My daughters are both gorgeous, my oldest is 18, youngest 16. He's been paying way too much attention to my 18 yr old~~~sending her comments on my space~"I love you more" , "Thinking of you makes me smile", "I want to see that beautiful smile of yours". I just have that gut feeling that this just don't feel normal. They haven't seen each other since my daughter was a baby, but its all this "I love you", "No, I love you more" stuff.Mom's radar is going off. What do you think?????
2007-03-25 08:58:46 · 12 answers · asked by Debbie Ratliff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like he is in love with your daughter and she might be too
2007-03-25 09:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by knockoutsgal45 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old is the half brother? And if Mom's radar is going off I would say you need to have a sit down with your daughter and maybe the brother. Set some boundries.
2007-03-25 16:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Glinda W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly mom, I think your 18 year old daughter can handle this. If it is inappropriate, she will be the first one to notice it and stop it. I am forever telling my younger brother I love him immensely, and I could not imagine my life without him. I love him as my brother only. I also feel this way about my sister, and we tell each other the same thing. We are not perverted. We hug and kiss each other. So what. We have done this most of our lives and have in no way ever been sexual with one another. I have the same immense feelings of love for them as I have for my parents, who I also hug, kiss, and tell I love them.
2007-03-25 16:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Moms radar has a good reason to be going off..
Talk to your daughters and warn them that half brother is weird.
Talk to half brother & his father ...
2007-03-25 16:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this could ba a dangerous situation and I would try to put a stop to it now.
You need to have a good heart to heart talk with your daughter and explain to her about incest etc. This sounds like more than brotherly love and you have a right to have your "radar going off."
Good Luck Mom.
2007-03-25 16:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cash money is a ding-a-ling. you need to be worried. they do share blood. and the comments sound like more than brother/sister love. she is 18 though and there's not much you ca do except talk to her and help her understand why it is not acceptable.
2007-03-25 17:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a guys standpoint obviously he likes her...and probably vice verca
but is it honestly that bad? no, in fact it could be healthy.
you should probably ease off a bit.
as long as there not having unprotected sex and snorting cocaine, is a teenage crush really thar big of a deal?
2007-03-25 16:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by fb 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk to your daughters about it, they'll probably think your sick and your mind has wondered too far this time but at least you'll know where they stand.
2007-03-25 16:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by hello 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 your too old to be on here 2 your just over protective 3 i say i love you to my half brother all the time thats what your suppose to say to family
2007-03-25 16:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Step in quick.
2007-03-25 16:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by DOT 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋