Family - March 2007

I wrote dr phil about confronting my mother I want to be able to ask her why she didnt protect me while I was being molested as a child I can talk to her just about general things but I am terrified to talk to her about this I got a call from the show they are trying t convince her to go on the show man I feel really crazy for doing this but.... I also feel very good am I crazy?

2007-03-09 16:01:58 · 30 answers · asked by iluvhm 2

Alright. My mother-in-law isn't someone that I visit very often before but now it's so boring without her. Like I can live on my own but I used to love eating her food. She was a good cooker and now i have to try to make my own food. I tried making mine like hers but she promised me to teach me how to cook like her but she never did. Man this is boring. I'm not depressed. And I'm not sure why i'm writing this? Waste of time. Ah nevermind. Just say whatever yoyu want.

2007-03-09 15:58:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister, my sister in law and I were supposed to get together about 3 weeks ago. My sister called and said she couldn't make it, on the day it was supposed to happen. I had spent over $100.00 on food and drink. I was mad and very disappointed. I called my sister the next day and told her how typical of her this behavior was. After a week of not hearing from her, I voice my concerns to my sister in law, who says that my sister isn't really mad about the message on her machine, but that I don't get along with her daughter. Well, her daughter is 24, barely works part time, borrows everything (including cigarettes) from her mom, puts her down, back talks, and not to mention that if anyone has a differing opinion on a subject, she will argue, progressively louder, until you surrender. Anyway, a few days ago, I went over to my sister in law's, and my sister was in the kitchen. She stomped down to the basement, until after I left (over an hour). What should I do?

2007-03-09 15:55:58 · 6 answers · asked by michecrawfo1 1

2007-03-09 15:39:22 · 8 answers · asked by ALLWORK 2

No one likes to take about death, or even think about it, but have you thought about what your funeral would be like, or wondered who would attend? Assume you could observe your burial from a 3rd person perspective...what would it be like? What song would play? Would they follow your wishes? What would your epitaph say?

I'm hoping mine will be like my life: small, short-lived, without anyone around, and cheap (As in someone other than my family having to pay for it) without anything to show for it.

2007-03-09 15:34:21 · 6 answers · asked by zelgadiss 4

For a married couple with a good income. And why?

2007-03-09 15:33:30 · 15 answers · asked by Crystal Rene 2

My little 9-year-old brother and I were in the car, just kind of joking around with each other..we didn't get in a fight or anything, but 10 minutes later, he started drawing pictures of my getting eaten by sharks, burning in a fire..just generally pictures of my dying. Then he threatened to stab me with a knife.
I didn't do anything at all to him..and we usually get along. I don't get what's going on with him!! He's been doing that a lot lately. I'm really trying to support him with school and help him out with his problems if he's willing to tell me about some of them, but he just seems to be really weird this past week. Any ideas? Could it be a bully at school or a girl, or what? How can I talk to him about this?
I know very well he would never want to talk to my mom or dad about anything, and I'm the only one he can trust, so I have to talk to him. I just don't know how, I've tried anything and everything possible! Have any advice?!

2007-03-09 15:20:44 · 13 answers · asked by Cosette 2

2007-03-09 15:13:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad wants me to join the air force, but i dont want to,
he doesnt want to pay for my college
what should i do?

2007-03-09 15:12:54 · 9 answers · asked by wats good people 2

She is always nocking at my door, calling me realy early in the morning, she won't take care of her kids, always wants me to watch her kids so that she can go out, The father left her, while she was 9 months pregnate with their 4th child. I just realy feel bad for her being alone with 4 kids.And I don't know how to say No, when she lives right next to me. If I don't answer the phone, she will be banging on my door. Help, I don't wanna hurt her feelings.

2007-03-09 15:07:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help me get a nickname for the name mariah!

2007-03-09 14:55:50 · 12 answers · asked by Someone 1

my parents treat my like a baby and i dont know why! it's so annoying! how can i stop them from emmbaracing me worse than now?

2007-03-09 14:52:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother hasnt showed me affection since I was like 10 and not only that but she started controlling me and mistreating me. I am 24, it hurts not to have a relationship with her and it hurts taht someone I loved and needed with all my heart wasnt present in my life and hurt me.
I know that what she does is not loving, but I dont know what would it be like if she was loving to me. What am I missing?
Please tell me how does your mom shows you affection?

2007-03-09 14:44:10 · 9 answers · asked by Alejandra 1

My parents told me that they quit smoking. But I think they didn't. I basically know that they are lying. I want to confront them, but then again I don't want them to go back to smoking around me. What should I do?

2007-03-09 14:43:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are parents thats taking care of your child, giving your child all the love and foundation of being together as a family, i commend you, may GOD keep your family shielded. But if you're not living with child's mother or if you're not living with the child father, in other words, your child does not have two parents in their household, I commend you also for being the better parent of deciding to taking care of your child. You feel being that child's parent, there's no other way of giving this child everything they need accept of the fact that you're doing this as a single parent and that's wonderful.
Sometimes, in some instances, the other parent just cant be in the same household as the one living with the child for what ever reasons. There are many cases in which the mother doesn't want anything from the childs father due to problem between the two, vise versa and would rather recieve the child support and be done with it. I dont have any kids and i dont understand this...

2007-03-09 14:42:31 · 10 answers · asked by B. Gregory 2

My parents and my girlfriend's parents are friends. I known her when she was born and she know me when I was born. I found her very attractive when she is 7 years old. She liked me also. so we gotten together as boyfriend / girlfriend since age 8.We are now both 17 years old and we both love each other so much. We didn't graduate from high school yet. 2 months ago, we had sex. and now, she is pregnant. The wierdest thing is that I used the withdrawal method. I would never leave her. She's the only girl for me. Our original plans was to get married after we graduate from college. How do I explain to my parent's and my girlfriend's parents? I have a job. And now, my money is going to our future baby. I don't want to start a family yet. I was going to start a family with her when we got married. What do you think I should do?

2007-03-09 14:36:10 · 10 answers · asked by KHCOM 1

Iam an only child and want to know how it is like to have brothers and sisters.

2007-03-09 14:31:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I AM AN INDIAN CITIZEN. BOUGHT A PROPERTY IN THE NAME OF MY FATHER, BEING A HEAD OF THE FAMILY AND OUT OF AFFECTION OVER HIM. MY FATHER (DONOR) SETTLED THE PROPERTY IN MY MINOR SON's NAME (DONOR's GRAND SON) BY EXECUTING A REGISTERED GIFT DEED APPOINTING MINOR's FATHER AS GUARDIAN AND MENTIONING THAT THE PROPERTY WAS PURCHASED BY USING YOUR (MINOR) FATHER's (DONOR's SON) MONEY. AFTER THAT HE PASSED AWAY. DONOR HAD SOME DEBT AND HAS NO OTHER PROPERTY LEFT IN DONOR's NAME.
THE QUESTION (1) CAN A MINOR PROPERTY BE ATTACHED? AND
(2) CAN THEY SUE ME?

2007-03-09 14:29:19 · 4 answers · asked by subbarayan v 1

A sibling has harbored intense hatred and jealousy against me for many years and has acted on it in many ways that are very hurtful to me. This sibling's incessant defamation has resulted in very heavy losses of family in that I am no longer included in any family events. Where there is an overlap of membership in groups such as church this sibling relentlessly spreads negative information about me. I am put at a distinct disadvantage because people snub, ignore, look askance and I don't know the reason. How would you handle this?

2007-03-09 14:28:48 · 3 answers · asked by firstyearbabyboomer 4

i mean you wouldnt call her dad but what would a child call her i am at a loss because i have only know one lesbian couple to make it to this point and the child called one mom the other mia and i like that i just wondered if there are other names in use that i might have a look at

2007-03-09 14:28:13 · 23 answers · asked by jackie 1

My spouse has four sisters and one of them has three children..all different dads..She does not know who the father is of her oldest,The second one lives with his dad in not so stable conditions and the 3rd ones father is in the picture. She is going after the dad of the youngest for child support but doesnt pay child support for the one that lives with the father(which could really use that money considering where they are living) ..that is so not fair, why is it when women have a kid everyone thinks itis right for the man to pay but when it's the man that has the kid it is not expected for the woman to pay? This past summer is where she left her son to live with his father in a grungy hotel bar with no stove no fridge and they also rely on soup kitchens to eat most of the time, just to move outta town so she could be with a man, She's jealous that her son that she left behind comes to our place 1 weekend of every month to spend time with us Now she quit calling him because of that..

2007-03-09 14:20:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know what people think a stay at home mom is supposed to do.

2007-03-09 14:17:28 · 23 answers · asked by santobugito 7

Sadly as is stereotypical in movies, my fifteen year old cousin does not get along with his stepfather. He calls me frequently for advice, but other than common sense somewhat cliched words of wisdom I really have nothing to offer him that hasn't been tried already (such as trying to see it from his perspective or trying to find similar interests, etc). The tension between them, which they're both at fault for making worse at times with verbal baiting and goading during their frequent arguments, is placing his mom in a very awkward position and putting a tremendous strain on her relationship with her husband. I know she's run out of ideas and is swiftly running out of hope in many respects. Stepdads, stepkids, what methods have you found helpful in trying to reach a happy medium? Right now it's too much to ask that they form any kind of friendship (I'm not sure they ever will), but what might I suggest that will help them coexist more civily?

2007-03-09 14:12:56 · 5 answers · asked by JM 2

I know this has been an ongoing debate about which is harder, going to work and raising kids or being a stay at home mom. Just wondering what some of you thought about it and why. I used to work full time with 2 children, do ALL the cleaning and half of the cooking, plus I was the driver to and from daycare and getting them ready every day and then going to work. So I can say i've done it both ways and I really think staying at home is harder. There is no relief. You don't get a day off, a sick day, you take your work with you on vacation, and so on. Yes you can PAY a sitter to get away. It's the only job I know that you don't get paid to do, and you have to pay to take time away! LOL!!!

2007-03-09 14:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by nymom 5

i dont get why my parents are still married. they dont really like each other, my mom doesnt even like talkiing to my dad. my mom told me last summer she was cheating on my dad with a guy she worked with, then when i told my dad, she lied and said she was joking but i know her and she wasn't. i know she still cheats on him with that guy, by the way she talks to him on the phone at work and how she always tries to hide her text messeages when someone walks by, and also when i see that guy he won't look at me in the eyes. does anyone else just wish there parents would end a pointless relationship?

2007-03-09 14:03:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She drives me insane!!! We share the same bed and she always has her stuff spread out all over it.

2007-03-09 13:58:11 · 10 answers · asked by saden 1

2007-03-09 13:50:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-09 13:44:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm planing on visiting my brother this weekend and i have already challenged him to a game to see who could take the most bacardi 151 shot without passing out or puking.

my question is, is there any other drinking game my brother and i could play?

2007-03-09 13:38:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

is this the result of our childhood seeing nothing but domestic violence and abuse,and being forced by parents as young kids growing up to act like nothing has happened to everybody?

2007-03-09 13:38:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous