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2007-03-25 11:43:37
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Do not stoop to blackmail it is such a horrid thing. You need to confront him about it. There is a chance that it is not what you think it is. There is a chance that he does not have a relationship with her. I can tell you this. My uncle didn't find out that he had a daughter from a previous relationship until the girl was 22 and the second my uncle found out he stepped up and took care of her as if he were there for her her entire life.
You'll never know what is going on unless you ask. It could be what you think it is but it might not be.
2007-03-25 11:36:08
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answer #2
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answered by vixenangel_ia 2
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Try, "Dad, if you had found your dad cheating on your mom, what would you have done?" Or maybe, "Dad, I have this problem and I really don't know what to do." He might ask what the problem is, then, "Well, I have some information that could cause our family a lot of pain, and I want to avoid that, but I don't want to feel like I'm conspiring against mom either." He may try to bluff, and in that case spell out what you know and suggest that you won't be able to keep that to yourself for very long. Then again, maybe you can just get it off your chest and don't expect things to be any different.
2007-03-25 10:57:11
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answer #3
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answered by TAMAJ13 1
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This is hard. There is no respect, so maybe you should just mention that your mom deserves more respect than that. It will be hard on your mom but she does deserve to know the truth.Let your Dad tell her in a timely manor. You cant let it go onto long then Mom will be upset that you didn't say something.
2007-03-25 10:53:58
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answer #4
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answered by lou lou 2
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your father is 50 years old, so can make his own HUGE mistakes...
you have every right to ask him about this.
he's probably going through a mid-life crisis. perhaps your parents don't have the intimate life they used to and he is looking for someone to fill in the gaps?
if you are at a loss, can you talk with a school counselor or some other adult you trust? if there is someone you look up to in your life, maybe they can guide you in person.
all the best.
2007-03-25 10:54:17
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answered by Anonymous
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I would approach him about it, and then tell my mother about it, I mean despite her weakness she still has the right to know or maybe she already does and is in denial or does not know what to do. I would let my Father know that he is not only damaging what he has with my mother but the relationship that we both have. I mean he is grown and will continue to do what he pleases , just know that Father or no father you and your mother do not deserve to be treated like this.
2007-03-25 10:50:22
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answer #6
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answered by Breann 5
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There not alot you can do, bide your time
a fifty year old man with a young 26 year old woman/
his brains wont be in his head ,(dont tell your mom)
2007-03-25 10:52:57
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answered by mickjack 5
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Well it could be number 2 because you deserve to know what is going on.
2007-03-25 10:54:36
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answer #8
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answered by Samantha P 2
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If your curious, ask about it directly. It may be nothing, but if there is something then there is nothing you can do, it is not your problem and trust me to stay out of it.
2007-03-25 10:51:28
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answer #9
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answered by Firefly 2
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tell him you know whats going on with this woman and he has 2 come clean to your mother because its a matter of time b4 she finds out
2007-03-25 10:47:34
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answer #10
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answered by Anonymous
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