Family - March 2007

If she never bothers to visit you?

2007-03-09 07:17:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-09 07:15:44 · 19 answers · asked by c12step 1

ok so my sister took off with her boyfriend(the father of the kids) to a near by city. they said that they'd be home around 4pm and they left @ 1030am. they didnt get home till 1145am the next day. in the mean time, i took care of the 3 kids for 25 hours, and i am only 20 yrs old, and i work full time. granted i didnt get fired bc my boss is my father, but i mean seriously my sister is 29 yrs old. she has three kids ages 8,5 & 4. i really want to beat the **** outta her, but i know thats not the right decistion.

anyone got some tips on how i should deal with this?

2007-03-09 07:11:02 · 3 answers · asked by ..::..Lovin him..::.. 4

I used to be best friends with my older brother until he went off to boarding school. When he graduated and came back home I swear he was a whole differant person. Now he is off srewing his life away and he only calls when he wants something and he never asks how I'm doing. Sometimes I just try to let it go...but the last time I avoided him he called from the ER room, becasue he O.Ded. I think he is a physopath but since he is 19 he has to get help himself and that is never going to happen. Am I alone in this? I just don't know what to do.

2007-03-09 07:00:49 · 13 answers · asked by Lizbiz333 2

i have not had the best relationship with my in laws so i dont know if maybe this is the reason that i may be a little bothered by this, but my sister in law took my baby to take pictures with her without asking me. i dont like it . am i over-exagerating

2007-03-09 06:56:23 · 9 answers · asked by haley01 1

Now my cursor works fine..

2007-03-09 06:50:30 · 1 answers · asked by SAM M 1

2007-03-09 06:33:29 · 16 answers · asked by shiek yerbouti 3

I was trying to help her do some image editing, but she got frustrated and then shew blew up and pushed a chair over. Then she screamed at me to "Get out!". I came back down about 15 minutes later, she said "Get the h*** away or I sware I'm going to kill you!". She was is furious, and I don't know how to talk to her without bursting her bubble once again.

Any ideas? (Currently I'm hiding in my back yard shed playing drums and using the computer).

2007-03-09 06:21:53 · 32 answers · asked by dswim 1

Lately I've been cheating on my husband with my manager from Captain D's. I wouldnt call it cheating BC I needed the raise for extra money to help our household. Then we added my husbands best friend to the mix to spice it up even more, and now my manager wants both of us all the time. How do I get my manager to pay more attention to me and end the affair with my husbands best friend? I feel really bad since thats his friend and all!

2007-03-09 06:16:24 · 11 answers · asked by nicky w 1

i want to be very happy . i am 14 years old .

2007-03-09 06:08:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is 9 and her father has been in and out of her life for all nine years of it. Some times he's really into it and calls her every week and talks about her coming to visit. Then she goes to visit once or twice and then its like he forgets about her for few months. I have to call him and remind him to call her if he hasn't talked to her in a week or two. He only lives about 10 miles away so distance is no excuse. I have another daughter who is 3 and her dad is really envolved with her. Visiting her 2-3 days a week and includes my oldest in holidays and birthdays. My 9 year old is really starting to express her upset with her own father and says she feels like no one notices her. Should I say something to him to encourage him to step up or just leave it alone and let her learn yet another disapointing fact of life?

2007-03-09 05:59:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know, this is a serious one. My mom used to criticise me a lot and punish/beat me with a metal belt in my childhood often. I know that it did not just hurt me, but left "scars on my soul" if you know what I mean. I used to think that I have dealt with it by now and learnt to have a healthy self-esteeim, yet sometimes I feel so unsure about myself and so desperate for love that it scares me. Is there such a thing as dealing with it once and for all or is this pain supposed to be with me forever? Btw, my mom would still not admit that it was wrong what she did. In fact, she prefers to pretend it never happened.

2007-03-09 05:55:41 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3

ok. im really tired of all you people who are asking the same questions. "what do i do because my children are acting up" and crap like that.. heres the solution, its called DICIPLINE! take their t.v away, cellphones, friends, do anything that they dont like. and if that still dont work, send them to bootcamp or a scarcamp! does that help any?

2007-03-09 05:48:49 · 10 answers · asked by cmmluvv 1

im 13...and i see people whining and complaining that there parents wont let them do anything....in a way, they are lucky! my mom and dad are in the process of divorce...and i dont get along with my mom...so im living with my dad. both my parents are easygoing. they may say that i cant watch tv until i wash the dishes....stuff like that and i hate it. but i dont have a bedtime....i stay up as late as i want....i dont stay up late though cuz i know i need sleep...my dad doesnt make me do chores...and im not rich and a brat....im far from being rich. the only time i have to do chores is when i dont wash the dishes or something and i see they needed to be washed for like 3 days. my parents have never mentioned i cant date until im like 16. they would just let me....im not saying my parents are bad parents cuz they arent. my dad he talks to me about God and stuff and im in a private school right now...i just wanna know that they care about what im doing. how do i know?

2007-03-09 05:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by Teenager 5

okay. my husband sent his child off acouple months ago to live with his mom because he was causing us so much problems between each other and the other children. his child was horrible, not listening getting into everything, back talking, being mean to his sisters. now my husband wants to bring him back and i dont want him to come back and be with us full time like my husband wants. since the child has been gone nothing has gone wrong, everything in our lives has went right. should i tell my husband how i feel or leave it alone. if i should tell him , how do i do that??? i need help/

2007-03-09 05:26:34 · 12 answers · asked by Tiffany h 2

2007-03-09 05:20:40 · 15 answers · asked by maria c 1

my step daughter is 16 and my daughter is 15 , and they are exeptionally close(and that is great and all...),but...
when they are together , the house is turmoil. What I mean by this , is the older one the other day acted all "tired" and said she was going to bed...I was like oh ok goodnight and then my 15 yr old did the same thing, well..a few hours later at around midnight I went to go check on the baby and cover him up and I noticed their radio in their room was not on and it is usually on and a night light is on, well it was off and so i wen to check on them. they were gone!! so i checked the whole house and outside front and back yard, well...before i panicked I callled Erica's mom and she and I suggested to have me call the cops to go and look for these teenagers of ours. my hubby was asleep and wanted no part in it and rolled his eyes. mind you it was a weeknight!! i called the cops and they went searching for them~ well 4 1/2 hours later at like 4:45 am they came back and....

2007-03-09 05:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

so that I can spend my time with my kids during the day. I even work two jobs in order to have enough money to live comfortably. And yes, I stay awake during the time they are awake...Thank-you, Izzy

2007-03-09 05:07:35 · 6 answers · asked by izzyjennings 1

2007-03-09 04:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my maternal grand dad is around 80 now... the thing is that my grandparents are divorced and hes been staying by himself for a while... while my grandmum is fully supported by my uncle, my grandpa has no income.. no savings and any sort of support he gets from my uncles he blows off in some venture or the other.. he cant cook and he would depend for food from a relative who used to stay nearby. he only had a small home kinda far away from the city which he rescently sold off.

hes currently staying with my grand uncle and his wife.. ok so thats a temporary arrangement and he has to relocate soon.. my parents have been discussing this matter with my uncles and when i mean "uncles" i mean a lot.. thie thing is that my grand dad had two wives.. and many children.. its strange that none of his sons what to support him...whats more people try to evade responisbility especially because he is handicapped.. he uses crutches to walk and hes been using them for 20 years or more..he also has

2007-03-09 04:46:33 · 1 answers · asked by greenprincess 5

I didn't suffer with jealousy when my other sister in law had her two children, and the only difference is that I don't like the sister in law who is currently pregnant. I've avoided all family gatherings since I found out in Decemeber, as I'm scared that I'll just cry when I see her. I suffer from severe depression so am not at my strongest at the moment. I feel awful for not being happy for her, but I'm just preoccupied with how it is bad for them, how it is irresponsible and they shouldn't have been so immature. I just don't know if I can cope with it. I want children very much, but due to my depression I don't think it is fair to try untill I am totally better.

2007-03-09 04:34:14 · 20 answers · asked by Beauty 2

I have two girls. I want to know this from parents of boys. Are you raising them to be respectful of women/girls? Are you teaching them to not to ever hit a girl? Just curious. Thanks

2007-03-09 04:26:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad made me clean the kitchen im only 18 years old!!!! how do i get out of this prediciment? should i run away from home?

2007-03-09 04:20:06 · 26 answers · asked by hank kill 1

How can it affect a person if they were molested as a child by thier uncle and her family didn't protect her even though her aunt knew about it. If you can't trust your family how would that make a person feel?

2007-03-09 04:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife was molested, several times, when she was 6 by her older 1/2 brother. She is now 47. We have been dealing with this for probably over 7 years (since she told me). She has been to couseling and is doing great on a personal level, but her family, (5 sisters and a mother) who all live close by- make my wife feel bad and say she is a "trouble maker" and likes to open old wounds. It gets really sad and ugly at times. I suggest we stay away (even move away) from them but it's like those Chinese finger puzzles - the harder you pull away the tighter it holds you in. Any insights on how to deal with them?

2007-03-09 04:04:07 · 8 answers · asked by The Hero Inside 2

In the past week my grandmother, granfather and mother have all been admitted to the hospital for serious life threatening illnesses. Needless to say I am totally stressed out. My boyfriend seems to think life should proceed as normal with me catering to his every need. ie. dishes, dinner, laundry, changing the channel on the tv, etc. Usually I don't mind and even enjoy pampering him like this but right now I'm tired and need to chill before I have a nervouse breakdown. How can I get him to be more supportive. ( he doesn't deal well with anything emotional).

2007-03-09 04:00:43 · 13 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4

i'm 18, i'm responsible and very mature. i have a place at uni, i am involved in college and community life. my mom doesn't want to get to know my boyfriend we've been together for 6 months and we love each other. i get on with his family very well. she recently said she think i shudn't see or speak to him until after my A level exams this summer. am i wrong to think its unreasonable? she even gives me a curfew still. it was 6pm but i managed to get it to 7/8..i'm 18! my cousins and friends my age don't have curfews! wen i try to explain she just gets defensive. my big sis thinks she's finding it hard to let go. but what can i do about it? i need practical advice. thank you.

2007-03-09 03:59:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I already have 16 kids (see my first question if you want to know the family story), ages 10 mo., and 6-19. with twins on the way. Her 2 kids are ages 2 and 3. personally, i don't know if me and my husband would be able to handle 20 kids. If i don't take them, they go in foster care. the 2 year old is a girl, Zoe. and the 3 year old is a boy, Jonah. the other kids are all for it (the majority of them anyway). my husband is a little weary on how we're going to afford it, but he's ready to take them in with open arms). i love them to death. but 20 kids is alot.Help!!!!

2007-03-09 03:55:36 · 23 answers · asked by luv my kids nasty comm. unwanted 1

My mother in law is heavily into religion. If anyone has read my posts, you'll see that she can be a little over the top. In the past, I have told my mother in law that I don't want to discuss religion and have gotten into a fight about it because she tries to push it on me and my husband. She tells me that I need to get rid of my husband's violent movies and get him to listen to religious music. I am a Christian. I went to catholic school for 9 years and I taught in a catholic school for 6 years.
Ever since our fight, she's slowly talking about religion again. It burns me up inside because I told her that I don't want to discuss. My husband (her son) doesn't agree with parts of her religion either but lets her talk to appease her. But everytime she's here in our house...it never fails. I know it's a big part of her life but there are other things to talk about and I just feel like she's disreguarding what I said.
What can I say or should I just suck it up and deal with it

2007-03-09 03:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by qtpie 2

when it comes to other's people children. They always wanna call someone if the parents spank t hem or do something to discipline them. Why don't they mind their business and get on with there pathetic lives if they even have one thats probabley the reason why they get into the others people's business. I mean i have a neighbor who make his 12 year old sleep out in the treehouse with a sheet and pillow i do not intervene because that is none of my business i know i did the right choice so why dont other people do the right choice and mind their own business!

2007-03-09 03:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2