I'm 52 and he's 58. We're both divorced of extremely long marriages and our kids are all grown and on their own. We've been seeing each other for over 2 years. Love each other dearly and goood sex partners. Do we move in together and share expenses because Marriage by legal document especially after our Divorces cost alot of money kinda scares the crap out of us. Someday we have talked about getting married but not right now.
2007-03-24 17:04:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why not? I think you should, as long as both of you know it's a long-term thing and will eventually lead to marriage later on.
2007-03-24 17:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes! If you are talking about just living together, the REAL question is...WHY NOT??!! It sounds like you love to be around each other and you have a good thing going. If things don't work out, you can separate, but where would peoples love lifes be if we never took chances? Especially people who have been let down by love. Move on, and enjoy your lives to the fullest while you have the chance. Lots of people aren't so lucky.
2007-03-24 17:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My spouse and that i are very classic and old college. We did not stay jointly till now we've been married. i don't declare to be an authority on the priority yet so some distance as i'm worried there are 2 strategies to look on the question: one million) First we live jointly and if issues artwork out we are able to get married or 2) First we take life-long marriage vows and then we do regardless of is mandatory to make our marriage artwork. I even have some friends who lived jointly till now marriage. The association worked nicely for them and that they are nevertheless jointly, that's great. I remember asking a chum presently after his wedding ceremony how each and every thing grew to become into going. He reported, in result, each and every thing is high-quality, that's no diverse than till now. As unusual because it would desire to look, his reaction bolstered my determination to not stay with a woman till now marriage. i think of marriage is definitely one of life's best milestones. i think of marriage is and may well be a life-changing adventure. My spouse and that i needed our wedding ceremony day to be the 1st day of the the remainder of our lives. we could have liked to have the skill to answer that question via asserting "Marriage is astonishing". We didn't wish to answer "that's high-quality, comparable as till now."
2016-11-23 13:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes totally move in together if you want to start hating each other and fighting!! No if you want to stay in a great relationship.. At your age just having your own space is wonderful and not having someone tell you what to do! Just be good friends and sex buddies and love each other BUT DO NOT MOVE IN TOGETHER!
2007-03-24 17:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by reggiethecokegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a plan on how you are going to divide the expenses and go for it. Be happy! You are grown adults and have known each other long enough to make this decision on your own.
2007-03-24 17:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married unless you two are ready. But, don't live together either. Stay as you are now.
Note: Don't let money get in the way with the love you both have for each other. Do the right thing, get married when you are ready.
2007-03-24 17:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are questioning this, you should not live together. Wait until you are ready to commit to marriage. Living together is a legal commitment too, but many don't realize it until you try and walk away.
2007-03-24 17:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Proud Mama of 4 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when is someday and if you love each other what are you afraid of after two years if you do not know how you feel then maybe you should not move in together
2007-03-24 17:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea, get married first, then move in. Seriously.
2007-03-24 17:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by DreamXGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not...if you have to ask a bunch of strangers shows you are not comfortable with moving in together. Don't do it!
2007-03-24 17:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋