2007-03-22 08:25:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-22 08:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by chica 2

2007-03-22 08:19:11 · 2 answers · asked by LOLA 1

how can i change my sister? she's 19 and I'm 15. she wears her feelings on her shoulder. everytime she says something and i say "that's not true". she cries and goes on and on about how i never listen and how she hates that i call her a liar. all that i said was that's not true. and for every little thing she calls our parents. if she's in the living room and i'm in the dining room and she asks me to get up and get her something, if i don't do it, she calls mom starts crying and tells her that i'm not listening to her. every littl ething gets her upset. i hate this. what can i do to stop it!!!!!!

2007-03-22 08:13:31 · 6 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3

Right now if it werent for the fact that sixteen years of not ever crying my tear ducts are dry i would probly be balling right now. Holy ****. I cant think strait. I failed my math test, have a science test in three minutes and i just.. AHHH. The girl i have liked a lot for a lot of time turned me down. We are working 250 calves tomarrow i know since i am now sixteen i get to push the three hundred lbs. calvs through the ally way. I have a game tonite and wont get home untill 9:00 i have homework up the A and i am in a mental break down. What do I do HELP ME PLEASE!! Trying not to complain but i have to. NONE of that "get over" it crap and "others lives are worse than yours". I know that. But for the love of all that is decent help me!!!!!!!Please. Heck even a joke may help me out alot Please send some if you think it will help.

2007-03-22 08:01:45 · 4 answers · asked by LJD4 2

i'm 17 and my sis is 15. she's adopted and growing up she was sexually abused by her father and mom's many boyfriends (all of which are now in jail). i say she's still a virgin, and she says she's not. Your virginity is something you give away, not something that's taken from you. how can i get her to understand this. and don't say she needs counseling, because she's already in couseling.

2007-03-22 07:44:11 · 14 answers · asked by Big Sis 1

I see a lot of people who are more concern about gaining adn collecting points then the question itself! They just go to all questions leaving, just one single letter, just for the sake of gaining and collecting their points. Do you think tehy are faire to rest of us?

2007-03-22 07:43:51 · 4 answers · asked by D. M. 1

my girlfriend has been under alot of stress lately at home she is 400 miles away with her family they have been so so nasty to her her brother has been hitting her and beating her up and her mum and step dad wont do anything about it they dont care what happens to her at all. she is moving in with me in the summer up to scotland i have offered her now but she wont come because of school she wants to finish her last year until june. i want to help her desperatly i know going down there wont solve anything they hate me i wan to help how can i help?????

2007-03-22 07:35:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am about to the end of the rope with my mother. For 26 years she has always been in my business and all it does is causes fights between her and me. I know on one hand she is concerned all she wants to do is give advice, and thats ok, but just because I don't take it doesn't mean that I am rebelling. Enough is enough. The boiling point of it all is that she wants to bring my two children into the mix. She says stuff like I must not have them in my mind by some of the stuff I do, I admit I have made some mistakes in the past, but haven't we all? She has no right to bring them into it, those boys mean the world to me and always will. Lastly, she threatens me that if I don't do this or I do that, that she is going to take them away from me. First of all, you have to have alot of evidence for a judge to prove a mother unfit. Our lives are simple, through the weekday we come home, do homeowork, eat dinner, chill out, take baths and go to bed----what more can she want?

2007-03-22 07:24:05 · 10 answers · asked by Tx Shorty 1

My husband and I clash because we have different points of views on how to raise children. He says we need to talk about these things, but when we do, he gets mad at me because I don't agree on some of the things that he suggests but he never agrees on what I suggest. I'm sure most women can relate, how can we work on this without clashing? I've tried talking to him, but it doesn't work.

2007-03-22 07:18:03 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer S 2

why do we worry about retirement so much
when most of us wont live to see it.
most people that do make it to retirement
arent in good health to enjoy it so why all the fuss

2007-03-22 07:10:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous