my mom and i were so close. we went shopping together, ate out together, and now ever since me and my sister practically hate each other, every conversation me and my mom have turns into an argument which ends up with me crying.. i really need advice on how to get my life back on track. and now i cant stand shoping with my mom or going out somewhere wither her. and now i have a feeling thst she doesnt love me anymore.
please dont tell me to get along with my sister. what she did is unforgiveable.
2007-03-23 15:24:53 · 10 answers · asked by RIP Peter. i miss you. wait 4 me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's hard to answer this question without some info like what did your sis do and does your mother think she's right and you're wrong. Is that why you guys fight? I'm sure your mom still loves you. As a parent, I can honestly say that even if my children made some horribly wrong decisions I would still love them. Perhaps lay low for a while. Don't go shopping with her and let the both of you cool down. Then calmly rationally sit down with her and have a heart to heart. Explain how you feel and ask her why she thinks the two of you are always fighting.
2007-03-23 15:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well let me start by saying that I dont know ur mom but I know she still loves u. Every mother has agape love for their child no matter what. Believe dat. If u r a religious person all I can say is pray about it. Trust me on dis u dont have 2 get along wit ur sister u dont even have 2 talk 2 her but at least speak 2 her & things will go back to the way they were at first. Another tip I can give u is 2 attend a group therapy. This allows people with the same problem as urs 2 express their feelings & not be ashamed to let out pain & anger. I really hope u will get ur life back on track & when u do 4get bout wat happened. I know u will!!!!
<~GOD BLESS~>
2007-03-23 22:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother loves both you and your sister and it is probably tearing her up that the two of you are fighting. When it comes down to it all you will have is one another when your parents are gone...
No matter what your sister did there has to be a way that the two of you can find a way to forgiveness....maybe if you address that problem you will be able to work things out with your mom. Believe me when I say that there is very little in the world worth loosing your sister over. Good luck & best wishes.
2007-03-23 23:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry I'm sure your mom still loves you.
Try talking to your mom about how you feel. She may be upset about the problems between you and your sister and wants to see you close again.
Just be honest and sincere when you talk with your mom. Things will work out and be back to normal before you know it.
2007-03-23 22:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am mom and it is absolutely impossible to stop loving your children.
Nothing is unforgivable. you need to make the choice to let whatever she did go and move on. it's your refusal to make the choice to forgive that is tearing you family apart.
I don't know what she did but I do know that she will be all you have left when you're old and grey and your parents are gone. life will be better in the long run if you choose to forgive and start rebuilding your relationship with her.
2007-03-23 22:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy43110 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to do things tthat will make your mom happy like clean the house or something or cook breakfast for her. fighting eith your mom is usual but try talking to her whenever you see her dont say anything- the firsddt thing you do is give her a hug and kiss start out with positve things and keep the conversation happy. and if she starts to mention your sister then just say " mom wait please stop i dont want to get into this right now" or simply just sit down and tell her that you dont want to talk about your sister anymore because it is only leading to fights...
good luck!
2007-03-23 22:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by Savannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY!! you may think Im crazy and that yes praying does help but its sorta not..well IT IS!! pray and tell god how you feel and ask him questions(you will get the answer) and Just try to ignore what brings you down, sometimes when she yells at you just try to say sorry for saying that..or just say sorry so it can be over and done with and walk away:)...Im only a kid but I think i know. Pray and trust!
2007-03-23 22:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kaybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some hormones will help your mother since she is probably going thru her change.
I wouldnt worry, mom still loves you, maybe things are stressing her out right now.
2007-03-23 22:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by bigern1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guarantee that your mom still loves you.
2007-03-23 22:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by Miro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did your sister do if you don't mind me asking
2007-03-23 22:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by sngozig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋