I asked the question titled "My women was beautiful NOW WHAT" I know how it sounded but the point i was trying to make was i was so use to her looking a certain way and now its changed! Come on people everyone who has been in a relationship knows looks matter! and she is a wonderful women and I lover her very much! But i want the woman back I married and looked sexy in anything! She will catch on pretty soon that I'm not attracted I haven't touched her in weeks it's just too wierd!
2007-03-24 18:51:41 · 11 answers · asked by cr24_snowman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe you didnt mean to sound shallow but you are shallow. Your basing all your attraction to her on how she looks, not what is inside of her.
That is what shallow is.
Someday you will be old and wrinkly and maybe bald...are you going to want your woman treating you like she doesnt want to touch you?
Grow up.
2007-03-24 20:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope dear you havent lost any hair, I hope your teeth are still totally intact, and your abs can be used as practice for a friends backhand in tennis, I hope your butt is high and proud, and most of all I hope your treat your woman like the woman that she is, loving, beautiful inside and out, and that you feel she has enriched your life and you are eternally grateful. Now if you can say yes to each and everything, then this merits, My darling I love you so, you know I do, for your heart my preciousness I believe you can loose alittle, lets do something together so we can BOTH be in better shape. If I were her listening to you, I wouldnt know what to say why I am Not wanting to touch you. I guess I would have to say I dont want to because you are an insensitive egotisical man.
2007-03-24 22:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, the women gains 24 pounds while she's pregnant and she keeps it on for a year. Be happy she didn't gain 100 lbs. You really should be worrying about other things besides how she looks. You still sound shallow no matter what. My husband use to be 180, and he now weighs 210. I don't look at him any different. We still have sex, and I still find him attractive. I'm pregnant right now, but I have gained weight since we started dating 2 years ago, but he still finds me very attractive. Maybe you should look at her other traits besides her weight, and think to yourself. It could be worse, she could be 300 lbs, or only have one leg.
2007-03-24 19:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No woman was born to make a man look good or feel better about himself.
No woman marries to make a man look good and feel better about himself.
Perhaps you may want to revisit the wedding vows and research why you and others decide to become as one. If you don't understand it perhaps your wife has the right to know what you are up to these days. There are those that have affairs with others and those that have affairs with themselves.
2007-03-24 22:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read your other question and first off her bmi is 23.2 and that is perfectly healthy so she isn't in anyway over weight. i understand where you are coming from. you want the beautiful woman that you were first attracted to. well, you need to help her still be that women . you need to in courage her to still she that she is BEAUTIFUL, and that she should take care of herself. but you need to work on yourself too. true love may not be completely blind, but it is tolerant. if you completely love some one you love all of them. she is only 19 pounds over her before pregnancy. if you are so concerned with her weight talk to her about it, or plan family outtings that include physical activity. talk to her about what you two as a couple eat and most of all be sensitive. but my honest opinion is that you are being kinda selfish and shallow. but hey i am not trying to be rude. good luck
2007-03-24 19:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by brittany d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 11:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you avoid sounding shallow when you are shallow?
She'll catch on that you're not attracted because you haven't touched her in weeks? Gee, ya think??? Has it ever crossed your mind that she might be relieved about your lessened interest in her, because she has stopped finding you attractive a long time ago?
2007-03-24 18:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get down on your knees and pray to god you have a beautiful wife! A guy at work hes wife is so UGLY she can make paint crack! Just buy looking at it and this is no LIE
2007-03-24 19:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You are shallow.
Guess what? Beauty doesn't last forever love does.
2007-03-24 19:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
here's a bright idea: talk to her! tell her what's going, maybe then she'll get a clue.
2007-03-24 18:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Que Pasa? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋