a couple of nights ago i had a huge fight with both of my parents and they havnt spoken to me since i feel horrible. what can i do can anybody help me plzplzplz. it feels awful to not have anyone to talk to :(
2007-03-24 17:29:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i cant stop crying now my brother wont even talk to me :'( i havent eaten 4 two days
2007-03-24 17:42:04 · update #1
why don't you just talk to them. your parents care about you no matter what so feelings of pride or insecurity don't really fit here. they'll be glad you came to them.
2007-03-24 17:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by David Gato 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very happy mother of 4 my oldest in about to turn 13. We have had several arguments it happens anytime that there are more then one person living in the same house. Everyone has their own opinions and views on life. I feel as though as long as you are living with your mom and dad what they say should go. Unless they are doing things to hurt you or making you hurt someone else. I feel that there are a lot of kids today that do not have a strong family to lean on. I think that of your mom and dad are a stable foundation for you then you should tell them that you thank them for this and please try to help them. They are trying to help you become the best person that you can be. Honestly who does not want this for the person that they love unconditionaly. But you have to want this for yourself or it wont work and you will not be hurting only your mom and dad you would be hurting yourself also. Friends come and go but your mom and dad are there even at your darkest moments. They know you and if they do not know you or understand you then you have to let them into your world and show them who you are so you can understand each other better. I know that it is hard but look at things from thier piont of view. they love you or they would not be threre. This is a sad statement but all to true. There are to many moms and dads to busy with their own lives to make time for their children. We have to many children raising theirselfs. If you are lucky enough to have a mom and dad that take good care of them just thank them. We have a no yelling policy in our house. We will set down and talk with each other but the first time that someone yells or says something to hurt the other person that person can say this conversation is over and go to their bedroom. This allows both of us time to cool down and stay on track. The conversation continues when that person comes out of thier room. I hope this helps. I hope they listen to your point and I hope that you can understand thiers. Best Wishes God Bless You and Your Family
2007-03-25 01:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Flutterfly116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were you wrong? if you were tell them you are sorry and explain why you were wrong. sometimes just hearing the words and an explaination from you is enough. i am a parent of 5 and my teen and i are at it all the time, usually i am left scratching my head as to what just happened. when she comes around a couple of days later and talks to me about it i feel better and it helps us sort things out about other things.
2007-03-25 00:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by rachael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that you are really sorry for fighting with them and that you miss not having them talk to you. Don't be a complete suck up, but tell them how you feel. Get them a gift card to a resteraunt or Blockbuster. They will know that your apology was sincere.
2007-03-25 00:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go tell them you need to talk about whatever the fight was get it resolved stay calm if they are the type that like to yell and scream just stay calm show your the bigger person just listen to what they have to say and be respectful then say what you need to say to them to feel better.
2007-03-25 00:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Archangel Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to appoligize...parents always think they're kids should appoligize trust me i know...
i mean it may work it not like they arent going to talk to you forever..they will come around...
parents are complicating
2007-03-25 00:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋