My son married recently to a girl who's mom don't like him.In fact she yelled at her. The girl wants her mom to like her but her mom refuses t speak to her. Should she stay away from her mom ? She is really hurt.
2007-03-23 18:41:28 · 9 answers · asked by diana s229mineerst.@yahoo.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the comment "we agree to disagree" seems to apply in this case. They can disagree about your son, but they can agree on being mother and daughter, and, remember that blood is thicker than water so any problem she runs into in her marriage she will go crying to her mother and her mother will convince her she's right and there will be a split. The sad situation is that when people marry, they need to consider that they marry the family as well. Maybe you should not be the person trying to solve this dilemma; maybe you should leave it up to someone else to solve. Do you have any idea why the girl's mom doesn't like your son? Was there some misunderstanding?
2007-03-23 18:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should stay away for a while until she thinks things have calmed down. Then after a few weeks she should talk to her mom one on one about why things were so bad.
2007-03-23 18:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to determine if the main argument is regarding your son. There may be other matters involve, History. You have every right to question you son's mother-in-law the reason of her attitude about your son.
Invite her out for dinner and really get to know her. You may find what's really going on. It may be a secret she knows about her daughter. It would be best if you investigate this situation.
God Bless
2007-03-23 19:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough to let go, once they're married, isn't it?? She needs to visit her Mom less often. The whole idea is to let them establish their own home by their rules. She needs to be independent enough to do that, but not shun her mother. She needs to give her Mom time to adjust, and a little space.
2007-03-23 18:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 08:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she should stay away and you should step in and be a great mother in law.
Good luck!
2007-03-23 18:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we have to try to make amends, sometimes we have to allow time for people to warm up to us or even cool off. then there is the times that in order to not to subject ourselves to undesireable and underserved hurts we have to walk away.
2007-03-23 18:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by goodnripe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just stay away from her mom
2007-03-23 18:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by PrincessC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes stay away!
2007-03-23 18:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋