I was trying to help her do some image editing, but she got frustrated and then shew blew up and pushed a chair over. Then she screamed at me to "Get out!". I came back down about 15 minutes later, she said "Get the h*** away or I sware I'm going to kill you!". She was is furious, and I don't know how to talk to her without bursting her bubble once again.
Any ideas? (Currently I'm hiding in my back yard shed playing drums and using the computer).
2007-03-09 06:21:53 · 32 answers · asked by dswim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Damn you guys respond fast lol
I'll let her cool off, I need to get to my homework without being bombed.
2007-03-09 06:25:49 · update #1
@ben wa: It's a music shed, I record sh'tuff in there.
Thanks for the answers, I'm going to stay here and wait for a bit. I can call any numbers from here just in case (Skype and/or Gizmo call).
2007-03-09 06:29:24 · update #2
(even more details...)
She has gotten mad before like that, my dad says "Shes just that kind of person". She kicked me when I was about 4 and claims "I never did that".
I have my 19 year old sister in the house, shes here in case anything gets worse :\
2007-03-09 06:31:14 · update #3
@jim a: My dad is acting exactly the same as normal. I asked my sister what was wrong with my mom and she said "It's because dad left late for work". My dad annoys the crap out of my mom sometimes.
2007-03-09 06:35:41 · update #4
Stay there, She'll cool off and say sorry later....
I just did the same thing (yelled at...didn't threaten to kill like some people on here think) to my little guy,.
2007-03-09 06:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweety, I'm sorry to hear that. Your mother should have never said that to you in the first place. If you really do feel threatened you need to call 911 or a neighbor. If you don't feel threatened then give her time to cool down, and that could be awhile, then when you think it's safe to approach her (maybe with a friend or your father), start with telling her you're sorry you made her mad and you hope she'll forgive you. Then you should definitely address the situation of her threatening to kill you. You should let her know that it scared you enough to ask someone for help.
Please be safe and enjoy playing those drums!
God Bless You
2007-03-09 06:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question is has she done this before?
If so, call child protective services and get out. She most likely has a chemical imbalance in the brain that will require medication before you can be with her.
If not, stay away from her for as long as you can. Whatever she is so upset about is not related to you or your actions. When she calms down, she should start acting normal again.
Either way, make sure you have the telephone number to child protective services in your area nearby. She may do this again and you will need to have their assistance.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-09 06:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL SOCIAL SERVICES NOW! (lol) But seriously she maybe stressed overboard and need time to work things out. If this isn't the case, he may be something else. Just watch closely of her but don't crowd her. Notice any changes that have occurred recently and when she cools off talk to her about. If she refuses, don't sweat her, just let her know that you're there to talk to if she needs you.
2007-03-09 07:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get in touch with a close family member or a friend and stay put! Also, you need to get in touch with the police department because your mother has NO BUSINESS threatening you with your life! Good luck and stay safe!
2007-03-09 06:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your Mom is "venting" at you (not about the computer)...but there is something else in her life that has torqued her off....has Dad been coming home late? Does Dad seem especially chipper lately? Do you know if Dad hired that new secretary ? Well...Mom knows..and you just happened to step in the path of this bucket-of-****...advice: See if Dad has any picutures of this new bombshell in his life..and send them to me...no; this won't help you or your Mom...but I'll be happy! Suck it up! It's not always about YOU!
2007-03-09 06:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
call your dad or another adult that you can trust...go to a friends house. If you are really afraid and if she hits you then you need to tell an adult so you and your mom can get help and the abuse will stop...good luck and stay safe
2007-03-09 06:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry she is treating you this way. It sounds like she is under alot of pressure if she normally does not act this way. If she does, she needs to see a Doctor. Try talking to her about treating you this way once she has calmed down.
2007-03-09 06:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from her a couple of hours then if that doesn't work then called the police (if she tries to hurt you).
2007-03-09 06:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by ms.watkins859 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her for a while and give her time to cool off. She will calm down in a while.
2007-03-09 06:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋