i have always been the rebel child in my family. I was the only child and allowed to do whatevr i wanted for almost 13 years, then my dad remarried and now i have two step sisters. i have done many things in the past but resently its been bad!
Christmas i got arrested for an underage - bad
then got put into drug court- where i have court twice a week to take care of my weed smoking habits.
a week ago i got caught with cocain in my system.
i'm ashamed my father that i was so close with at one point in time is so upset what should i do?
2007-03-23 18:08:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
clean your act up girl.
you should not be doing freaking cocaine.
weed and liquor are problems for someone your age.
you need to stop that crap and treat yourself right.
your dad loves you and should be upset! start now - make smart choices - and things will be so much better.
you are lucky to have people who love you enough to be disappointed in you. love yourself as much as they do.
2007-03-23 18:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a real problem that you need help with. Go to any and all drug or addiction programs you can get.
Being honest with yourself and with those that love you is really essential here.
You need help from outside your family, no matter how supportive your family is. And even if they are not always supportive, you can make your own life better.
There are free support groups like Narcotics Anonymous and maybe you could even fit into an Alcoholics Anonymous group; a lot of people have problems with more than one substance.
If you can't get under control while living at home, you might need to go to a live-in rehab program for a while.
Do whatever it takes. And if you relapse, it's not the end of the world, just quit again.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 01:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late! When I was young I went through the same thing. I upset my father so many times but now we have a great relationship. Things like this really make a family stronger( not saying it's ok) but you really have to make an effort in changing. Go to all your meetings, stop using and make him proud!!! If your step sisters are younger remember they are looking up to you.
2007-03-24 01:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by saiahg22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess the whole divorce issue really affected you, and you might feel that Ur step sister are taking Ur fathers love. I have a Step sister and am sorry but that is one of the reasons i moved out of my house at in early age. Am not saying you should do it, b.c it hard and at moments i wanted to go back, well Like they said, start from were Ur at get ur act straight, and tell ur dad OK lets hang out me and u, not a, b, c, d,e and F only me and you me +you = us only and think about who u are hurting ur hurting him but most important yourself
2007-03-24 01:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your dad is not the only one who's an asshole - my dad is the same. He's beaten me up alot and I had to call the social workers.
But you're still just a KID!! Everyone makes mistakes and your dad should get over it once you're grown up. Your parents get very upset with their own kids because they want you to actually grow up good - with a great life ahead. That's why my parents always beat me up - but NOW they beat me up for no good reason. So I very much hate them.
Hope you do alright.
2007-03-24 01:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by gogogo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
human system is amazing! do yu know that?????
whereever yu channel ur mind body and energy yu will be successful!!
seems like for past years yu have invested ur life on drugs etc...
so yu have been successful is that...
now get over it and find something else...positive! to channel your energy upon...something that worth doing! aomething that yu will be proud of when yu r 50-60 yr old someday!!
something which ur dad feels proud of!!
pick up a hobby or a job that yu feel happy about and i m sure yu wud b a ble to give ur 100% to it
2007-03-24 01:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the time when you need support of your family, your dad loves you sit with him and ask him to help you to come out of drugs,and try making gud friend.I can understand that u want to come out of the situation u r in with u r dads help u can come out of it
I wish u good luck
2007-03-24 01:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by nakshitra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start afresh... Don't let others affect you. Don't let the changes affect you. I wish you the best of luck in life. Oh and give your father your most sincere apology. He will forgive you, he is your dad
2007-03-24 01:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by yewny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't go back in time, just start from where you are and try to make the right decisions. And talk to your family about how you feel, they will support you in your road to recovery.
2007-03-24 01:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and take responsibility for your actions.
2007-03-24 01:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋