Family - March 2007

O.K. my brother is almost out of High School and he has about two months left untill he graduates, then hes going to collage. But before he goes i want to spend some time with my brother. What should we do together that we will never forget??? HELP???

2007-03-25 10:56:09 · 5 answers · asked by maria 1

She's so mean. She gets physical, I have all these scars. She treats me like dirt. And she denys me at school. And she even passes out flatout lies about me, that aren't true. Any ideas of what I can do. My parents don't even do anything, so don't mention saying something to them, because it won't work.

2007-03-25 10:55:58 · 6 answers · asked by troublemakershortii21 1

2007-03-25 10:54:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so my county is under a tornado warning until 7:30pm (its 4:39pm right now), and my brother has never been in a tornado before so he's super scared and I obviously understand why. But I really want to help him out and make him less scared. He always gets freaked out about these things, even when he sees rain his first question is "is this a thunderstorm or a tornado?" It kills me to see him like that. We don't live in tornado alley. But we are directly above that "alley." Minnesota, right next to prescott. Any suggestions. I'll take anything. I've been in a tornado before so I'm pretty calm about it, I just want to help my brother if we do have a tornado. It was just hailing & pouring rain out. Now its stopped...litterally, not anything anymore. But there are BLACK (not kidding) clouds in front of us, in back of us & to the right of us. Thanks for your help. X's and O's. ♥

2007-03-25 10:47:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father (age 50) is in contact with another girl of age 26 i found tat and i too found tat he is spending money for her. i didnt say this to my mom she is a weak person so i am not goin to say this so wat i have planned is

1 to black mail him whith out saying my name to stop his relation ship

2 or directly ask him about this

3 or seek some other help

2007-03-25 10:43:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a stay at home mom and I have 3 kids a 8 year old a 1 year old and a 8 week old baby.
My question is ....is there anyone else out there like me ..and how do you handle having 2 children so close in age and keep your house clean cook and be nice to your husband =) and keep sane. Any hints or tips would be nice.
Thank you~

2007-03-25 10:39:39 · 4 answers · asked by mrsaprilberg 2

2007-03-25 10:26:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

AND you didn't know what you had till it was gone?

2007-03-25 10:16:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad has been known to drink way too much in the past and this has resulted in him maybe having cancer of the liver, he is on chemotheraphy for the next 4 months or so. Tonight my mum was in the kitchen with him crying because she thought he was drinking way too much tonight but i don't know.

I hate it when my mum cries, and i want to be able to help but what should i do?

Please helpful advice only

2007-03-25 10:16:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-25 10:09:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have two half brothers and two half sisters but their mom don't like me.i met them when i 13 am now going on 20.i found my brother on myspace and he accepted me as his friend but when i tried my sister she denied my request.their mom didn't even want me around my own dad when they were together and now he's in jail.i recently came across my dads half sister who know my other sisters and brother but don't know me and i'm the oldest.i've tried to contact my ex-stepmom to talk to her but she hasn't called.i wanna do is get to know my sis and bro's because i don't have any family that i'm close to.do you think it's wrong to try to get in touch with my ex-step mom?

2007-03-25 09:48:56 · 4 answers · asked by Meow4Moe 5

I am 31 years old and I have a 7 year old son. I am currently living with my family. My mother constantly critisizes me about everything and it seems like I am only in the house to provide more money. I gave my parents custody of my son about 3 years ago so that he would be provided better insurance and opportunities. I am so emotional lately and unhappy with the way I am treated by my mom that I am seriously thinking of moving in with a friend. I would still come by and spend time with my son but with out the stress of living with my mom! What should I do-suck it up at home or get out before I go deeper into depression?!

2007-03-25 09:47:17 · 9 answers · asked by jayslilred 1

I moved out a couple years ago. and now im 19. and i moved back in with my family because things where going real bad for me. Me and my mom have always been on bad terms, but its even worse now. and she's kicking me out. And i need her now more than ever. But she says she can't help me cuz she has my 2 younger brothers to deal with. she says really messed up stuff and it hurts real bad. like she told me to go to hell. shes real mean and i dont know how to deal it. i want so hard to just not care, but ever since she adopted me back when i was 15 i've been striveing so hard for her love and affection. If you have any suggestions i'd love to her em'. thanks.

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2007-03-25 09:40:59 · 27 answers · asked by kiki 1

Is this a mama's boy? 2 years ago I kicked my boyfriend of 14 years out of the house for being an ***hole. Our car was in the shop so I called his mother to come pick him up, she did and moved him in with her. He is 41 and we have 2 kids. Well during that time he met someone else. Then we started to try and work things out. His mother called the other woman and told her, and told her son not to be with me. She is involved in his life. We took our kids to a fair and he said to me don't tell my mom, she is bitter. She lies alot he knows it but says nothing to her. She complains about me to him in front of our kids, she even says he has no backbone about him in front of the kids. He still says nothing. All the commotion of our kids and animals ( 3 dogs) makes him to nervous she says. If things get stressful he gets weary and to nervous to deal with it. She does not encourage him to come back to his family, she says go out, move on. There is no family values. Is that a mama's boy?

2007-03-25 09:18:52 · 6 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4

When we talk on the phone, it doesn't seem to matter if I am calm or not. At some point during the conversation she starts interrupting me in mid-sentence, jumping on me with harsh statements and argumentative words. I eventually get to the point where I have to almost match her level of intensity before she'll calm down and listen to me. It just ebbs and then flows, ebbs and then flows, ad nausem.

She is highly critical of things that I say, think or do and seldom offers a compliment to me even when deserved. You uses statements such as "You're never...","You can't do...","You're not","You're being..." etc. rather than phrases like "I understand what you're saying.","Yes, I agree." etc.

We've been having these sort of non-productive conversations since I could talk (I am now 30 years old). She treats me like a child and it aggravates me. Even now, at 30, she treats me as though I am in grade school.

What gives? Any insight(s) would be profoundly helpful.

Thanks,

Paul

2007-03-25 09:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by dunric 1

First off, I have to make it clear I really love my sister-in-law. She is a really kind person with a good heart. But on that note, I am unsure what to do - if anything.
I dont believe that she was ever taught by her parents how to clean properly. They have a number of cats (I love cats so that isnt the problem either) but she doesnt really clean up after them - litter, vaccum etc. My brother and her have a baby and it is at that age where it is crawling around on the floor and eating things it finds. Their place is a pigstye. The baby just recently ended up in the hospital for a common bacteria disease which I believe came from unhealthy living conditions. My parents are both pushing me to "discuss" with her that she needs to take better care of the place. Problem is, I have already done that several times diplomatically and nothing has come of it. I am not excusing my brother either. He needs to get his butt in gear and help out as well and I have told him that too. What do I do?

2007-03-25 08:59:33 · 7 answers · asked by DizzyD 2

My daughters are both gorgeous, my oldest is 18, youngest 16. He's been paying way too much attention to my 18 yr old~~~sending her comments on my space~"I love you more" , "Thinking of you makes me smile", "I want to see that beautiful smile of yours". I just have that gut feeling that this just don't feel normal. They haven't seen each other since my daughter was a baby, but its all this "I love you", "No, I love you more" stuff.Mom's radar is going off. What do you think?????

2007-03-25 08:58:46 · 12 answers · asked by Debbie Ratliff 1

My 8 year old boy, is very pessimistic about almost everything around him. He feels his friends at school dont like him, he feels his teachers dont like him, he doesnot like to play outside fearing his friends bully him.

Although, he consistently gets good grades in school, he is a very kind hearted boy, always helps out his brothers and friends in class. He likes new stuff, he likes food, he is always on the look-out to buy new stationery, clothes and stuff.

I spend a lot of time with him, telling him he is important and not to worry about what people tell him, I try to make him feel good. What more can I do to make him think positively and encourage him to play and mingle with friends, and be a normal kid.

2007-03-25 08:53:30 · 4 answers · asked by Entrepre 1

2007-03-25 08:49:58 · 32 answers · asked by little_friend 3

Mentally as in they get into your head and I don't know it's hard to explain....

2007-03-25 08:49:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know where to start, but I guess it's mostly that I'm having major coping issues. I recently went to see my dad that hasn't been around for the last 7 years. He was busy being a drug addict. He also has another daughter, she's just a little girl though. He has stopped using, and has a job, so i came around at a good time, as he sells cars, he gets his commission very far apart, and since he's just started, he had no money to begin with. He recently asked me for money, which i gave to him, then he asked me again, i gave, and now he's asked me again ($100 this time a total of $330) he said he can give the 100 by friday. I'm perturbed, because I am in university and don't have much to spare, I'm moving next week, and my mother and stepfather live in NC now. My boyfriend gets so angry that i'm giving money, but i can't say no if it means someone (sister) might be hungry. Aren't you supposed to give if you have more? I would never tell my mom. I don't know how to cope.

2007-03-25 08:47:22 · 13 answers · asked by universitystudent 2

2007-03-25 08:41:45 · 26 answers · asked by Colin S 1

My mom is graduating from Nursing School in May, and I was wondering if anybody had a good gift idea to give her. Something homemade that is personal.

2007-03-25 08:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Hols 1

A gave a boy named Kayln Baker, a note that was mean.(I think.) Yesterday his brother came over. He wanted to talk to my mom. I told him that she was in the shower.(The truth.) If his brother talks to my mom, I'll be in big trouble.PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!

2007-03-25 08:37:20 · 8 answers · asked by Mary G 2

When I was Younger I Used To Wanna Match My Mom up W/ someone , A Program Called "Eddie's Father" was on TV. & Eddie used to do the same thing w/ His Dad

So is that cool or not & Why
I was thiking it might be cool cause you can Help pic who may end up being part of ur Life too
But; I was wondering if it was uncool cause is it medaling in ur Parents affairs
So Why Do you its cool or uncool

& If cool How would you go about it

Has anyone Done it & if so How did you do it
& How Did it Go

2007-03-25 08:36:23 · 4 answers · asked by forgivenbadboy 2

2007-03-25 08:34:47 · 23 answers · asked by spy1ke 1

I'm sure we're all having problems right now,God bless us all,and bless the world.But i need help.My life seems extremely difficult right now.How do i deal with yelling parents,mental brother,and homesickness?No one seems to understand,and there's never enough room to cry...I'm not sure what to pray for...i wanna book a plane ticket back to my country,but can't do that(not enough money) i need to escape..help me please..i'm not making this up i swear...

2007-03-25 08:34:00 · 13 answers · asked by cloud16 4

2007-03-25 08:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by Shawna 1

hey its me stefany again.someone said so if your homeless then how are u online.well its like i said dollface there are things happening in the world u only see in nightmares.Unfortunately sometimes u gotta do things 2 get shelter knowing you wont find it that nite. Ask 4 my family my mom-addicted heavily to pills and crackmy dad- in jail for trafficking crack
my stepdad- currently in a unhealthy abusive relationship on crack my brother- in jail for burgulary
and my grandparents- disowned me for being one of my mom's children everyone else in the family thinks me and my brother are going to turn out like my mom or dad and either be in jail for drugs or be sick from them.i stay away from my family it keeps me in good spirits no one to tell me how im going to turn out like my mom or threaten me with DSS or Juvie all the time when i have done nothing to deserve it.We all make mistakes but i believemine have made me stronger
In the 3yrs i've been on my own i havent gotten n any trouble. sl

2007-03-25 08:28:18 · 15 answers · asked by kitty17 1

I bought a phone on ebay and i need them to give me $150 by tomorrow what how do i talk them into it?

2007-03-25 08:25:53 · 9 answers · asked by eden21 1