Family - March 2007

ok i think its stupid and i always fight with my dad cuz of this.... all of my friends have cell phones as u know. Actually everyone at my age have cell phones and maybe younger than me has cellphones too... but the problem is that my dad dont get this point... and i always argue with him about it... well my dad doesnt really care about money... but he just dont want to get me cell phone and its really botherin me cuz all of my friends and people around me has cell phone exccept me!!... so here is my question how can i convince my dad to get me cellphone??and how should i start conversation with him about this problem?? thanx soo much for helping..

2007-03-24 21:40:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandparents did not want my dad for mom.. after getting married my grandfather forcely asked my mom to leave their house.. After few months I was conceived and born.. They ask my mom to live with them again together with us. I grew up experiencing physical abuse from my grandfather. If they both found occasion they will embarrased me infront of my relatives. They dont want me.. I want to leave this place (were living near their house.. My heart is full of grudges..

I excel in my the class without any failing grades but they look at me as if Im bad. They are not proud of me.

I dont know what to do...

2007-03-24 21:14:26 · 8 answers · asked by Ryan 1

We were married for 5 years at the time he was diagnosed with an advanced stage of cancer.It wasn't terminal but we were told the journey to get him better was going to be a very lond one.When I found out I totally lost it and I know it was extremely wrong of me but I left him because I didn't think I could deal with the disease and how it'd affect my life.He didn't have any other family so I did feel very guilty but I didn't feel like I had a choice but to leave him.It's been 2 years and he's in remission.I want a second chance so badly.He treated me like a queen throughout the whole time we've been together and I still love him as much as ever.He won't even look me in the eye let alone consider getting back together.What do I do?

2007-03-24 21:08:20 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

Several years ago I was traveling by bus. While stopped at a depot, a young man that looked to be in his 20's boarded the bus and sat in the back by himself. A young woman on board approached him and struck up a conversation with him. She was laughing and giggling and acting really weird. At the next stop, this young man followed the bus driver into the restroom and told the driver that this woman on board had dope, showed it to him and had offered him some which he declined.
Afterwards the bus continued down a highway and was stopped by the police who secured the bus. The police entered the bus, approached the woman, confiscated the drugs and hauled her off in handcuffs. This young man was visibly shaken and in tears. I asked him if he would like to sit by me and he did. He told me he was on his way to his brother's funeral, his brother had died from a drug overdose. I held his hand as he said he hoped he did the right thing in reporting this woman. I told him he did the right thing

2007-03-24 20:54:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-24 20:38:51 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5

I am the black sheep of the family. I am the second child from four siblings, and I am also the only girl in the family. Although some people thought that I might be the favorite one in the family because I am the only girl, I actually felt left out almost every day. It hurts my feeling a lot, when we are all together, and I am the quiet one, each time I open up a conversation, every member neglected me. This causes me not to hang out with them anymore, it's not that I'm not trying at all to please every member of my family, I already did, but still, I felt like the odd one out. My mom also always praise other girls she met on tv, or when we are out together in the mall, she made me feel that I am not attractive at all. To make matter worse, my parents adopt a little girl, whom is cute, and (sigh...), praised her everyday too. This made me feel that I am not good enough for them, and I started to feel that way too with every other people in my life like friends, and boyfriends.

2007-03-24 20:37:49 · 4 answers · asked by faridah s 1

This is VERY similiar to someones question that was already asked. But..my brother sister in law and three neices just came back from Florida. Now they are thinking of moving there. And It is because of money, because apparently they make better money over there. And I think it is because my sister in laws cousin she is trying to luer them in. Because if they move there it will be right across the street. So they come home and are all like well if my brother gets a job there we will put our hosue up for sale this week, and sell all the stuff. And be out by the time my neice is out of school. Well.. i think she is being very greedy (and maybe i am too..) she is all about money but here now they have everything and live comfortablely. But anyways, the problem is I am EXTREMELY close to my neices (6 3 and almost a year old) especially the 6 year old. And i cant imagine them leaving all their family because of a few extra dollars. How can I deal with this? please help. I am so upset!!!!!!!

2007-03-24 19:56:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is the situation:
My parents dont love each other, so I really dont care, but there is a tug of war created by my greedy brother who has stolen one of the appartment and he was followed by my dull sister.
My older brother and I who had supported during the emotional crisis to our mother, we had only received complains and harsh feelings.
The marriage between my parents was only appearance.
My father is weak and coward, my mother is tyranic and impositive.
She has a bipolar conduct, depresive-aggresive, nothing is perfect, she is the messia but also denies to listen the advice of her sons or any medical atention. She only wants to listen corny programs on the radio.
The house is fallling down due the lack of mantenaince and using the money for funny trips.
Also she devaluates my job and friendships, because both are not according to her vision, It's really annoying.
We wont have any grandsons to approach her due her aggresivity.
We are running away of this war.....

2007-03-24 19:55:21 · 4 answers · asked by Gabrio 7

To the funeral of your mother in law?
MY Mother in law died on friday morning and already my wifes sister and boyfreind are arguing with us.
They are saying that we never looked after her.
it is not true,my wife had to take her to the doctors all the time because her sister was ashamed to walk on the street with her!
ITS WAR
And ive just arrived back from Iraq
and the war there is nothing compared to this!
Should we go?

2007-03-24 19:38:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a set of tapes I think was called no more stinking thinking and the tapes case was orange and a male motivational speaker would talk about no more stinking thinking and encourage young children I want to say his name was bob something, cannot find any info on these I was about 8 so that puts it about 20-25 yrs ago, I am from Southern Oregon and Northern California these tapes could have been purchased for me somewhere around these areas. Ok, Thanks

2007-03-24 19:36:07 · 3 answers · asked by Ty 1

well my dad is always doing stuff with my brother and never with me.

2007-03-24 19:35:39 · 20 answers · asked by ellabella0110 1

my mun drives me crazy! Whenevr I have a assinment she always wants to help and I tell her I want to do it on my own but she keeps going past me and lookng over my sholder to see what I'm doing.

When ever I ask he to CHECH a assinment she always has a red pen in her pocket and starts scribbling away and shouts at me for what I can't do

Help Me How can I make this stop i'm going crazy.

2007-03-24 19:34:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband went back and told his mom about problems we were having in our marriage and she sent me a rude email telling me off and saying that everything was my fault. I am not close to her. She doesn't have my cell number and when we visit we hardly say ten words to each other. I told my husband that I want nothing else to do with her and I don't want her to have anything to do with our daughter (1 year old) because I am afraid she would bad mouth me. This isn't the first time she has bad mouthed me. Am I wrong for not wanting her to be a part of my daughter's life?

2007-03-24 19:31:32 · 17 answers · asked by Mom of Three 5

the other day we went to the doctors - just for a regular check up - and she weighed and measured me and basically told me i'm overweight (using the BMI thingy). since then, my mum has made me join a gym (and i'm forced to go at least 5 times a week) and she has restricted my food. this totally sucks because all the exercise is making me more hungry and i have to scab food off my friends. also, i'm in year 10 this year, and all this going to the gym is really taking away my homework time!! most nights i stay up until 2:00 or 3:00 AM frantically finishing homework and assignments - i'm a straight A student and i really like to put effort into all my work which i can't do currently. it just made me feel so bad cause 3 days before going to the doctors, i had just braved enough courage to finally wear a bikini in public, and then she told me im fat. mums also freakin out i won't fit in the dress we had to buy as i'm bridesmaid for a wedding

i am approx. 165 cm and weigh 70kg what do i do?

2007-03-24 19:27:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked the question titled "My women was beautiful NOW WHAT" I know how it sounded but the point i was trying to make was i was so use to her looking a certain way and now its changed! Come on people everyone who has been in a relationship knows looks matter! and she is a wonderful women and I lover her very much! But i want the woman back I married and looked sexy in anything! She will catch on pretty soon that I'm not attracted I haven't touched her in weeks it's just too wierd!

2007-03-24 18:51:41 · 11 answers · asked by cr24_snowman 1

Ok so here it goes... About 4 years ago was the last time I have talked with my real Father and my Grandparents... (His Parents) And I have not seen them in about 8 years... I have a lot of questions that I want answered from David (my Father). I got a call from my Step-sister a few days ago and she had given me my Grandparents phone number and I am contemplating on weather or not I want to call them... I feel like there number is burning a whole in my pocket... And I dont know what to do... If I do I dont know if I will be able to handel the truth... Of why they dont want to be a part of my life and also with the few other questions I want to ask them... What should I do???

2007-03-24 18:49:16 · 22 answers · asked by princesscrystal2382 1

my family hates me and i hate them too. i have one older sister, 17, and she's probably the cruelest creature alive. she hits me, theatrens to kill me, and when she's mad she gets this CRAZED look on her face and her voice gets deeper and she grabs me.

my mom and my step dad are the worst parents ever. they say things like "i hope you grow up to be miserable" and they've
"kicked me out" for hours at a time (yelling and all, and my mom kicked me) because I've done things like yell at them once or lie about losing my retainer this one time.

also, my mom calls me fat which makes me wanna die. im 5'2 and 99 pounds. IM NOT FAT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES! i eat a lot, but i have a really fast matabilism. my step dad calls me names and jokes, but when i joke back he goes "do you want to get kicked out of this family?"

the true answer is "yes". i cant talk to them. please dont even suggest that. ill get laughed at or yelled at. im not being some dramatic kid...trust me.

any help?

2007-03-24 18:37:44 · 14 answers · asked by Just Ryan! 4

i dont want my mum get hurt ,becuse my husband doesnt want to my brother stay in our house anymore

2007-03-24 18:20:02 · 8 answers · asked by marlene_legaspi 1

it just went out of control he start doing drugs and then she'd hit himand they would fist fight LITERALLY i would have to break it up that was haed on me beacuse i was only 15 trying to make sure i make it to the 10th grade.I was scared for my mothers life cuz im like it to less than 2 sec for you to be dead. it confused me so much why she kept letting him come back im like abuse but she like naw because she hit him 1st. at that point i had to make sure my 2 brothers are mentally stable specially my 3 year old one who has autism and cant talk anyways one day we was like about to run away he knew this so he go a ride from someone else and stoped us at a intersection anwyze end up in krogers trying to call the police we ran in the store he drove the truck into krogers no one was hurt drove away THANK GOD a police was there hes in jail and swear hes changed i dont think jail can change you mind you we had problems with him being a real father being there jus dont count

2007-03-24 18:17:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My inlaws always ask for things, money for example, but never approach me, they always contact my husband directly! He can't say no to them, and they know it! It's driving me crazy, how do I make them stop?

2007-03-24 18:04:19 · 8 answers · asked by Nastedani 3

Ok I'm a man and I've been with the same woman for 5 yrs. She's a great woman and we have a baby together! She stayed with me even after I cheated on her! We've been engaged for a while and we even have a baby girl together. She quit her job and takes care of my 8yr old son from my first marrage and our daughter. I live in the trailer she bought before she met me and drive her car to work because my credit is so bad i can't afford one so she has no way to go anywhere. She's wanting to get married but i'm not ready and I migh lose her! what should I do?

2007-03-24 18:02:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

just curious

2007-03-24 17:57:37 · 23 answers · asked by dee_the_genius 7

Is there a diferance or are they all the same? Is it just a matter of money? personal care?

2007-03-24 17:51:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-24 17:37:12 · 8 answers · asked by Corona 5

2007-03-24 17:29:53 · 8 answers · asked by Pam F 1

a couple of nights ago i had a huge fight with both of my parents and they havnt spoken to me since i feel horrible. what can i do can anybody help me plzplzplz. it feels awful to not have anyone to talk to :(

2007-03-24 17:29:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 52 and he's 58. We're both divorced of extremely long marriages and our kids are all grown and on their own. We've been seeing each other for over 2 years. Love each other dearly and goood sex partners. Do we move in together and share expenses because Marriage by legal document especially after our Divorces cost alot of money kinda scares the crap out of us. Someday we have talked about getting married but not right now.

2007-03-24 17:04:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I could go on and on with this one, but tonight I really just want to scream. I went on my day that I was suppose to have off, to make sure my grandma was alright. I take care of her, and it is hard to have someone come in that doesn't know her quirks. To make matters worse it was my brother who was suppose to be there. I went to make sure she had her blood sugar taken and a shot if needed. He tells me he is going to run to take his girlfriends baby to her dads house and would be right back. I finally got ahold of him at 8p.m after being there for 4 hours waiting for him to come right back. He lets me know he stopped to play some cards and just wasn't sure when he would be back. I don't like to leave her alone, for fear she might fall. I go to school full-time, I have a five year-old girl, that only I take care of, then my grandma. I am just about at my end. I had to get my little one home to get her in the bath so she could be ready for Sunday school. Read more additional details

2007-03-24 16:50:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-24 16:47:42 · 4 answers · asked by confusedguy 1

My fiancee of 5 yrs is pushing to get married now that we have an 8 mnth old daughter. She knows I'm not divorced yet, but she did quit work to take care of my 8yr old son and our daughter! I love her but i cheated on her when we first moved in together and she still doesn't trust me! I don't want to loose her, but at the same time I don't think I'm ready to marry someone who doesn't trust me! Is she right?

2007-03-24 16:47:33 · 24 answers · asked by fastnfurious_male29 1