Family - March 2007

i hate how my step dad controlls me when my siblings can do whatever they want and yet they think i havent been exposed to the world and they try to keep me from it but i have already been there. i need a good thing to say to my parents so they will listen and understand how i feel(trapped)

2007-03-23 19:16:59 · 16 answers · asked by tomi 2

My mom has manic depression, my dad has parkinsons, and I think I am going insane, what should I do

2007-03-23 19:15:15 · 3 answers · asked by lovechem! 3

I had my oldest daughter when I was, bascially, too young to know how to be a parent. I was 19, barely. She was an only child for 13 years. And, wanted to keep it that way. She got extremly angry when I became pregnant with her sister. Apparently, her Dad and I spoiled her rotten.

Later, when her Dad and I divorced....her anger only grew. By the time she was 19, we were seriously at odds. And, I had developed lupus and was really sick.

Everything that happened in my home resulted in a struggle or a fight with her. She simply refused to have any respect for me. I finally couldn't take it anymore, so I told her that she could respect me and go by the rules or move out. She moved out.

Now, when she comes home she tells my 7 yr. old that I ran her off....and that if it weren't for me, she would still be living with us, etc. The little one cries all the time because she misses her sister....and, now...I'm getting the "anger attitude" from her, too! What to do?

2007-03-23 19:06:20 · 12 answers · asked by treefrog 4

im wit my aunte and everything is as perfect as it could get for me. i live with my dad, don't have no mom. i hate him and living with him. we had uncountable fist fights, police drama just everything. he got full custody of me and will not let me live with anyone else. i want to live with my aunte. im 17 on feb.28,2008 ill be 18 but thats so far away. i can't deal with living their i am unhappy. i don't wanna go back to stay with my dad i truley truley hate him, despite what people may say. they wernt their when i was in to deep * [sad,afaid,scard,sucidal ,etc]



i don't wanna go back my dad thinks it's somthings wrong with me, it's so depressing i don't wanna go back 18 is too far away,







my question is what can i do to get away from my father ?

i am a florida resident

2007-03-23 19:01:13 · 2 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

My son married recently to a girl who's mom don't like him.In fact she yelled at her. The girl wants her mom to like her but her mom refuses t speak to her. Should she stay away from her mom ? She is really hurt.

2007-03-23 18:41:28 · 9 answers · asked by diana s229mineerst.@yahoo.com 1

My sister in law is sooo rude. She constantly puts me down and puts my family down. I dont get it. I have always been nice to her. I dont deserve this treatment no one does. And of all things I would think my brother would have told her to stop with all the talk and to stop talking about his family. Does he not love us! Geeze it's getting sooo old and I just cant handle her any more! She talks about me and my mom at her work, how do I know my friend works with her. She constantly is trying to compete with me and my family. And she uses my mom for everything. She leaves my neice at my moms for 2 or 3 days when she tells my mom to watch her for the day, my mom as a loving grandmother feels bad to say no. I'm tried of her walking alll over us and I just feel I need to tell her, but the one thing that's stopping me is my brother. I respect him and his relationship I wouldnt want to cause drama between the family. What do I do?

2007-03-23 18:39:38 · 7 answers · asked by Lina Q 1

my mom favors my lil sis over me & ive felt this for years now how can i tell her how i feel? she doesnt understand how her favortism hurts me! im adopted and the oldest and what made things much worse tonight was that she is taking my little sister to paris this summer without me! she didnt even ask me if i wanted to go and doesnt want me to go! my sister is 11 and im 19 i dont know how or what to do to make her see how she makes me feel i feel i tried tonight and my mom just wouldnt listen i just dont know what to do anymore...

2007-03-23 18:21:30 · 7 answers · asked by Lilly 1

My daughter in law said she was sick. I took her to the hospital and when we came hoke she said she wanted to go see friends. I can't afford to take her where she wants to go all the time. What can I tell her? She wants to run. She just married my son. I haven't got that kind of money to run her every where.

2007-03-23 18:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by diana s229mineerst.@yahoo.com 1

i have always been the rebel child in my family. I was the only child and allowed to do whatevr i wanted for almost 13 years, then my dad remarried and now i have two step sisters. i have done many things in the past but resently its been bad!

Christmas i got arrested for an underage - bad
then got put into drug court- where i have court twice a week to take care of my weed smoking habits.
a week ago i got caught with cocain in my system.

i'm ashamed my father that i was so close with at one point in time is so upset what should i do?

2007-03-23 18:08:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm only 21 but I've been asked to make that descision. How do I know?

2007-03-23 17:54:33 · 19 answers · asked by Katie 2

okay so around july of last year my husband decided to go to school to be a minister so we had to get a loan out to cover the first semester and then his GI Bill was going to pay us back in october. Well I got the loan I just needed a co-signer and i asked my step mom to do it. She said yes since it was going to be paid off in Oct. Well Oct came around and the GI bill didnt give it to us all at once like we thought and he needed some of the money for books. Well, my parents got mad that I lied to them when i didnt. Now they are soo pissed and wont talk to me because i went and got a dog and put it on my credit card and they thought i paid cash for her and they couldnt understand why I didnt put it towards this loan. They havent talked to me since January and I tried calling and apologising two nights ago and they wont return my call. What should i do. I want to be close to them again.. Please help.

2007-03-23 17:31:37 · 2 answers · asked by Lexi's mommy had twins! 6

2007-03-23 17:23:52 · 7 answers · asked by giselle g 1

Iam naveen iam writing my family problem so that i could get a help and suggestions from all the friends. We were a joint family there are four brothers including my father he worked hard for the family he looked after every one in the family with very carefully and did marraiges of all his brothers.Now the problem is they became very strong and now going against my father by listening their wifes. Their word is my father did nothing to the family whatever the property is their that is theirs they are using abused and vulgorus words and coming to quarrel, they have large support of politicians. Now my sister has to get married.We have nobody for the support how we should take the next step and who will help us to get the property equally shared. please suggest

2007-03-23 17:20:21 · 2 answers · asked by naveen k 1

i deliver papers for my local paper. There are lots of different races that live through out the city, i am not racial at all. But i came across something that bothered me, and still is. I was delivering papers in a highly populated african american community, as i approached the door of my customers i saw a little african american girl around 6 starting to cry and scream when she saw me. She was playing in the yard. This was the house that i was delivering the paper too. I am a white women in her late twentys that has never hurt no one, i have never seen this child. Her dad came out appolgized, telling me that his little girls friend told her that if she got close to a white person, she would be shocked to death when the white person got close. I am assuming like being electricuted or something. He called her out and told her that nothing happened to her. Her dad said she was over reacting. Why would her friend tell her something like that, and why would she so scared?

2007-03-23 17:06:24 · 12 answers · asked by mr_and_mrs.x 2

My mom and dad have always had problems, they have stayed married, but have fought a lot. Recently I heard my mom talking to my Dad telling him that she had nothing left to contribute and that she was a loser who everyone never wanted to spend time with. My dad a little later responded with "Killing yourself is the most selfish thing you could do because it would leave you with only 1 parent for your kid's when they could of had 2. My mom has always been a little moody. What can I do? Please respond!!!

2007-03-23 16:55:27 · 25 answers · asked by Guy 1

My mothers b-day is coming up and , she feels really old.

2007-03-23 16:55:27 · 19 answers · asked by cherrygirl101 2

im hella hungry where is best place to go? i also want somethin somewhat healthy I dont wanna get fat

2007-03-23 16:45:32 · 3 answers · asked by Stud_Itallian Stallion 1

my husband and i were granted soul custody of his daughter and the natural mother was ordered no visitation..the mother keeps calling wanting to talk to the daughter but she upsets her all the time..do i have to let her talk to her? is there guide lines for this? i cant find them on the internet..and i thought there might be somthing saying if the natural mother has any rights what so ever? please help me if you can...

2007-03-23 16:37:09 · 6 answers · asked by LORI R 1

my new neibors are anoying me soo much!!! its this girl whos my age and her mom whos friends with my mom. her mom always shows off her body in front of all the neibors, and its kindev freaky cuz shes a mom hello. and her daughter is so conceeded, and thinks shes so perfect and shows off her body too many times, in short these people have a weird family and its anoying me so much, what should i do?

2007-03-23 16:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by sandyleesand 1

ok its not like they are super strict but the only thing that im not allowed to stay out that late. when hanging out in town i have to be home by 10;30 and at parties i can stay till 11;30. but come on im 15 years old...i think i deserve to be allowed to stay out till later. and my mom wont let me get in the car with any of my older friends or call a cab. she demands to pick me from everywhere herself. i cant even walk home cuz everything is far away. what do i do to get more independence?

2007-03-23 16:15:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live with a relative and I feel that I moved here for the wrong reason and I take care of her kids and I can't tell her I want to leave , thats absolutly not an option. So what do I do? I have people willing to take me in for a little while and I am highly considering it, but I wouldn't be able to tell my relative. So what do I do?

2007-03-23 16:13:01 · 3 answers · asked by Bina 3

my brother just moved back home and i feel all my energy has gone into figthing him. i am a female he is a male. at frist we was best friends now we can't stand each other. every time i come home from school i get a headach. sometimes i have fun but most its just a big figth. i am also stressed out by school all the school work and everything is so stressful i am now passing most of my class but then i wanted a break for a day but my mom said no what do I DO

2007-03-23 16:06:58 · 13 answers · asked by tammy_20041 1

WHAT DO I DO?! I REALLY THINK IT'S GROSS TO SHOP AT SECOND HAND STORES ESPECIALLY NAST GROSS FLEA MARKETS OUTSIDE!! SHOULD I GO AND SUCK IT UP OR TELL MY AUNT I DON'T WANT TO GO?

2007-03-23 15:54:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister came home just now and asked if I wanted to go to her school? I asked how many hours. She's like what do you plan on doing tomorrow anyway? I said that I was going to do my vietnamese homework. There's only an hour before I have to go to school. She asked me what I was doing right now and said that I lost my chance and I was being selfish. She also said that it was my first and last chance to go to her school.

Do you guys thing I'm being selfish? Please be honest.

2007-03-23 15:45:51 · 4 answers · asked by marshimaro1993 4

im 17 and im trying to take my daughter to see her father who is in orange county jail.the jail says that i am to young that i would have to bring my mother,but outside of the jail im considered an adult because i have a child.so am i able to go and visite with out my mother

2007-03-23 15:44:16 · 5 answers · asked by cant say 1

I am a 15 yr old female.
MY problem is that I lost something earlier.I knew clearly when I had lost it.And I didnot have the courage to tell my mother that I had lost it.Though I regretted the act.
Now yesterday she found out that I had lost it and she asked me how I had lost it.Yesterday I was due to write a main examination and I knew that I would not write the examination well if my mother scolded me before I went to the exam.So stalling for time I pretended that I didnot know how I had lost it.Yesterday evening again my mother asked me.I dont know if this is right or wrong but whenever my parents scold me my mouth shuts itself and I do nothing but stare at the ground.Yesterday also this was the thing and she scolded me saying that the reason I was doing the shut up thing was because I was arrogant or I feared my parent.She ruled out the other option saying that I didnot fear my parents since I joked with them. And she said that she would not talk to me.Now the thing is I am

2007-03-23 15:39:36 · 2 answers · asked by !!!!! 2

What is there left to do when you don't have a worthy GPA, your mother can't keep things stable at her job so she quits it and you have the burden of keeping her happy all the time. Also, not to mention your father lays around the house all day, and you have to clean up after him 24/7.

How is a kid like me suppose to get a college education when my parents are bankrupt, what options do I have please help me!

2007-03-23 15:38:27 · 6 answers · asked by composure 1

My father died not too long ago, and im 15. Before you know it my mom has a bf and I am moving from Austin 8 hours away to west Texas. Going from a fabulous place to the middle of nowhere (literally). I hate him too, he dosn't know me yet he says he loves me, and tells me what to do! And all I have to say "f" u, your not my dad! And yet through all of this my mom is still a fuc*ing bitc*. I am at a healthy weight yet, im fat and i need to work out. really, im 5' 8" and i weigh 145 is that bad? am i obese? no! and i know that!
Worst of all i moved from all my friends and my sisters, they stayed in Austin with their dad, now im here alone.
Today I left my bedroom light on, and she called me while i was in the middle of a movie demanding me to come home i was so mad! and so was my ride. Not to mention my mother used to be so modern, pretty, wore make up, had a really good job and now she is a hippe just like the guy im living w/ now.

Cant i have a normal free mom just like my friend

2007-03-23 15:32:50 · 30 answers · asked by Emily 2

My son got his 360 as a gift from his mother when he graduated the 8th grade. ever since then i have wanted it for myself. Usually i would play during the day when my wife is out working and the kid's are at school. But i realized that as a omniscient being I could just take it. So i took it with the excuse of because he forgot to bring his homework to school since then i have been playing it every night in my bedroom while my wife works her night job and everyone is asleep. I dont want to ever give it back what is a good lie that i can use so i can keep it? i could just say i lost it and get away with it but i dont want my underlings to start to question me

2007-03-23 15:30:38 · 35 answers · asked by Italian Stallion 2

my mom and i were so close. we went shopping together, ate out together, and now ever since me and my sister practically hate each other, every conversation me and my mom have turns into an argument which ends up with me crying.. i really need advice on how to get my life back on track. and now i cant stand shoping with my mom or going out somewhere wither her. and now i have a feeling thst she doesnt love me anymore.
please dont tell me to get along with my sister. what she did is unforgiveable.

2007-03-23 15:24:53 · 10 answers · asked by RIP Peter. i miss you. wait 4 me 3