I live with a relative and I feel that I moved here for the wrong reason and I take care of her kids and I can't tell her I want to leave , thats absolutly not an option. So what do I do? I have people willing to take me in for a little while and I am highly considering it, but I wouldn't be able to tell my relative. So what do I do?
2007-03-23 16:13:01 · 3 answers · asked by Bina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have two choices stand up for yourself or allow people like your relative to walk all over you. He/she isn't holding a gun to your head so you CAN do whatever you want to. This person does not control you. Only YOU control yourself.
Good luck!
2007-03-23 16:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Maybe that's why you don't have an option. Try not to move from place to place. People can get tired of that even if they are your relative. What's up with living with your own parents? If you are old enough, have you tried finding a job and looking for your own place?
2007-03-23 16:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Native 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Honey, You are going to have to tell the person whose children you are taking care of. You don't want to just leave her without a word after she took you in at another time. You would remember that later on in your life, that it wasn't right. Please don't cause any hard feelings or do anything that you would regret later in life. God bless you sweetheart~~~~Jill
2007-03-23 16:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋