ok. im really tired of all you people who are asking the same questions. "what do i do because my children are acting up" and crap like that.. heres the solution, its called DICIPLINE! take their t.v away, cellphones, friends, do anything that they dont like. and if that still dont work, send them to bootcamp or a scarcamp! does that help any?
2007-03-09 05:48:49 · 10 answers · asked by cmmluvv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first of all you people, i no that i dont have any children. second, i had sme nice parents. its some of my friends parents that had to do that to their children. i was never really bad. so you guys need to watch what you say. bc some things might offend others. and yea. some of these things might be harsh, but u have to do what u have to do. and if they didnt do anything all that bad, then dont diciplin them all that bad.
2007-03-09 05:58:48 · update #1
i no that it sounded harsh in the begining, and im sorry if i offended anybody in any way.
2007-03-09 06:01:05 · update #2
If you don't have children then how can you say completely how to handle every situation?? Yes discipline is important, and following through if you threaten something. If you don't follow through, then it is pointless.
But there are times when really good parents can have a problem with their child and it is NOT the parent's fault. It does happen. So until you have some of your own, you will not fully understand how it is the hardest job in the world. Sometimes it's just good to hear a different viewpoint from someone on here and get a different perspective.
Sometimes people who are not in the situation can see things more clearly then the people it's happening to. So calm down woman!!
2007-03-09 07:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by nymom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with you. The first part you sounded just frustrated and annoyed, understandable. I am a parent and understand how hard its is to discipline your kids at times, given some situations. But when you see them make the right decision next time due to the "punishment" you enforced prior, you understand how necessary discipline is. I agree though...some of these questions being asked scare me that some of these parents don't know the answer, but in the same breath, I'm kind of glad that they are looking for the best answer. As a parent, I think you should always ask questions, gather multiple opinions to create the ultimate answer, but some of these questions asked sound obsurd, like, "...my 2 year old keeps smashing my face in with a bat, I keep telling him no but he keeps knocking teeth out. What should I do?" I mean common. I know its an extreme example, but some of these questions make me feel like its not to far off. Be strong parents.
2007-03-09 07:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by iNk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be a parent. I only have a seven month old so we don't have any discipline issues yet. However, I am also a teacher and I can tell you from experience that each individual child comes with their own unique set of circumstances and the consequences that work for one may not work for another. You really don't need to be offended by people on here asking for parenting advice, it's good to get other people's opinion as it can help you to raise happy, healthy, well adjusted young people. Perhaps your parents failed you somewhere.. shame.
2007-03-09 05:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying, my husband and I have an 18 month old daughter and when she acts up she gets disciplined, may it be a smack on the butt or sat on the couch for a min. she knows when she has done something wrong. But I agree what you said about people saying "my children are out of control" well they should have been a parent when they were growing up.
To the lady with 16 kids, it was your choice to have that many kids!!
2007-03-09 07:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU'RE SAYING. I'M A MOTHER OF TWO BUT SOMETIME IT'S NOT THAT EASY. I'M ALSO A MOTHER WITH NOT A LOT OF MONEY SO MY KIDS DON'T HAVE A LOT OF THOSE THINGS.. MOST KIDS THAT ARE ACTING OUT IN SOME WAY ARE NEEDING SOMETHING. BUT THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO GET IT SO THEY DO WHAT WORK. THESES DAYS KIDS ARE TO MUCH ON THEIR OWN SO THEY HAVE TO MUCH TIME ON THEIR HANDS. BUT MOST JUST WANT SOMEONE TO REALLY LOVE THEM AND TO KIDS THING YOU CAN GIVE THEM IS NOT ENOUGH. AND I KNOW THAT MOST WILL LOOK AT THIS AND GO WHATEVER BUT I WAS A F-UP KID AND A STREET KID
2007-03-09 07:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try raising 16 kids (pregnant with twins, and maybe having to take in your sisters 2 kids too) and then post this question again.
2007-03-09 05:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by luv my kids nasty comm. unwanted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think no one really knows acactly how to be a parent, i think it all determans on how u were raised as a child and if u want ur kids to b raised like that. i do like ur points though they are good ....
2007-03-09 05:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Shi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, first you did not have loving and caring parents did you? and second, you have no children, that's why you can talk such crap.
2007-03-09 05:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by pegs 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
bootcamps are proven to have no long term effects...
2007-03-09 05:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that you Daddy?
2007-03-09 05:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋