my mun drives me crazy! Whenevr I have a assinment she always wants to help and I tell her I want to do it on my own but she keeps going past me and lookng over my sholder to see what I'm doing.
When ever I ask he to CHECH a assinment she always has a red pen in her pocket and starts scribbling away and shouts at me for what I can't do
Help Me How can I make this stop i'm going crazy.
2007-03-24 19:34:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You may not see it but your mum wants to help you do the best with your assignments and h/w. If you let her help she won't end up scribbling away, she could correct your mistakes before you make them. Just have a positve and loving attitude towards your mum, after all, she just wants to help=)
good luck..
2007-03-24 20:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your homework in your room. Change the time when you do it so she doesnt know. Like when she is busy cooking dinner or other things.
When you ask her to check it ask her not to shout cuz it makes you nervous and if something is wrong could she tell you nicely cuz your not perfect but your trying hard.
If that doesnt work then tell a school counselor maybe they will talk to your mother.
2007-03-24 20:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you started an after school club and just go to the library to do your homework instead. Make the librarian your new best friend and have her check your assignments if you really need it or just post your homework questions on Yahoo! answers and we'll be glad to help you out!
2007-03-24 19:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Casually Lame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever considered that she nags you because of fact she needs you to do properly? I swear i'm interior an identical boat as you're with my mum - and at situations i'm getting purely as aggravated and annoyed together with her as you're doing. yet each so often you will possibly desire to keep in mind WHY your mom nags you. She probable needs you to do properly interior the international, gain properly and stay an extremely good life. Her nagging shows she cares plenty. i comprehend, for confident, that even in spite of the indisputable fact that i do no longer constantly coach I know why my mom nags, that my mom nags at me because of fact she needs me to attain extra ideal than she did. She needs me to do properly so i would be happy. Letting her comprehend how annoyed she would be in a position to make you will possibly desire to help, besides the fact that it would desire to do the international a good to thank your mom for all of this too.
2016-10-20 09:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by valda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mums can be good at driving someone crazy. Maybe just tell her that this is your homework and don't ask her to check it. If she walks by just cover up your work.
2007-03-24 19:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother does this because she want's me to be perfect. She doesn't want me to make mistakes because she iss afriad it will make her seem as if she failed to do her job. When she yells at you she is just upset because you haven't learned what she has been trying to help you understand. SHe cares. You need to show her that you are listenign and that you ready to be on your own. Just grow up darlin.
2007-03-24 19:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum loves and wants to support you. Tell her in a very kind way that if you need help you will ask. Now and again ask even if you don't need it. Then she will not feel rejected.
2007-03-24 21:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lolipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great to be independent,but think yourself lucky.What if she wasn't there to check on your homework at all?
But do speak to her about the yelling if it bothers you.Encouragement is always better than negativity.
2007-03-25 00:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why she is concerned. Is it your spelling homework she is trying to help you with. YOU HAVE A GREAT MUM
2007-03-24 19:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to look over your shoulder, your spelling is terrible.
2007-03-24 20:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋