I'm sure we're all having problems right now,God bless us all,and bless the world.But i need help.My life seems extremely difficult right now.How do i deal with yelling parents,mental brother,and homesickness?No one seems to understand,and there's never enough room to cry...I'm not sure what to pray for...i wanna book a plane ticket back to my country,but can't do that(not enough money) i need to escape..help me please..i'm not making this up i swear...
2007-03-25 08:34:00 · 13 answers · asked by cloud16 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
eldo if you can't help dont write anything please...
2007-03-25 08:38:12 · update #1
Thanks for all of your answers,but,i can't get away! i feel trapped..and the only people that can understand me(and are so close to my heart)are far,far away..i can only talk to them in emails..but that is not enough:(
2007-03-25 08:43:19 · update #2
You can only pray that God will give you peace. If I were you, I'd try and find a way to spend my time away from home. Go to the library, go out with friends, jog, read, spend time in your room away from the yelling. Get a part time job if you can. You are lonely too because of your homesickness. You have to deal with it, though. Just pray that you can have peace and acceptance in your life.
2007-03-25 08:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but, if you have a Church or even a good friend will do, talk w/friend and see if maybe you could stay at her house for a while, if not, find a counselor and get some advise. That's a place to start. When praying, tell God that you'll put all this trouble into his hands and then, BELIEVE THAT THIS WILL BE DONE, (must believe it), or it wont happen. That's called: FAITH. He then will show you the way.
2007-03-25 08:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Home is where you make it. Have you heard that before? Maybe you can embrace the positives in your life, then you can think more clearly and figure a way to afford the plane ticket you need. You'd be amazed what you can do with a clear head rather than wasting all your energy on all the negatives. Pray for that. Good luck to you.
2007-03-25 08:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life can be difficult. I lost my mom when I was 2 and my father when I was 13. Before I knew it life smacked me in the face. If you believe in yourself, you can do anything. You can obviously identify the problem areas in your life. I would see if you can do anything to change the situation. Running from it, won't help. You still have to address it and you'll only create more problems for yourself. Face it head on and right away. the sooner it's solved, the better off for everyone. You may want to seek outside professional help because the parents don't seem to be able to manage their own problems properly. I'll be a shoulder for you if you need it; I could not have made it through without a good support system.
2007-03-25 08:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by scookfpm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a friends house that will understand you no matter what you say. They might just be able to give you some ideas on what to do, and it's an escape. If you are gonna pray, pray to be able to make it through this without hurting anyone.
2007-03-25 08:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by sillyshas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you say you do not know what to pray for, right ? Well what in you life is something that needs to change for the better of everyone ? Pray for guidance, and courage. Just look at life in this perspective if you wish to. Life will be difficult but in the difficulties there is experience and power. When you are old enough to change things yourself then you will be able to help others and be wise at helping anyone. You can help the people around you with homesickness because you have dealt with it. The answers are not going to pop out right at you but god has given them to you. I will pray for you and just pray for your family and the ones you love. Also the ones you dont. Your New Friend,
Tim
2007-03-25 08:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to pray very much and follow what you heart says.
But make sure it is the right decision.
Also ask some of your closests friends or relatives for what is the best desion to do.
Hope you life turns better.:)
2007-03-25 08:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going through a phase called teenager. Just hang on there, everything will be fine in a few years.
Good luck!
2007-03-25 08:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if there's some groups in your city that can help you. If you go to church sometimes your minister can steer you in the right direction.
2007-03-25 08:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now , there seems to be very little going "right" for you. We cant make it better for you, but here are somethings to do to make yourself stronger, and able to get through this tough time. First and foremost remember you never" get anywhere" without going through something. Know that this is just a trying time, and time moves continually and the odds are things will get better. When you think your world really sucks, the best thing to do is go help someone else.. sounds simple and stupid, but I promise you it works. It gets your mind off your own problems for a little bit, and helps someone else,and the chances are, by the time you are finished helping others, things in your world have improved, either by the situation improving, or your reaction to it improving. I wish you all the luck in the world, and remember there are others out there that care.
2007-03-25 08:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by Pam W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋